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Like autistic people get to be autistic. That's a word, and it has meaning. Someone can be autistic because it's a type of person (spectrumy type). In my opinion, ADHD sucks as an identifying term. It's 3 letters, one repeated. It means nothing as it is spelled and can't be owned as an identity because they're letters, not a word. "I'm adhudd." The initials include "disorder" in it. That sucks. Autistic people don't go around saying, "Hi, I'm austically disordered," cause that's not accepting. Is there a term that is smooth and not judgmental for ADHD? Maybe we can take Aspergers since it got dropped, but add the 'd' to get "Adspergers". Nah, that's stupid af. What about multibrained? I feel multibrained because I act like I've got multiple brains running in my head doing their own thing all at the same time, and I bounce around them based on who knows what.

What? Oh, yes...I'll have the spaghetti bolog-knees. Do you guys have red pepper...crushed red pepper? Yeah, thanks. Cool. I like your name tag. Is that really your name? Samsquatch?...oh! It's Samuel, but you changed it to Samsquatch! I love Trailer Park Boys. Fuck off, Leahy! Yeah. Sorry. I got excited.

Okay. So...um, is there a descriptive word for ADHD that isn't ADHD?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 57 minutes ago
[–] billwashere 3 points 1 hour ago

Hello, I’m unfiltered.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago

If you're medicated you can say "I do drugs." 😎

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago

I just say ADHD'er

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 hours ago

I’m so quirky!

[–] [email protected] 17 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

Neurodivergent, no need to be specific

[–] [email protected] 59 points 12 hours ago (4 children)
[–] hypnicjerk 13 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

absolutely hate this phrase.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Ok, it's your moment. Let's hear it all. Dump it. Why do you hate it?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago

I can't speak for hypnicjerk, but I personally dislike the term because it feels too glib.

I can't do shit because of executive dysfunction and I forget things all the time, that's not "spicy", it's preventing me from having a life.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago

I like neuranno peppers.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 hours ago

This makes me think of Tabasco. Not that it's good or bad. It's neutral. I'm just sharing.

[–] hedgehogging_the_bed 1 points 5 minutes ago* (last edited 4 minutes ago)

I hate this, but I use it because "I'm from a neurodivergent family" sounds worse to my ears that "My whole family is some flavor of neurospicy."

We have 2 ADHD+anxiety, 1 dual ADHD+Au, and 1 dual ADHD+NVLD.

[–] alquicksilver 24 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I like to call it the "ta da!" because the Spanish acronym is TDAH. Who doesn't like being able to say "ta da!"?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 hours ago

remember back in the early days of windows.. like 3.1 era... when windows started, it did that. like "see? i actually booted up!! TA-DA!!"

[–] fartsparkles 15 points 10 hours ago
[–] themeatbridge 31 points 12 hours ago (3 children)

I usually describe myself as "a bit much."

[–] Test_Tickles 3 points 7 hours ago

I started there, but I eventually got to the heart of it now and just say I'm an asshole.

[–] shyguyblue 8 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I'm fine in small doses...

[–] themeatbridge 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Just don't get me started.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

This is the disclaimer

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 hours ago

To that I say "if you think I'm too much, go find less."

[–] [email protected] 27 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

We all tried to come up with a nice concise term for ADHD but ended up writing multi page papers instead.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

I started thinking about it, and thought that adhd kinda looked like a palindrome, which made me think of anagrams and how they're often used as a reveal in bad mystery plots. So I wrote a program to generate anagrams from an input in rust because I wanted to learn rust and never thought much about the algorithms for generating anagrams before. I then hit some complexities with multiple words as anagrams. I'm currently optimizing the dictionary look up by refreshing my knowledge on searching and sorting algorithms.

I expect to make more progress on this task tomorrow.

[–] MilitantAtheist 5 points 9 hours ago
[–] LesserAbe 2 points 8 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago

Not neurotypical? No need to get into specific diagnoses

[–] shyguyblue 8 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I've used "spicy brained" and people seem to get it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

It might be that I am approaching middle age but I wouldn't have got that. I would have thought you were calling yourself hot headed or something. Like you had major anger problems or maybe act kind of unstable. Is it a reference or common saying?

[–] cynar 2 points 3 hours ago

There is the term neurodiverse, which is an easy catch all for neurologically abnormal, but not broken.

Neurospicy is a play on this, spicy vs bland. People have strong opinions on spicy, very few have strong opinions on bland food.

[–] themeatbridge 4 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

I gave a joke answer, but I also have heard the term "kaleidoscope" to describe the shifting mental state, and I liked it. Maybe "kalaidoment"?

[–] Majorllama 5 points 12 hours ago

It's not exactly what you're looking for but I have described having ADHD as like having a TO-DO list except any time something new is added to the list you have to roll a dice and decide which thing on the list you're going to do right now. On the rare occasion nothing else comes up before you finish one task you'll be golden. But if anything should pop into your mind it throws the entire things back into the random TO-DO list which you will then reroll.

This is the perfect visual example of what living with ADHD is like: https://youtu.be/AbSehcT19u0?si=EwsCg-xZVZOpbbLN

[–] Twinklebreeze -1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Masta_Chief 6 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Nah, that's kinda derogatory in the UK (apparently).

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Spaz is short for spastic. There are a variety of disabilities that have spastic symptoms, such as Spastic Diplegia, a form of Cerebral Palsy.

It gained popularity as an insult in the 60s.

[–] Masta_Chief 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

gained popularity as an insult in the 2010s