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[–] [email protected] 2 points 22 hours ago

I usually just go with "this one"; been wrong so far but eventually I'll get it right.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I created a countdown timer on my tablet a while back. I’m down to ~9,200 days.

[–] Kaiyoto 4 points 2 days ago

I try not to think about it.

[–] elfin8er 4 points 2 days ago

It'd be cool to live until 2100 just to have lived in 3 centuries.

[–] Dasus 2 points 2 days ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm looking forward to it. Can't wait.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Right before they find a practical cheap effective life extension & rejuvenation tech.

[–] Rhynoplaz 15 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Not really, but whenever a year in the future is mentioned, I do wonder if I'll be around for it.

[–] Mickey7 5 points 3 days ago

I do the same thing

[–] d00phy 2 points 3 days ago

Same here. I do the math to figure out my age that year, and think about the possibility of living that long. Also if I would want to live that long.

[–] grasshopper_mouse 8 points 3 days ago

My maternal grandmother lived to be 96. My paternal grandmother is still alive and will be 100 this year. Her mother, my great grandmother, lived to be 102. Both my parents are still alive and in decent health in their mid 70s. Baring any severe accidents, I feel like I'm going to live into my late 90s, which I'm not thrilled about. My soon to be 100 grandma has been ready to die for a decade. Her husband died in 1992. All her friends are dead. One of her children is dead. Some of the children of her friends are already dead. She is very healthy and lives comfortably with my aunt and uncle, but she's lonely just the same, and I feel bad for her. Nothing much makes her happy anymore. I know people wish for a long, healthy life, but the idea of outliving everyone you love seems miserable.

[–] ShittyBeatlesFCPres 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Every time I see a climate change sea level rise projection.

[–] idiomaddict 5 points 3 days ago (2 children)

On June 2, 2045, I’ll outlive my mother. My father is still alive and in pretty good health. I think I take after him, but I started smoking again recently. I’m tapering off pretty well though and I’m still relatively young.

[–] Nibodhika 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

That's an interesting way of looking at it. In 2050 I'll outlive my dad, but my mom is still alive. I never smoked but my dad did not die of cancer and my mom smoked like a chimney and is still alive.

[–] idiomaddict 1 points 1 day ago

My mom did die of cancer, but not lung cancer. They both quit when they were younger than I am, but each smoked much more in total than I have, so I think that’s a toss up. Smoking is basically my only unhealthy habit -I don’t even sit very much- but it’s a whopper of an unhealthy habit

[–] Mickey7 1 points 3 days ago

So we might actually land some people on Mars before you die

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Nope. I do however look around me and how other people died and I recognize that if I die at this point its not so young as to be a real shame. Im just at the age where its a little oh wow they died at only X but its not like oh man this person never had a chance at life. Im more scared of not dieing soon enough than of dieing soon. Living a long time in great health is great but living a long time in poor health fucking sucks. This is why diet and excersise is important. Its not about living longer, its about living healthier in the time you got.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

I don't worry about when, only hope and try to make sure things are in place enough so that those I leave behind are taken care of as best as I can. And I hope whenever it happens, it's not some long, drawn out, painful event. Death is fine, the act of dying can suck.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

I tend to not worry about that, I live like expecting I might be around the very next second.

That way I ain't paralyzed by thinking about the futute.

[–] RBWells 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Never thought about it that way before but maybe 2050, 2060, most likely somewhere in there.

What I did think about the other day, though, was that mindfulness really extends your life, the more you pay attention to, the longer each day is, you are there for more of it.

[–] satanmat 1 points 3 days ago

I keep hoping that THIS will be the year. Every Jan 1 I’m again disappointed.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My fam has a lot of people who lived well into their eighties. Based on that, I still have a long ways to go.

[–] Mickey7 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Even though you have a long way to go do you ever think about something that is predicted in the future but figure you will be dead by then

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

No. From what I’ve seen so far some social and environmental things are happening much sooner than I imagined, so it’s hard for me to imagine what might be happening after I’m dead. I usually think more about how much things have changed since I was born and how much things might be different when I die in an abstract way.