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[–] asteriskeverything 154 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 70 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's funny I've had interactions on dating sites that would be unspeakably vulgar in person but somehow come across as gallant in that context.

[–] asteriskeverything 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly it's the rare exchanges like this that make me wish I was on the dating scene in this era cuz damn that was not a thing in my day. But the rest of it sucks so much, no matter the era lol

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The getting laid part is the best part imo, but you have to want it badly enough to wade through some shit.

[–] asteriskeverything 2 points 1 year ago

Oh. I'm good. Lol

[–] [email protected] 125 points 1 year ago (1 children)

at least they aren't discriminatory...?

[–] [email protected] 186 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah this might be a green flag. Person is being upfront about their needs, they're trying to fuck. It's fine if that's not what you're looking for but if you are, it's fine (imo) to be completely upfront about it.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 year ago

Homeboy is tryna fuck and is communicating clearly and asking for interest/consent. Vulgar? Sure, but still a class act. I hope he got to hit it.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago

Yesss! Oh my god, just be up front about what you want! I hate when people lie about their intentions on dating sites.

[–] IntrepidIceIgloo 71 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That would work with me lol

[–] [email protected] 57 points 1 year ago

aww, this is what true allyship looks like 😊 😊 😊

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago

Hey, clear expectations were set from the very beginning.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Have no words

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Complete lack of imagination. Just want I want, a brainless meatsack on top of me for 5 minutes.

Is this the tinder experience? Might be looking at trans friendly dating apps soon.

[–] Agent641 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Well, give us more to work with, then! What exactly are you tryna get pounded?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

First misstep... I generally do the pounding, friend :* just cuz I'm a girl doesnt mean I'm a bottom xD

Unless you're offering to do housework for me. In that case I suppose a number of things could benefit from a good pounding.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

When 90% of the people you talk to are going to ignore or ghost you, you shouldn't put much effort into trying to impress someone who is, for all intent and purposes, a photo with a name.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I had good luck with a site called Taimi. Not sure if it's still around but it was much better for dating versus the hookup culture of Tinder. I met my partner there and we've been together for years.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Me and who?