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True spicy unpopular opinions. There's just something about them that always gets people riled up and they always feel that they've got to attack it because they're emotionally charged.

And no I'm not talking about unpopular opinions made for edgy purposes like "DEM *****S SHOULD BE BACK IN PLANTATION!" shit. I'm talking more thought out, articulative kinds and opinions that just come out of someone's belief against the major tide of the hivemind.

I've spoken of opinions on Reddit, on here, on Facebook and a couple of other platforms. Everytime it's the same thing, people are attacking it and unable to engage in a discussion. They always assume I'm just here to listen to myself talk and just looking for people to only agree with me.

I don't give a fuck whether or not you agree with me. Opinions aren't facts or anything. But I don't have the patience for emotionally-charged people that's going to come on in and just throw down for no reason.

So I think nobody is ready to handle these kinds of thoughts.

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 20 hours ago (3 children)
[–] gedaliyah 14 points 20 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Vandals_handle 6 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I did, does that make me a nobody?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 19 hours ago

Makes you a heretic!

[–] Rhynoplaz 8 points 19 hours ago

This is the ONLY thing I expected here.

[–] thenextguy 2 points 15 hours ago

Our chief weapon is surprise.

[–] NineMileTower 17 points 17 hours ago

My unpopular opinion is that AskLemmy posters should have to submit their questions and then post their relevant rant in a comment as to not take away from the discussion with it.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Only a small fraction of the worlds population actually needs to work so everyone can live free and without being hungry.

The electrician, the carpenter, the plumber, etc. should be the wealthiest humans, not the banker and CEO.

[–] AngryCommieKender 2 points 16 hours ago

Doctor, farmer, teacher/professor. They're literally working for the future of humanity.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 21 hours ago

Very meta - An emotionally charged rant about emotionally charged opinions

[–] [email protected] 8 points 18 hours ago

Getting robbed at gunpoint/knife edge i guess?

[–] shyguyblue 8 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

To answer the post title and ignoring the wall of text:

Long vacations in other countries. You're not ready to be away from "everything" for that long, and culture shock is a thing, even for us woke lefties...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 18 hours ago

I don't really mind culture shock, unless that shock is a sanitary one, but i won't be and will never be ready to left home for that long because i will either think of my work or my home or my cats.

[–] JubilantJaguar 2 points 19 hours ago

wall of text

That's unfair. Picket fence.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago

Having their first child. You'll never be ready.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 20 hours ago

The opinion that no matter the healthcare system, drawing the line on what gets and what doesn't get covered is necessary. "Money per year of quality-adjusted life" is a good enough metric to have these discussions among the general public. How much more taxes/insurance fees are you willing to pay, or how much are you willing to cut from other important things such as education, for better healthcare when every addition is met with diminishing returns, is a discussion that should be had. "Just cut from " is a cowardly way to avoid the discussion.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago

second trump administrations.

[–] FourPacketsOfPeanuts 6 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I enjoy 'free' debate where I can be the devil's advocate for unpopular opinions. Talk like this is more or less banned on Reddit. Lemmy is a much freer. I think the are sensible boundaries on certain topics where debate must not turn into advocacy. This takes nuance and good sense though. Completely dead on Reddit, still alive here. So carry on..

[–] cheese_greater 1 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

Do you actually feel conviction behind the claims and arguments, or is it more performative? I have people in my life who take it way to far almost to the point of chronic bad faith and making them annoying to talk to about anything...

[–] FourPacketsOfPeanuts 2 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Do you actually feel conviction behind the claims and arguments, or is it more performative?

Yes. I think what happens in many difficult topics is people know how they feel but have never really thought through the detail. And because of that they backfill with black and white thinking that I think is bad for several reasons.

I) often even though I agree on the central issue, the black and white thinking contains overreactions that I disagree with that in themselves cause other problems. So I see value in developing an emotional black and white view into a nuanced dark grey / off-white view.

ii) black and white thinking leaves us ill equipped to understand others or find compromises

iii) although we all do it, relying on strong emotional convictions is fine for day to day life but leaves us out of practice articulating exactly why we think things should be a certain way and therefore vulnerable to articulate bad actors

I would never take a contrary view just to be annoying. And I generally only do it on moral issues, not matters of strong consensus that would veer into conspiracy. (E.g. practising reciting the evidence for why we understand the Holocaust is real is a useful historical skill but not the kind of thing I'm talking about)

[–] Damionsipher 0 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

If you eat meat (especially beef or pork) more than once a month you are not an ally in the fight against climate change. Towards that end, meat should be taxed at higher levels than cigarettes or alcohol (in Canada).

[–] [email protected] 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Many measures against climate change won't be accepted since it would have major impacts on people's life choices even if the pollution is being done by major companies.

[–] Damionsipher 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Yup, we should be taxing fossil fuels like crazy and putting those funds directly into green infrastructure, but "mah truck!".

[–] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Part of what sparked the yellow vest protests in France was an increase in fuel taxes.

[–] Damionsipher 1 points 16 hours ago

I'd be willing to wager a larger percentage of those protesting the increased fuel costs are also "very concerned" about climate change.