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It's a rare example of English being simpler than other languages, so I'm curious if it's hard for a new speaker to keep the nouns straight without the extra clues.

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[–] astanix 3 points 33 minutes ago

As someone trying to learn Spanish I wish there was no gendering in Spanish. It makes the language significantly harder to learn.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

It’s not confusing at all, except in the very specific case of nouns referring to people or animals that don’t have gendered variants.

For example, in my language, the word corresponding to “(a) sheep” has a masculine and feminine form, with the feminine used neutrally. Consequently, when seeing “sheep” in English, I assume the feminine and seeing it used with “he” is a bit of cognitive dissonance.

Similarly, most words for human professions are by default masculine.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

I remember reading a story written in English, and it kept mentioning „the cook“ (no pronoun, no name). My gender biased brain assumed the cook must be male. So I got confused when the pronoun „she“ finally appeared. I had to reread the paragraph to understand what was going on.
Embarrassing and eye opening.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago

Ive spent some times on farms and haven't ever herd/used he for a singular male sheep before.

If its a singular male I would say the ram.

But its just normally sheep, generally female. If you want to be specific its weathers, ewes, lambs or rams.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Not.

English is a very straigh forward to learn language.

Now, an English native speaker learning a gender declining language... oh, how fun to watch.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I find it fairly easy to learn but insanely difficult to master

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

I speak my native language for a couple of decades now and the more I speak it, the more I realize I don't master it.

I can read, write and hold a conversation in English. But if asked, I will say I can get by but very far from even the lowest level of mastery.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Not at all, it makes it simpler, in many cases you don't even need it or is even simpler to convey the gender in other ways

[–] olafurp 10 points 6 hours ago

Not at all, it's easier that other gendered languages since object genders get shuffled up.

[–] frankenswine 105 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

not at all. it simplifies the learning experience by quite a bunch.

one of the more confusing is learning other gendered languages where the gender of some object is different to the one in your mother tongue

[–] [email protected] 25 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

To make matters worse, some languages have the exact same word but with a different gender. Heat in Spanish is el calor but in Catalán is la calor

[–] [email protected] 34 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

To make matters even worse, in some languages the exact same word with different gender has different meaning.

In German:
"der Band", male, = a (book) volume
"das Band", neutral, = ribbon
"die Band", female = (music) band

Bonus: "die Bande" can be a gang, a sports barrier, and (relationship) ties.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago

It's sure nice not having to learn German. I'm a native.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 hours ago

Yeah I basically never thought about the gender of English nouns because there's very few reasons to

[–] Zombiepirate 9 points 10 hours ago

one of the more confusing is learning other gendered languages where the gender of some object is different to the one in your mother tongue

That's something I hadn't really considered. Interesting!

[–] TankovayaDiviziya 14 points 8 hours ago

If you want to be more confused, you should know that some languages have gendered verbs.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

You get used to it. The other way around is likely a lot harder, considering that a new concept is being introduced.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago

Can confirm. English is my first language and I took German in high school; it was basically just memorization for which words get which.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

no, we just learn that "der", "die", "das", "den", "dem" all translate to "the"

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 hours ago

Took German and college and the reverse really sucked with those forms of the

[–] Treczoks 12 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

The nouns still are gendered. Only the article is gender-neutral.

Tarzan is a man. He lives in the jungle.

Jane is a woman. She is visiting Africa.

The elephant is a non-named animal. It eats fruits and leaves.

If you really want to know a confusing issue about the English language, just look at the pronunciation of words. It is more or less rule-free, and all over the place. Don't believe me? Try to read the poem "The Chaos" aloud. Even most native speakers need several attempts.

[–] Tujio 13 points 8 hours ago (3 children)

It still bugs me that Sean Bean's name doesn't rhyme.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 hours ago

That's because Sean isn't an English word.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 hours ago

Not with that attitude it doesn't!

[–] Treczoks 5 points 8 hours ago (2 children)
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[–] JoeKrogan 4 points 8 hours ago

I will read that book again that i read before

[–] [email protected] 19 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (2 children)

Non-gendered wording isn't exclusive to English, it's mostly other European languages that stick to doing that.

There are some languages that don't even have different words for "he" and "she".

Edit: made the wording less asshole-y

[–] Zombiepirate 20 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

Non-gendered wording isn't exclusive to English. Asia exists.

I wasn't trying to imply otherwise.

Thanks for the insight!

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[–] rtxn 12 points 10 hours ago

Try Finnish or Hungarian, even their pronouns are genderless.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Slavic native speaker here.
Not at all. Much simpler, in contrast with German.

There are few gendered nouns, like a spoke(man/woman/person), act(or/ress), etc.

[–] SquiffSquiff 3 points 3 hours ago

These are on the decline these days in favour of gender neutral terms, e.g.

  • Chair/chairperson
  • Spokesperson
  • Actor
  • Firefighter
  • Police officer
  • Paramedic
[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

I find the lack of capitalisation to be worse honestly. A lot of sentences where it is not clear at first whether something is a noun or not

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Capitalisation also makes skimming texts so much easier and faster since you can just jump from noun to noun until you find something relevant. I wish more languages would do it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Zombiepirate 7 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

In German one capitalizes all nouns, proper or not.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 hours ago

Arabic speaker here and now that you mention it, the way sentences can get very long without a way to tell what the fourth "it" in the sentence refers to can be a bit of a pain, as is having to reword said sentences when writing to avoid ambiguity, but what you're thinking of there is declensions more than gendered nouns themselves. I mean gender doesn't hurt to have but it's the fact that in other European languages words change shape depending on their role in the sentence that's making the difference here.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 hours ago

I think it's just that one point where you have to accept things like that exist. Sometimes gendering slips out of your mind, but a lot of people let it slide.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

English is missing quite a few grammatical features that are necessary for understanding of a German sentence. The genderedness (lolwat is that a word?) nouns helps recognise references, as does ~~declination~~ declension of nouns. German (as presumably other languages do) also uses a LOT more commas than English to structure sentences. So if you know what to look for, it can be very easy to parse even a complicated German sentence because everything has a signal attached telling you what it's doing in that sentence.

Obviously language can work perfectly fine without those features or English wouldn't exist. Still, there are frequently sentences in English that would have to be reworded quite heavily to lose their ambiguity, such as when there are several "it"s referenced and you have to take half a second to figure out which one is which. That's when I do sometimes miss my native language's features - but it's also when native English speakers struggle.

Edit: declination vs declension. Go away, I just woke up lol

[–] Canopyflyer 2 points 8 hours ago

English may not have gendered nouns, but it has plenty of other challenges.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago

Some of them are, which is even more confusing.

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