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What are people never ever ready for? (kbin.melroy.org)

submitted 21 hours ago by [email protected] to c/asklemmy

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True spicy unpopular opinions. There's just something about them that always gets people riled up and they always feel that they've got to attack it because they're emotionally charged.

And no I'm not talking about unpopular opinions made for edgy purposes like "DEM *****S SHOULD BE BACK IN PLANTATION!" shit. I'm talking more thought out, articulative kinds and opinions that just come out of someone's belief against the major tide of the hivemind.

I've spoken of opinions on Reddit, on here, on Facebook and a couple of other platforms. Everytime it's the same thing, people are attacking it and unable to engage in a discussion. They always assume I'm just here to listen to myself talk and just looking for people to only agree with me.

I don't give a fuck whether or not you agree with me. Opinions aren't facts or anything. But I don't have the patience for emotionally-charged people that's going to come on in and just throw down for no reason.

So I think nobody is ready to handle these kinds of thoughts.

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[–] shyguyblue 8 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

To answer the post title and ignoring the wall of text:

Long vacations in other countries. You're not ready to be away from "everything" for that long, and culture shock is a thing, even for us woke lefties...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 19 hours ago

I don't really mind culture shock, unless that shock is a sanitary one, but i won't be and will never be ready to left home for that long because i will either think of my work or my home or my cats.

[–] JubilantJaguar 2 points 20 hours ago

wall of text

That's unfair. Picket fence.