this post was submitted on 28 Feb 2025
96 points (94.4% liked)

Ask Lemmy

28769 readers
2520 users here now

A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions


Rules: (interactive)


1) Be nice and; have funDoxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, and toxicity are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them


2) All posts must end with a '?'This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?


3) No spamPlease do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.


4) NSFW is okay, within reasonJust remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either [email protected] or [email protected]. NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].


5) This is not a support community.
It is not a place for 'how do I?', type questions. If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email [email protected]. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.


6) No US Politics.
Please don't post about current US Politics. If you need to do this, try [email protected] or [email protected]


Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.

Partnered Communities:

Tech Support

No Stupid Questions

You Should Know

Reddit

Jokes

Ask Ouija


Logo design credit goes to: tubbadu


founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
(page 2) 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

What's been keeping me going for 20 years is VR. I truly believe we'll see full-dive VR in the next 30 years. I've been watching the progress for decades and the progress is staggering if you look at the big picture. Someday I'll be able to plug into a fantasy universe fully and slay dragons and have epic fantasy adventures. That's worth holding out for.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

You can't piss off the haters if you're dead.

[–] Inucune 1 points 1 day ago

I'll go with what I call the nihilistic safety valve: suicide is a deliberate act, which means you care how your life ends. It then follows that you care too much about something.

[–] singletona 9 points 2 days ago

If you die there is no chance at things getting better in your life here.

If you are alive even if that chance is small there is a chance at things getting better.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

Id rather die for something bigger than me and my mental anguish if im gonna knowingly off myself.

Ive lived through too much shit to make the weakness of the day take me out.

But I'll go when I wanna go too. But it'll be me saying "my time here is done" not in pain but acceptance and peace. Not despair.

Can't let that shit win.

[–] CarbonatedPastaSauce 9 points 2 days ago

It generates a ton of paperwork

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The MOMENT you do, inevitably the world will start getting better.

I would advocate for tuning out of reality over suicide. Move to the middle of nowhere, cut off internet, spend your days chilling and farming. You always have the option of reinterpretation after stuff improves.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I agree, the moment i'd commit suicide the world would be better (without me in it) /s

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

I can tell you with absolute certainty that when it’s no longer a choice, you’ll want to be alive.

So don’t try to sudoku yaself. You would likely severely regret the decision as your life is ending.

Life can be really hard at times, but it can also be really good at times. Time is fleeting. Life is the good and the bad. Without the bad times, you wouldn’t be able to feel how good the good times are.

Whatever you’re going through, take care of yourself during this time, and you’ll come out okay.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

That next great show is only like 5 years away

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Taking action takes effort.

[–] Brkdncr 4 points 2 days ago

Who is going to change the smoke alarm battery?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Do a jihad but instead of it being for something stupid, like religion, do it for a good cause. Like polar bears. Or owls. Or the poor.

load more comments (2 replies)
[–] jordanlund 6 points 2 days ago

R. Buckminster Fuller asked that same question as he contemplated throwing himself into Lake Michigan. He was broke, in debt, jobless with a wife and small family.

The only thing he REALLY had was life insurance, which made him worth more dead than alive.

His experience is worth reading:

tl;dr - He made a wager with himself that there was some larger purpose to his life. He went on to hold 28 patents and became the inventor of the Geodesic Dome. Bucky Balls are named after him.

https://medium.com/@bbirdwell4711/why-buckminster-fuller-is-more-interesting-than-you-thought-f9d213eb0cb7

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buckminsterfullerene

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think Albert Camus' Myth of Sisyphus addresses this somehow.

[–] Fashim 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Somewhat, it seems reasonable for one to throw their life away if they come to the conclusion that it has no meaning or purpose yet they are constrained by human nature to search for it.

Camus argues that we should revolt against this and embrace life regardless of how meaningless it is, he uses Sisyphus as a comparison to the absurdity of all this, pushing the boulder up the hill and watching it fall back down again is the only life, a meaningless one, that Sisyphus knows yet he is still able to find purpose in it and revolt against the gods.

EDIT: I realise I've essentially paraphrased the Wikipedia article, so apologies

Camus is great, and the Myth of Sisyphus is definitely worth a read especially for those with existential despair but I don't think it's a panacea for the causes of suicide unfortunately.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

If you fail you'll live an infinitely worse life that isn't worth risking. And if you're going to make a rash decision then make one less rash like changing your entire name or applying to new jobs (amazon hires anyone) or dropping out of college

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

it's gonna happen anyway without even trying, and in the meantime I can do a whole bunch of interesting drugs.

[–] Bruhh 1 points 1 day ago

My backlog of games.

[–] steeznson 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

There's always the next MCU movie coming out! You can grab a cheeky nandos afterwards with that one friend you've kept in touch with from school - but don't spend too much! Need to keep up on the mortgage for the new build starter home with astroturf lawns you are locked into paying for for the next 25 years.

Maybe this will finally be the year for sports team to win something!

[–] Idontopenenvelopes 5 points 2 days ago (3 children)

5meoDMT. Do it first then decide.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

This but good ol fashion LSD and mushrooms

[–] ivanafterall 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Also get in (at least something close to) your peak shape and be lusty at least for awhile before you die. It's a trip.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

The endorphins alone are worth it

load more comments (2 replies)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

There are great cultural goods to be experienced. Also creating stuff feels good.

[–] Ceedoestrees 4 points 2 days ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

With the right attitude, you can find someone who will end it for you.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] vane 3 points 2 days ago

To look out at the ocean, hear the waves and birds, walk barefoot on the grass, run naked in the rain, climb the mountain, unite with nature.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Because bad times dont last for ever!

[–] thejoker954 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Going on about 20 years of bad times for me.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

The one that kept me alive was that I couldn't make the world better for others, even in a small near-insignificant way, if I were dead. And it would be a bit pointless to die if everyone else is still going to live a life of suffering, especially as I can't be sure reincarnation isn't true.

[–] PP_BOY_ 3 points 2 days ago

Ammo is expensive and I can have more fun drinking and get the same result later down the road anyway

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Because even when life throws you lemons you can still taste.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Because you have a destiny and a purpose way beyond your current comprehension and it is so much bigger than whatever misery you are feeling at any point in life. You have to find what that destiny and purpose is, believe me, because otherwise it would only be a massive opportunity squandered. Let me explain - you are the universe itself, so incredibly lucky to be able to come alive, with an opportunity to experience and appreciate the universe itself, there is a much bigger connection you have to the stars and to all that has life. If you are true to yourself and chase what your heart desires and remove all the noise, you will find your purpose, also called self-actualization. Not to mention you are living in the most comfortable, connected, beautiful time any species including humans was ever afforded. On separate note, it is very understandable and valid if you feel like shit given the current affairs, but if you believe me, this had to happen, and this only means better times will be here sooner rather later.

load more comments
view more: ‹ prev next ›