Only WhatsApp because of my family. Not much of a choice there…
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I tried to convert everyone to signal, but know-betters with opinions decided “we just like it better”.
Never mind the ongoing data-rape by that app…. We ‘just’ likeitbetter.
I think people prefer the one everyone is at. Makes sense. For social media, what matter most is social capital. People only migrate when they feel that the majority will migrate. Some are more sensitive and migrate sooner. But never when there isn’t a trend.
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I've told all my friends to only talk to me on Signal, and they both do.
I got off Facebook 10 years ago, never got entangled with anything else.
Everyone here pretending like the FB marketplace isn't the best option for used items now that CL is dead
Yeah but you just use your spouse's facebook acct for that
Haha, yeah, I don't use Facebook or anything, but my partner absolutely uses marketplace and "buy nothing" groups on there.
Did something happen to Craigslist or just old age?
In my area it's aged out. People that use CL are either scammers or trying to make a quick buck, as opposed to the FB marketplace which has both of those PLUS people who just want to get rid of shit and have no idea of the value or don't care about the value of their items.
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I got rid of facebook when Edward Snowden dropped his info. Never used the other services and never will.
Yeah, mostly Instagram and Messenger. All of my friends are on both so I don't really have a choice.
And yes, before you ask, I tried to push everyone to signal and failed.
I'm right now downloading all my pictures so I can delete my Facebook and Instagram accounts... 1) I'm transitioning so it seems like a good time to disconnect myself from all the embarrassing photos of me as a teenager and 2) Facebook is just full of utter garbage these days anyway.
Facebook is still where nearly everyone is though. Your feed is what you make of it. They have a feeds section in your tabs that only shows your friend's posts in chronological order.
Congrats on your transition btw. I'm happy for you!
The only person I know who really uses Facebook a lot is my dad 🤷
(Also thank you 😁)
I have an Instagram, by which that means it's been abandoned but not deleted (was created by pressure from an ex anyway) Otherwise nah, I don't use any of them. They just don't really provide anything I want or care about.
I have not had a FB account since 2015. Just decided to delete it one day and never returned. Never had an insta. And definitely not signing up for threads.
Whatsapp is ubiquitous in my country, so while I try to use Signal with as many people as I can, I do use Whatsapp at least every couple days. Never had Instagram or Threads. I have an inactive facebook account.
Actually checked my Facebook feed recently out of curiosity. It's amazing how dead it is these days. I could scroll for ages and none of the posts were from people on my friends list, or even pages I liked. Everything was just generic shit.
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Why not count Oculus product?
Anyway I still use WhatsApp as most people I know uses it.
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I never did. In my 25 years of using and working with computers, my only social media accounts where Twitter (deleted since 5 years), reddit (deleted) and now the fediverse.
And I never give people my private mobile number if I know that they use meta apps
Only Facebook because I'm forced to in order to talk to my mom who helps me financially and she's not tech savvy enough for anything else.
I deleted my Facebook account in 2010 after Zuck's "stupid fucks" comment and never touched a product that I could associate with them since.
Still?
That implies I ever did...
No. They're a privacy disaster. They foster misinformation, hatred, and violence. They have repeatedly lied to the public, national governments, and even their shareholders. A lot of my friends and family still use them heavily, but I refuse to deal with them anymore.
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No
No, not at all. That said, I also don't use anything by Apple, I have to use Microsoft Teams but I do that in Firefox, and while I use Android it is a custom ROM, so the lack of Meta is not surprising.
Nope. Quit facebook years ago, never had insta or threads. Wanted to get an Oculos but hell no.
Yes, reluctantly, and only weekly and in incognito mode on this one laptop.
So many things regarding my kids' spare time activities are organized via facebook.
Nope. I only used Facebook, but I deleted my account when I was around 12.
I have FB only because I have friends who communicate primarily through messenger. They have shit cell signal where they live, so they use messenger on wifi. I told them they have different options, but they like messenger so whatever lol. I'll deal with it because I love the fools and enjoy their company lol.
There are a couple of people in my life who prefer to communicate via WhatsApp, and my immediate family has a group chat in Messenger. Other than that, nope.
I check facebitch every once in a while, but I never post. Last status update was like 6 years ago. I have an Instagram too, but log in maybe once every 6 months. I honestly don't see the allure of it since they started selling all our data, I felt no need to give them anything to sell.
I check Facebook about quarterly for messages from people who don't know I don't use that platform. That's literally the only reason I keep my account active. I also have all notifications turned off and don't have the phone app, so if someone contacts me on there that I'm not expecting, they'll be waiting a while to hear back.
Seems like we're outliers here 😄 I keep it for those acquaintances who aren't important enough to merit texting directly, but still might want to message me on messenger every now and again. Check in with it once every couple of months and see if anyone messaged me, scroll through the feed, get annoyed at all the "memes" and then exit.
There's a new extremely annoying trend where a post at a "local" company says "hey we need to offload this expensive item, type @highlight in the chat to enter" which ends up pinging your entire friends list. Very annoying, super scummy.
I stopped using Facebook in like 2008 but for work reasons, I have a Facebook account called “[My first name] Dev Account” and the profile picture is “I do not use Facebook” in like 8 languages. People tag it in photos.
I've been on Instagram since it came out and still lurk despite it daring me to quit every time I open it
I use Messenger because of inertia. I've had it for over a decade and all my shit is on there, including how I met my girlfriend of 6 years.
I use WhatsApp and Instagram aswell as my quest
Nah, never did
Curious as to why not count the Quest?
Mostly because it is the only Meta product I use daily. Facebook might be used once in a blue moon just so I can try and contact my best bud if I don't see him log into Steam in a while.
Even more curious as to if anyone here regularly does work in VR with the thing or has meetings in Horizon Worlds. I find this idea amusing thinking how a boring ass office meeting could be made a little more fun if everyone is some random cartoon character or dinosaur or 3D geometric shape.
Not my thing. Has Faceboot for about a week or so. I am sure if anything important is on there someone will tell me.
WhatsApp with close family Facebook for distant family, neighborhood hoa, and things i like to follow like animal shelters. I made an Instagram years ago but never used it and deleted it when i switched from r/ to lemmy. One funny thing - Facebook has the wrong birthdate for me. It used to be correct and now it's not. Could it have picked it up when i entered a fake birthdate on a cannabis or alcohol website??
Never had an Insta or Threads. Haven't touched my Facebook in almost 12 years, the last time I logged in was to send a message to my wife back when we were long-distance dating.
Using Instagram, Messenger and WhatsApp almost daily. Facebook not so much anymore.
I have Facebook soley for Fb Marketplace
- Pegasus (Coming soon!)
Not for years now, and I’m very glad for it
Messenger because everyone I know is on there.
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