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[–] FlyingSquid 8 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

As a mod in other coomunities, please report these as quickly as you can. They can generally be taken care of quickly.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago

I had this aswell. Will do.

[–] Hikermick 10 points 10 hours ago (1 children)
[–] RubberElectrons 2 points 9 hours ago

Imagine unwarping the face 😆

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 hours ago

If you think that's new, come on over to the nsfw side of things. We have a whole cast of zany butts.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

The only girl in the fediverse

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago

I think the ratio of trans to cis women on Lemmy is about even

[–] CrayonRosary 4 points 18 hours ago

She's a superhero. Fediverse Girl!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago

I just got a couple of these today myself.

[–] TheGiantKorean 29 points 23 hours ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 hours ago

I did. I didn’t think it was a catfish though. I assumed it was some person promoting their streaming shit. Kinda smart, a smaller, mostly nerdy community of niche interests.

Doesn’t mean I didn’t block them though.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I can catfish you if you want

[–] [email protected] 12 points 21 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 63 points 1 day ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (6 children)

I really wish we could disable PMs from anyone but admins or mods of comms we subscribe to, like you can on reddit. There will never be a day when I want to receive a PM from anyone on Lemmy. It's nothing personal, there's lots of cool people here, but I'm not interested in being pen pals. I'm just here for the public forum.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 hours ago

Goddamn it. I was just about to send you a gif of my genitals.

[–] CatZoomies 54 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ooh! You sound sexy and I definitely want to be your pen pal! I’ve sent you a DM!

Also, I have a great business opportunity for you if you’re interested! Have you ever heard of NFTs?

NFTs went away for a while because of crime and scams, but they fixed all those problems I swear. NFTs are the sexiest investment a sexy person could make, and they’re even better now that the leaders are implementing AI! It’s going to be revolutionary! It’s like E = Mc2, but now it’s E = Mc2 + AI. It’s the bees knees! It’ll make Stephen Hawking blush! I’ll help broker it for you, and if you send me 1 NFT, I will send you 2 back just because I like you.

Can’t wait for your reply!! ❤️

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago (2 children)

like E = Mc2, but now it’s E = Mc2 + AI

Aaaaaaaa. Thanks, I hate it. You successfully trolled me.

[–] P00ptart 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I also would have accepted E = McHammer

[–] [email protected] 9 points 23 hours ago

The McHammer is my favourite Happy Meal choice

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Just pm'd you asking for more deets.

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[–] MutilationWave 5 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Shame. I've PM'd a few people and had good conversations.

[–] CrayonRosary 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Sure, but did you at least add context about why you're messaging them? Like some comment or post they made that you liked and you wanted to talk about similar stuff?

Because that would be kind of normal. That's what private messages are for. But this one is just bait.

[–] MutilationWave 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah just a question or a word of encouragement or a recommendation so it didn't seem like I was advertising. I like most things to be publicly posted but not everything. If Lemmy gets a bunch of bot spam PMs, legit ones will be less likely to get a response.

[–] CrayonRosary 3 points 17 hours ago

I imagine speed limits will be put on DMs at some point in the future. There's no reason to have it wide open so you can firehose multiple people with the same message.

Like, if you're sending a message to someone and they reply back, you can immediately reply back, back-and-forth, as fast as you want. Other than that, you should only be able to send a message once every five or ten minutes.

[–] RBWells 20 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Got 4 copies of it, I don't even know how to send a message to "all" here, didn't think it was possible.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

okay lol i feel less bad for reporting this user now that i know it was widespread

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[–] winkly 34 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Or come hang out with us at room/hell

[–] ace_garp 1 points 11 hours ago

-- Comedy Heaven

[–] [email protected] 9 points 22 hours ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 21 hours ago
[–] MutilationWave 3 points 19 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

What's with that?

Is a homely looking person supposed to appear less scammy?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago

Its almost insulting. Its like. Hey. If im gonna be catfished it should be by someone who seems way out of my league. thank you very much.

[–] chonglibloodsport 5 points 21 hours ago

Thanks for the heads up! I never PM anyone on social media platforms unless I’ve met them in real life and they expressed actual openness to talking to me.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Yay I feel loved, just got my one of these!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Well you shouldn’t feel loved.

This has nothing to do with you as a person and I would never want you to feel loved undeservedly. Because I care about you.

(Please don’t take my overwhelming kindness in the wrong way and feel as if you’re receiving any kind of love from me. As previously stated, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with me being an excellent person.)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I was being sarcastic ...

It's like saying you feel loved when a bunch of flies are swarming you or when you get pulled out of line to be screened by airport security or you get some weird reply on dumb comment you made.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

I tried to make it as clear as possible I was riffing on your joke. I don’t believe in having to label sarcasm with “/s” because it implies the people reading it are too stupid to recognize an ironic comment.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Sorry my bad, I'm having a shitty weekend and I think my brain has quit on me, I've missed a couple of obvious things this weekend.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 minutes ago

We’ve all been there. Hang tough (or veg out and treat yourself to a good nothing. Sometimes that’s the ticket for me.) Feel better!

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