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submitted 14 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) by Clinicallydepressedpoochie to c/asklemmy
 

Just so you know I'm judging everyone in this thread.

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[–] Donebrach 2 points 4 hours ago

If I can find them I know they are a bad sneaker so I will avoid.

[–] RBWells 2 points 4 hours ago

What, or who?

Comfort - wise I want long enough without being too big in every other direction. If I want to run in then, zero drop or close, not over constructed, comfortable out of the box. If I want to wear them for looks, it's just Converse, always. I don't need support and they fit fine and look ok.

[–] QualifiedKitten 2 points 5 hours ago

Comfort, which to me usually means:

  • good arch support
  • women's wide or men's standard (theoretically the same thing)
  • not a "stability" shoe (likely makes my supination worse)

I'm also a child who hates tying my shoes, so a style that's intended to slip on and off is preferred, but I can switch to elastic laces instead.

[–] JoeTheSane 3 points 6 hours ago

Usually a foot, but also sometimes a balled up sock that’s gone missing. Spiders, if I’m camping.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago

Spiders and water. I don't want to find them so I look for them.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 10 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 hours ago

I am more for sneaky sprint, because I don't have the super jump ability.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 hours ago

Comfort. I got into Atoms during the pan. At the time, they let you order different sized shoes because most people have slightly different sized feet. I got 10.5" on the right, 10.75" on the left. Best shoes I've ever owned.

I assume they're having financial problems because they stopped allowing that and they haven't replenished inventory for my sizes for six months or longer.

[–] Majorllama 4 points 9 hours ago

All black.

Soft squishy insoles.

Skater type shoe.

Will last more than a year.

Less than 100 bucks.

I have no brand loyalty. It's whatever checks those boxes and I'm vibin with the one time I accidentally walk into a shoe store every 5 years.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 13 hours ago

And comfort!

[–] spittingimage 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Birds.

One morning I got up and found an explosion of feathers in the entry. I mentally said goodbye to the owner and decided it must be the smallest cat - because there was no sign of the bird and she eats everything.

Imagine my surprise when I went to put my shoe on and there was something soft and warm under my foot. There was a still-living, apparently unharmed, sparrow hiding in my sneaker. I released it outside and went on my way.

Not the most pleasant experience, but I'm luckier than my mother-in-law who found one of these in her shoe. They bite when they feel threatened - that's how she found it.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie 2 points 8 hours ago

I like how you never let a good question go to waste.

[–] ccunning 15 points 14 hours ago (6 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago

The Feiyue label and a $25 price tag

[–] IMALlama 7 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Cut to the shape of an actual foot and flexible/minimalistic sole. I live in the Midwest, so I'll compromise some ok sole thickness in the winter. Standing in snow with my kid at the bus stop in minimalistic soles and even thicker socks makes for quick feet.

Shape of your foot? I don't understand why you would want your toes/foot contorted. I do not understand shoes that have a point in the middle of them. Either you're smashing your toes together or your making something stick out in front of your foot that will mess up your gate.

Minimalistic sole? This will get you landing more softly on your heel and help you use the balls of your feet more. It's amazing to me how thick/soft the soles of some shoes are. I suspect they're necessary to compensate for the way a lot of us walk.

My feet feel fantastic and my motion feels very natural.

[–] JubilantJaguar 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Cut to the shape of an actual foot [...] I don’t understand why you would want your toes/foot contorted

So much this! This is literally my criteria 1, 2 and 3 when choosing a sneaker, too.

And there is now so little choice! Bullet-shaped sneakers have basically won the war against foot-shaped sneakers. I get the idea of design memes (think: fins on 1950s cars) but personally this one is completely mystifying to me. After all, sneakers code as "masculine", but what is less masculine than something that looks like a ballet shoe?? I don't get it!

Come to think of it, maybe that's the explanation - maybe it's a corporate plot to make sports shoes unisex?

BTW my two go-to vintage solutions are the New Balance 574 and the Onitsuka Ultimate 81. Coz it seems sneakers weren't shaped like medieval court shoes back in the early 80s! But get this: as far as I can tell, the Ultimate 81s are no longer produced and Asics has replaced them with a carbon-copy "new look" model which seem identical in every way except one - yes, they are now bullet-shaped! It's crazymaking!

For the sake of sanity (and budget) I've decided to give up and go with the flow. Currently rocking a pair of Under Armour which are un-foot-shaped and ugly as hell but comfortable enough.

[–] IMALlama 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

And there is now so little choice!

There has been a consolidation of the major brands, but there's a pretty solid niche market around foot shaped shoes.

Vibrams are the extreme. Birkenstock sneakers are pretty well shaped, but their soles are a bit rigid. I don't mean that in a comfort way, I mean that in a bendable way.

More recent, to me at least, entrants are groundies, xero shoes, Barebarics, belenka, and a ton more.

[–] JubilantJaguar 1 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

To clarify, I'm in Europe. None of these brands are available in shops, you'd have to order them.

Just the way you guys are reeling off all these names is so American! Reminds me of the trope of asking advice on the internet. "What should I use to clean my shower?" - Americans will list 10 brand-names, Europeans will say "bleach". :)

[–] IMALlama 1 points 3 hours ago

You're not going to find any of those in stores in the US either. Of all the brands i rattled off, the only one you can reliably find here is Birkenstock. However, you're not going to find their shoes or boots. I had to order those from the web.

Xero shoes are a US brand, but I've never seen them in a store here. Groundies are German. Barebaics and Belanka are both from Slovakia.

The internet is a beautiful thing. Yeah, shipping from all over can be a bit slow but with standard measurements it's not hard to order shoes that will fit correctly out of the gate.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago

But there is a lot oft Brands oft barefoot shoes (in Europe) that nowadays dont look ugly anymore and some Brands offer sneakers.

[–] hedge_lord 6 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Width. Most shoes are too narrow and pointy

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

So much so that most people have their feet moulded to be thinner than what they would be naturally and it is normalised.
I also noticed I was actually better at sprinting with sandals ^[for the few seconds before the velcro comes loose], than shoes due to the lack of sideways toe movability.

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[–] thenextguy 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago

Mother would be proud.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 13 hours ago (3 children)
[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart 1 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

You’ve got to check out the B.C. coast.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 14 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 hours ago

My job requires me to be on my feet constantly. I’m looking for all-day comfort, durability, support, overall quality, and a fair price. “Fair” doesn’t necessarily mean “low”. An inexpensive pair of sneakers can cost more over time if I have to replace them every year.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 13 hours ago

The only things i look for in a shoe are small pieces of gravel that sometimes get in there.

But seriously: comfort/ support, and a big 'Ole loop on the back to make them easy to pull on.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago

Print on demand.

If I want a very specific shoe, I can create it.

I want shoes with my fanart of DogDay and CatNap from Poppy Playtime and I will make them exist. One orange one purple both with yellow accents lfg

[–] thenextguy 3 points 12 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago

low price with best quality I can get.

[–] DragonsInARoom 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

They fit and last over 3-5 years

[–] JubilantJaguar 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

This is entirely contingent on how much you wear them, of course.

I get between 6 and 12 months out of a pair when used exclusively (yep, literally exclusively). Wide variety of models tried. The main thing to avoid is a fabric upper too close to the toe.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

The main thing to avoid is a fabric upper too close to the toe.

I've switched to "barefoot" shoes (which should just be called "shoes that fit human feet" IMO), and now I get multiple years of daily use out of one pair.
Like, more than 5 years. Cause the shoe doesn't constantly rub against toes and heel. Cause it, you know, fits.

[–] JubilantJaguar 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

No. Feiyue, Groundies, Vivobarefoot, Tyr, PedTerra, Xero, Lems, Bearfoot, Wilding, Softstar, Freet, ...
Shoes with a thin, flexible sole and wide toe-box.

[–] JubilantJaguar 2 points 9 hours ago

Amazing, some of these really fit the bill. Saving your list for future reference.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 12 hours ago

Price, comfort, quality, looks.

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