I don't even have one of these! π©
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Same. That last one has been brutal lately
It comes in waves. Keep surfing, another one will come along.
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What is the oldest you can be and still call yourself a millennial? Google says born in 1980s counts. I'm pretty sure I have all five.
Now excuse me while I avoid work while scrolling Lemmy. ;).
1986 here, and same. A lot of us older millennials have things pretty well figured out by now.
And yet still every year you will make, functionally, less money than the last. You will get poorer and poorer and it took you longer to get settled than the generation before you.
As a younger millenial, please donβt just slip into the same old tired horseshit that the people before you did. Itβs not helping and a lot of millenials are definitely struggling where they shouldnβt have to.
You're making some assumptions here that I won't look for another employer or won't get a promotion. With my promotion and pay raises, my pay did out pace inflation since I started this job in 2019. But, you're correct otherwise.
As a younger millenial, please donβt just slip into the same old tired horseshit that the people before you did
I don't think that's the problem. I think the problem is the same for Gen X and Millenials. Boomers absolutely refused to give up power and would rather die than retire. Feingold died and ruined her legacy, RBG died and ruined her legacy, Pelosi stayed in long enough to lead the democratic party to where it is now (neo conservative), Biden called it quits too late for a true primary basically handing over the country to whom he claimed was an existential threat ruining his legacy, we just elected the oldest person to ever to run for president... We never got our chance to run things. Our voices were crushed by the largest generation to exist. They were the party generation, and I'm afraid Gen Z and Alpha are more the hangover generations. With boomers finally being forced to retire or dying, I think we'll finally have a chance to at least start fixing some of the damage.
And yet still every year you will make, functionally, less money than the last. You will get poorer and poorer and it took you longer to get settled than the generation before you.
No I won't? I get raises above inflation, and I was married with a mortgage in my mid 20s.
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Yeah, these 5 things are at least partially dependent on each other, with some feedback mechanisms. Having healthy coping mechanisms makes it easier to have meaningful relationships. A satisfying career can lead to financial security. So can a meaningful relationship (dual earners with shared expenses tend to be pretty financially resilient). And all of the above can obviously feed into a will to live.
I get some people are hurting, but it probably isn't helpful to try to say that literally nobody has these things. A substantial percentage of us do. Gen Z might be hurting even more, too, so focusing only on millennials is counterproductive.
1980, but it's more about the experience. Did you have a computer when you were young? AOL in highschool? Millennial.
I requested AOL floppies so I could wipe them and reuse them for shareware. Does that count? ;)
You wouldn't download a car, would you?
I was born in 1981 and from what I've seen technically that is the first year people are considered to be millennials. It's kind of a grey area though.
Yeah this is why I disagree with the generation boundaries. I'm technically a millennial but I already owned my first home before the global financial crisis in 2008.
I have 5/5. I've always rejected the idea of traditional goals and instead went out to have fun and enjoy life. Really didn't care; I already was used to nothing and it is liberating. The rest just kind of happened without noticing.
It helps to love yourself and to stay away from stupid.
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane.
I dunno, I'm probably very lucky. I have all five. π€·ββοΈ I'm here if anyone wants to talk. (Probably not though, eh. π« )
One would probably need coping mechanisms for that.
I almost have a couple of these, so I guess you could say I'm doing pretty well for a millennial.
If you feel like you're doing well, don't let anybody, or some list, make you feel otherwise. β€οΈ
What's your career?
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Even if you had those 5 things for a period of time these will fluctuate. Life makes no promises.
I was promised at least lemons, but frankly if I waited for life to deliver I would have scurvy by now...
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I have #5. Itβs called spite when itβs the only one of these that you have.
I have none of the five.
No millennial has a unicorn either (I checked)
I've met a few who did π
Everybody... Disregard my previous comment. Missed this guy
Guess you can say I needed more time to... puts on sunglasses... Gradually adjust
I have none of these things π«
1/5 could be worse sorry for bragging
I mean... is this really just limited to millenials? I feel like... this is a lot more common no matter your generation
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4/5 ain't bad
Not only do I have none of those,they are also in order of importance
1985 here. All but the first one. But my coping mechanisms are way healthier now than a decade or two ago so progress!
Imagine having the first four, but still somehow not making it to the fifth
What if my coping mechanism is denial, which means I believe it to be healthy because I'm denying the negative?
Why do you got to start with such a hard one.
I have #5! Those boomers are going to have to fight me for it.
I'm just missing the first one, but so what? I've got the rest.
Clinging to #5 Working on #1 (hoping it'll be the doorway to at least some of the other 3)
We're still here, that's already a lot :)
2 and 3ish
Millenial and 5/5, I'd say it depends where you live ...
Spawn points!
Wouldn't the first four contribute to the fifth?
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