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Is there a smooth term for being ADHD? (reddthat.com)

submitted 14 hours ago by [email protected] to c/adhd

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Like autistic people get to be autistic. That's a word, and it has meaning. Someone can be autistic because it's a type of person (spectrumy type). In my opinion, ADHD sucks as an identifying term. It's 3 letters, one repeated. It means nothing as it is spelled and can't be owned as an identity because they're letters, not a word. "I'm adhudd." The initials include "disorder" in it. That sucks. Autistic people don't go around saying, "Hi, I'm austically disordered," cause that's not accepting. Is there a term that is smooth and not judgmental for ADHD? Maybe we can take Aspergers since it got dropped, but add the 'd' to get "Adspergers". Nah, that's stupid af. What about multibrained? I feel multibrained because I act like I've got multiple brains running in my head doing their own thing all at the same time, and I bounce around them based on who knows what.

What? Oh, yes...I'll have the spaghetti bolog-knees. Do you guys have red pepper...crushed red pepper? Yeah, thanks. Cool. I like your name tag. Is that really your name? Samsquatch?...oh! It's Samuel, but you changed it to Samsquatch! I love Trailer Park Boys. Fuck off, Leahy! Yeah. Sorry. I got excited.

Okay. So...um, is there a descriptive word for ADHD that isn't ADHD?

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[–] [email protected] 61 points 14 hours ago (4 children)

Neurospicy

[–] hedgehogging_the_bed 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

I hate this, but I use it because "I'm from a neurodivergent family" sounds worse to my ears that "My whole family is some flavor of neurospicy."

We have 2 ADHD+anxiety, 1 dual ADHD+Au, and 1 dual ADHD+NVLD.

[–] hypnicjerk 16 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

absolutely hate this phrase.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Ok, it's your moment. Let's hear it all. Dump it. Why do you hate it?

[–] hypnicjerk 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

it's such a heckin pupper way to describe one of the biggest challenges i deal with in my life. i'm not grim about my neurodivergence but i'm sure not perky about it either.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 hours ago

I can't speak for hypnicjerk, but I personally dislike the term because it feels too glib.

I can't do shit because of executive dysfunction and I forget things all the time, that's not "spicy", it's preventing me from having a life.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 13 hours ago

This makes me think of Tabasco. Not that it's good or bad. It's neutral. I'm just sharing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago

I like neuranno peppers.