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The participation seems way down recently. What did I miss?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 13 hours ago

Well, my guess is people got depressed discussing who is the less genocidal candidate to govern the most military powerful country on Earth.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 17 hours ago

It feels like everything in All is about an election in the USA, and that's really not very engaging to the rest of us. So I mostly hang out in Local for the most part.

[–] IndustryStandard 1 points 10 hours ago

The entire front page is filled with Trump sneezing. Psyop is too obvious.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 12 hours ago

Shii idk what u talkin about i deleted my old reddits and migrated fully 😁

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

Just for me personally - I've tried going back to traditional forums. It's irritating that when I sign up and contribute to a board a few times, I get a temp ban for potentially being a bot

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

The_piccard_manoeuvre is in holiday.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Contrary to certain self-victimizing sentiments, I think that the problem is that the platform is more and more overtaken by the topic of the election (and Israel in reference thereto) and it just results in interminable arguing in circles that accomplishes nothing but wasting time. Regardless of the outcome of the election, I think less-annoying activity will increase afterwards.

[–] Custodian1623 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

A lot of users on here have an unhealthy obsession with bringing up awful events everywhere all the time - donating and raising awareness is good but turning every topic around to be about specific conflicts and political happenstance in a forum already saturated with that content isn't encouraging for other people to engage and probably isn't conducive to mental wellness either

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

federated platform splits userbase into a million little fiefdoms, only somewhat interconnected, all differently starved for interaction

Yup, checks out

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Instances run like communities with communities more like hashtags seem fine.

[–] [email protected] 59 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (15 children)

Yep it's down a lot. I think it's because it's just memes and also quite hard moderation and downvotes. It feels like a reddit clone that has the exact same mindset as reddit. I get annoyed when I see people being moderated for having an opinion that is not popular.

I saw a post being locked yesterday for asking about moderation. Doesn't anyone else see the problem with that? Your channels rules are not more important than making people feel they can talk and express what's on their mind.

I hate that so much. Stop treating people like they are just resources to moderate.

I don't see much discussions. But I'm sure there is a few here and there.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah the aggressive mod removals on a platform that is starved for interaction is dumb as fuck. I haven’t had much of my stuff removed, but when someone replies to me and it’s removed before I can see what they said it irritates me to no end. Let dude make his shitty point so I can engage in toxic online dick wagging stupidity like I want to god damnit.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Turns out the shittest people from Reddit came here and became mods, who woulda thought lmaoooooooo

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[–] j4k3 13 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I've been getting some flags to mod remove some stuff. I read them and look into each one, but I need a damn good reason to take action and I rarely see that. I see some stupid, but everyone has a right to that, or a bad day. There are lots of things I don't like or agree with, but only a terrible mod enforces their opinions or is unable to separate themselves from the role of a mod. A bad mod is a visible mod. Feel free to point them out. People can change, and admin should be made aware. Heck, if it is me, I want to know where to adjust my biases or how to better explain my actions.

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[–] fart_pickle 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I second that. If you express unpopular opinion in the most civilized way, engage in the discussion defending that opinion you will still get banned/downvoted because mod was in a bad mood. I've blocked many big communities because of that.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Feel free to report such behaviour on [email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 1 day ago

I can only speak for myself:

I'm here, still reading and voting, but I haven't posted/commented as much recently.

Life got a bit busy, should be back to normal in a bit

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Eh, I usually just lurk, unless I have something meaningful to contribute (which is rare, my mind is blank and tired most of the time)

[–] iamtrashman1312 2 points 17 hours ago

I'm trying to break my long habit of lurking, I'd like to see the platform grow so I help where I can

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan 33 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The irony is that those those that aren't here can't answer why they left.

[–] j4k3 10 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Mostly making sure I didn't miss some new drama thing or whatnot. Usually those have peripheral observers that will speak up. Friday nights (SoCal) are kinda hit or miss anyways, but we've been trending down a good bit recently.

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[–] BitSound 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've been wondering how much of that is back to school. I have the sense that Lemmy has a lot of younger users. I can't judge though as I've been inactive for long stretches due to life. I've been trying to contribute more now

[–] HonoraryMancunian 4 points 1 day ago

I always get the impression the average user is a millennial

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

For me, life is happening and I just have less time

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

For me, there's just been less posted that I feel I have something to say on. If I see something about programming, networking or tech that I have (probably) some useful info to contribute I will do so. Likewise if there's a general subject I have anecdotal points to make, or I'm just genuinely interested I will comment too.

But otherwise, I just read and move on. There's been a lot more read and move on lately. Maybe because of the upcoming US election for which by and large beyond the fact I don't want the orange shitgibbon (As a fan of the west wing, I like that the spelling checker suggested shibboleth to correct this "typo") to win, I don't have much interest. Mostly because I'm not from the US.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Start of school breaks in some countries in Europe. Could have an impact as people are busy with their kids

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago

i wonder how many ppl on lemmy have children

[–] Lightor 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (20 children)

I mean, it's the ml. People, including myself, have had very bad experiences in ml communities and what I've seen is a general consensus to avoid them. As I type this I even expect it to be removed or at least down voted to hell for daring to say this, as ml does. I can accept the community just isn't for me, but the question was asked.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Don't worry, I'm still here

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

i'm glad you're here :3

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Do you mean in this community or across lemmy as a whole?

As a whole it's because no one actually makes anything unique. It's just reposts. and also because of certain instances that the lemmy developers are fond of

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Just not getting the interesting questions as often afaict.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Life is full of cycles. I’m traveling these days but I’m still here.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Down down to goblin town.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Was immensely busy and focused to finish my university meanwhile trying to get bit of peace through reading books and gaming.

Also nowadays mainly use rss-feed for everything (Blogs, News, Reddit and Lemmy).

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Also feel free to join [email protected]

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

People made too many power user praise posts and all 3 of them decided to take a break

[–] Psaldorn 6 points 1 day ago

Considerably less powerful users, rise up!

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