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[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 minutes ago

That i don't go for enough walks being terminally online.

[–] whotookkarl 1 points 13 minutes ago

Overindulgence with a splash of occasional misanthropy

[–] VirusMaster3073 4 points 9 hours ago

I drink a lot of soda

[–] steeznson 9 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

This is the 80th comment and no one has said "drugs" (unless you count alcohol). Maybe drug addicts have better things to do with their time than browse lemmy!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

maybe drug addicts just have More ubhealthy habits

[–] [email protected] 13 points 20 hours ago

Browsing the Internet on my phone instead of sleeping. It is indeed what I am currently doing.

[–] UnfortunateShort 7 points 21 hours ago

Not sleeping like... Right now

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think people will change their mind when presented with facts

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

Vaping, doomscrolling, not eating healthy, binge drinking sometimes. The usual

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Fucking up my sleep schedule.

Also kinda abusing sleep medication when I get really depressed, I just take a bunch of sleeping pills so I can essentially skip time. Like a free trial of death.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

This minus the pills. I have a smart watch that clearly shows that I don't recover well if I go to bed late, but I always go to bed an hour later than I should ideally go, and always end up sleep deprived. I desperately need to cut this shit out.

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Comfort Eating.

I don't drink. I don't smoke. I tried weed and found it uninteresting and never did anything harder. I exercise regularly.

But I'll still never be the platonic ideal of a "healthy person", because whenever I'm sad, I need processed sugar to feel like a person again. And brother, does life give me reasons to be sad.

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Lots of sitting. Both on my job and in my free time.

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[–] GrammarPolice 29 points 1 day ago (7 children)

I go without changing bedsheets for a bit longer than i should

[–] Num10ck 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

is it that you couldn't remember to? or you knew but didn't bother anyway?

[–] GrammarPolice 2 points 13 hours ago

Nah I'm just lazy. I'm sitting on two months for my current one

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

6 pack of beer almost every night for the past 3 months. Doctor refuses to help me unless I go to rehab, but it's not feasible to spend that much time away from home.

[–] RBWells 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Husband was drinking 3-4 a night and I was freaking out about it, he got it down to 1-2 by not buying it in packs except on weekend. Like he will stop at the corner store and get one beer for after work.

If you buy only one on your way home, instead of a six pack, do you think you would go out and get more, or might it work for you as it did for him?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I managed to quit for a week by buying one at a time plus a six pack of non alcoholic beer. Trying it out again today.

[–] RBWells 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Good luck to you! A beer, a healthy supper, a walk in the night before bed. You can build healthy habits not just unhealthy ones. Do things to replace that beer. Yin yoga is really relaxing too, good bedtime practice.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Usually I'd be three in by now. Instead I mopped my floors and walked the dog. Eating a big salad now. Trying my hardest rn.

[–] RBWells 4 points 22 hours ago

Awesome, that is great progress no matter what. Practice is what matters. Take care of yourself. Not kidding about the yin yoga - slow and cold, with pillows, it sort of tricks your nervous system into feeling safe.

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[–] bunkyprewster 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Consider the medication, naltrexone.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Doc won't put me on it until I'm weeks sober

[–] bunkyprewster 3 points 3 hours ago

Naltrexone (either the oral version or the monthly injection) can be started while someone is still drinking. Might be worth asking again or talking to an addiction medicine specialist.

[–] graycube 25 points 1 day ago

My desk job

[–] MedicPigBabySaver 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Y'all know about Tostito's Queso in the jars? I go through a tall jar per week. I'm sure the strong, hazy IPAs are also not on the healthy food pyramid.

[–] dingus 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Is it the salsa con queso or just a plain cheese? Because for some reason the salsa con queso jars are like crack to me. I can eat a whole jar in maybe 2 days, so I only purchase it very sparingly lmao.

[–] MedicPigBabySaver 2 points 15 hours ago

Salsa con queso... I don't think they do just cheese.

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[–] Acamon 9 points 1 day ago

Comfort eating. Before I got adhd meds I had zero impulse control, so I'd eat nothing or eat everything. I would be 75% through a giant bag of snacks, and I'd be actively not enjoying them and wanting to stop, but I just couldn't. I'd stop and put them away and ten seconds later I'd be back eating, even though I was feeling sick and gross.

On meds, that's stopped and I've realised that my craving for snacks is all about comfort, stimulus, and self regulation, and nothing to do with hunger. But even knowing that, I struggle to bother with other harder but healthier ways of stimulating and relaxing, when I could just eat crackers with thick slabs of salty butter, or alternate between dark chocolate and salty peanuts. It's not the worst, but I'm very conscious of that it's not really about the food and so it feels like a lot of empty calories just to chill me out a little.

[–] spankmonkey 14 points 1 day ago

I eat too much.

It would be too little sleep, but that is society's fault for putting early risers on a pedestal and not being accommodating of night owls.

[–] maudelix 20 points 1 day ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago

Doom scrolling

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

stay at my desk for too long

[–] 2ugly2live 2 points 21 hours ago

Hard to narrow it down to just one. I'd say it's a toss up between my eating habits and weed.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Sitting too much and sugar

[–] Dr_Box 6 points 1 day ago

I've gotten into the habit of eating and drinking things fast because of limited time on break and now my digestive system is in terrible shape

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I clench my jaw day and night, like constantly. Not intentionally, and I wear a mouthguard to protect my teeth at night, but I'm not really in control of the clenching and it causes downstream effects. Some mornings I can't open my jaw all the way. I had the feeling of water trapped in my ear (I thought it was from using the pool at the gym), but the ENT told me it was from TMJ. At least a couple times a week I end up with a headache that starts in my jaw and teeth, radiates up my sinuses, and on really bad days, results in light sensitivity and blurred vision.

[–] Tehdastehdas 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Caffeine increased my muscle tension. Muscle relaxants counteracted it. Now off both, taking lots of magnesium.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 33 minutes ago

Sorry if this is too personal, but I've heard magnesium can cause diarrhea. Does that happen to you? Also, what kind of magnesium do you take, and is your bruxism related to anxiety?

[–] RBWells 5 points 1 day ago

Sitting at my desk at work is probably the biggest health risk I face.

I eat well, exercise, drink moderately (not every day, never more than two, almost always one drink only), don't smoke, have sex every day, manage my blood pressure, really try to be good to my body and do things to reduce anxiety but the enforced idleness of desk job is for sure unhealthy.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Vaping daily and an expensive meal + six pack every Friday night.

[–] Okami_No_Rei 2 points 22 hours ago

Tossup between how much caffeine I drink and not working out.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

Eating at 01:00.

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