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I have a close friend that I've known 20 years who became obsessed with right-wing politics. even though I'm liberal, I don't make it my entire personality and life. But anyway... I was talking to him this morning casually like friends do.

Me: "Hey man. Do you have off today for MLK day?" Friend: "No, I have to work today." Me: "Damn, sorry to hear. I have off today since it's a company holiday." Friend: "Yeah, I work for a living. Guess that's the difference me and people who live in an ivory tower." Me: "Uhh I work for a living too. Idk why you're acting like I don't?" Friend: "I didn't mean you specifically. But you’re off and I’m not so it shows that you get to relax at least. You should be able to handle the truth lol. There's no shame in admitting that I'm a harder worker than everyone else. you shouldn't be so sensitive"

Honestly, he's not unique, either. I've met so many people who are conservative, obsessed with right-wing stuff, and they're all like this. They act like they're special and the whole world is lazy, "no one wants to work anymore" attitude.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

There is no better measure of your worth to a conservative than how many hours you are willing to work in support of the 1% becoming even richer.

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[–] SoftTeeth 23 points 14 hours ago

Religious conservatives are trained from childhood to unwaveringly believe things that can't be proven, and teaches that malice is the only acceptable way to get dopamine.

[–] Sam_Bass 13 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago

Well, and the coldness inside too ❄️

[–] RememberTheApollo_ 53 points 17 hours ago

Typical conservative reply: it’s your fault you’re offended that I was an asshole.

[–] [email protected] 55 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

The conservative people that run my job think they're funny or something. We get a the standard holidays off but if the 4th of July or whatever falls near a weekend they'll swap another holiday to make it a 4 day weekend.

The only holidays they "trade away" are MLK day and Juneteenth... Funny that.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 17 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago

Ray sees 'em.

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[–] [email protected] 146 points 21 hours ago (5 children)

The funniest thing about conservatives is how they'll complain the left are a bunch of snowflakes, but you say a single word like trans and they'll probably explode into a million pieces because you said a bad word that scares them.

[–] Rhynoplaz 84 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

I was reading a standard celebrity obituary article the other day. It was an actor nobody really remembers and it mentioned his family and the shows he was on.

In the comments someone said something like:

I don't know why you had to mention his husband!!! Why does everything have to be so woke?

Sure, pal, if he had married a woman, everything would be ok, but since he had a husband, we need to pretend that he doesn't exist around you so you don't feel icky?

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[–] Sanctus 44 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

Mentioned COVID tests around my dad cause my brother was going to see my Aunt sick with an aggressive cancer. He exploded about how COVID is fake and the Flu will kill her too..... Shes sick with cancer, dude.... Shut the fuck up....

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[–] DuckWrangler9000 24 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Lol this same person once told me that he doesn't support LGBT or Black lives matter or any of that because he doesn't agree with those communities and thinks that they are hateful

[–] [email protected] 19 points 17 hours ago

They are hateful of him. And should be.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

It’s cause they never know what trans people are packing, and a penis scares them more than a gun.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

I love telling transphobes that they're only mad because the ladies' dick's are bigger than theirs.

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[–] [email protected] 42 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

What a loser. I hate people like this. We are all working hard you fucking dunce. Get your head out of your ass.

[–] FilthyHookerSpit 10 points 14 hours ago

People like this are just primed to make up their own reality. Rather than face the truth that he has a (probably) shitty job, his mind instead translates it to: "those people are lazy, I'm a hard worker. I'm working a holiday because I'm a tough man and can handle it"

[–] Jamablaya -2 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (2 children)

IDK, do you often act like you're way smarter than him, based on nothing but political differences, and he's getting sick of it? Just look at your story here, it's written all over it.

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[–] [email protected] 164 points 22 hours ago (4 children)

If you’ve known him for 20 years he should respect you enough that you can tell him he’s being a cunt. Coming from you it should mean something, and maybe he’ll take a look at himself. I’m friends with some right wingers who are decent people but folks like that need to be called out.

[–] gofsckyourself 64 points 18 hours ago (25 children)

I’m friends with some right wingers who are decent people.

?

"right wingers" or "decent people"

Choose one, because they are mutually exclusive.

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[–] NineMileTower 88 points 21 hours ago

you shouldn’t be so sensitive

Imagine being so sensitive that someone else having a day off sends you into a insecure tirade about how hard you work. Ditch that loser. Life is too short.

[–] MothmanDelorian 23 points 17 hours ago

The assertion that your friend is a harder worker might not ge true. I have had to work many holidays in retail because my job said I had to not because Im a harder worker.

[–] [email protected] 106 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

its the propaganda they ingest. they are constantly told that everyone brown or poor does nothing but live off the government teat. constantly . despite this being demonstrably not true.

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[–] kryptonianCodeMonkey 78 points 21 hours ago

Company holidays mean you're lazy? Bro needs to get a grip.

[–] [email protected] 60 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Sounds like he's jealous that you are getting a day off and is trying to spin it as you being lazy

[–] [email protected] 9 points 15 hours ago

Yeah OP, it just sounds like an unhealthy coping mechanism. He might just need some empathy

[–] [email protected] 35 points 18 hours ago (3 children)

moist toxic

God damn slightly damp conservatives.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

Soggy toxicity

The globriarchy

The squishy majority

The Damp Keepers

The Moist Boys

South of the Mason-drippin line

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Being a harder worker isn't something to be proud of, friend.

[–] MothmanDelorian 9 points 17 hours ago

That depends on context but if you don't own your company ypu shouldn't be giving your job your all.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 12 hours ago

There is a reason, it's a psychological phenomenon called narcissism.

[–] MyDogLovesMe 15 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

It’s just easier to hate.

People choose easy over ‘better’ as a rule.

…and, it’s just easier to hate and be angry than to work through the prejudices, and inner demons you may carry with you.

Inner work is much, MUCH harder to do. I have done some serious physical labour in my life, so I know what I’m comparing here (including the day in/day out of that life).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago

I don't understand how someone can go their whole life, never taking a look inside.

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[–] [email protected] 53 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

My brother, a right winger, brought his kids up to visit me last summer.

It was at the end of the week that he told me that I hardly work at all. I'm like: Yeah, I have fucking guests in my house. I was still at my desk when I wasn't trying to keep 2 teenaged girls entertained.

He moved his family 1000 miles away and 20 years later is lamenting that they have no relationship with the people he moved away from. (I'm sure it's just a coincidence that this lines up with the rise of "Family" talk from right wingers.) This same guy calls other people "Sheeple".

[–] [email protected] 39 points 20 hours ago

Sounds like him living 1,000 miles away is a good outcome.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 21 hours ago (3 children)

Why is an adutl man concerned about how much another person works...

Also working hard is not a virtue, it is an indicator of poor management

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 20 hours ago

Yeah, conservatives like to randomly plug phrases of propaganda like unfunny inside jokes. Depending on my relationship with them I do one of the following.

  1. Ignore if I'm not that close. Maybe roll my eyes a bit.
  2. Push back on it if we're in the context of world events/news/politics.
  3. If we're close enough, re-direct the culture war bullshit interjections with interjections of class war. If your friend sees it fit to just randomly call society lazy, you can also randomly call the upper capitalist class lazy government-teat sucking hoarders.
[–] RubberElectrons 15 points 18 hours ago

I can't find it, but there was a great meme of a tombstone that said, "worked really really hard". I'd also add that I acknowledge"blue collar" work being tough and important too. That's it.

Let him realize that everyone's doing their best.

[–] Boiglenoight 3 points 12 hours ago

I have friends like this too.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 20 hours ago

"if your position is that you CHOSE a job that makes you work on MLK Day, that makes you a dumber worker".

[–] jaggedrobotpubes 19 points 19 hours ago

Guy's a dumbass because he's taking it on the chin from his boss, acting like it's fine, and then attacking everybody except the assholes. What a little bitch.

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