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I'm scouting for jobs I'd actually enjoy working at as opposed to just "getting a job cus I should get a job". I'm 20 btw, not independent yet, but I'd still like to have a job ya know? The only Job I know of that is mega lax with their dress codes are (i think) Hot Topic and Spencer's. Do you guys have any other places that are similar? I'd like to be able to express my Alt-fashion choices :D

(Please dont be rude or mean in the comments, thank you!)

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[–] databender 15 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I work in IT, I make much more money than I should/need and I work from home in a pair of basketball shorts and a T-shirt while barefoot. I would just apply for everything, eventually you're gonna hit someone who isn't hung up on image, and the rest will make your interview skills just that much better.

[–] morphballganon 2 points 4 days ago (2 children)

If you make more than you need, you must have an impressive work history, yeah?

[–] databender 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

My wirk history is ok; I have solid interview and writing skills, which is more important to most places I think. Mostly because I apply for a lot of things I'm not really qualified for or that pay too little just for the interviews.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

I have a spouse with medical issues. This is the reason money is tight for me. Single income with additional expenses. If I was single I would be in databender's position. IT has payed well for me and I would be screwed without it,

[–] [email protected] 36 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I work as a software developer and pretty much everywhere it's an open door on any outfit you want. I'm a man and regularly wear skirts to the office and conferences without anyone batting an eye.

[–] Cock_Inspecting_Asexual 13 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Ofc You can wear what you want as a software developer- At this point its required you wear pink stripped socks and a skirt/j I thought about it- but I suck real bad when it comes to coding things. I have a massive interest in computers, but coding is one of those things I lack in skill ;w;

[–] glimse 13 points 6 days ago (1 children)

There's tons of jobs in IT that don't require coding so don't let that discourage you

[–] Cock_Inspecting_Asexual 9 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Really? how so :000 Im- a bit curious about PC building, I wanna learn that Desktop computer jargon I hear some people use

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

I’ve worked in IT and software development. I moved back to IT because I need customer interactions to derive job satisfaction. It’s great because I’ve been at a managed service provider (MSP) and now at a gov org. MSP is a great way to speedrun a bunch of technologies and build proficiency. The gov job is far less demanding and is like being on cruise control.

Build yourself a PC and start a homelab. Read stuff on r/homelab (and same on Lemmy, but the old site has way more content for exposure when you’re new). Check out questions on ServerFault to find out about things you find interesting. Ask questions. People are generally helpful.

Good luck!

[–] glimse 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Do you like configuration? Network engineer! Lots and lots of jobs in that field. The dress code thing is gonna limit a lot of entry level jobs though, I'd think. You probably won't get a help desk job at a traditional office but who knows. Lots of jobs are remote which opens up some possibilities if you have the skills

Learning to build a PC is a great start for literally any computer job. Are there any computer stores (local, not like best buy) near you?

[–] Cock_Inspecting_Asexual 3 points 6 days ago

Ouhhh network stuff sounds pretty neat. I also have a bit of interest in cyber security

[–] _stranger_ 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

"Datacenter Operations". These are the people that bless the racks, perform the Ritual of the Wires, have access to the Room Of Windy Floors, and get to keep stacks of dead hard drives under their desks as footrests.

You don't even need a degree, just show up to any data center with a vape and a hoodie and they'll probably just let you in, especially if it's third shift. Closest thing you'll ever have to working in an isekai dungeon.

(I have nothing but respect for the datacenter denizens)

[–] Cock_Inspecting_Asexual 3 points 5 days ago

SIGN ME UP THEN!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

Network engineer, cybersecurity, and to a lesser extent devops don't require much, if any, programming skills

[–] tfw_no_toiletpaper 4 points 5 days ago

If you're interested in IT, aside from software development, you could look into server administration, networking and security operations. No coding, maybe some scripting here and there.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod 11 points 5 days ago

I had a programming job where the dress code was “Keep it covered and don’t smell.”

They had to add that last part.

[–] Fosheze 22 points 5 days ago (1 children)

In most factories and warehouses they generally don't give a damn what you wear as long as it covers the important bits and it isn't a safety issue. I have a friend that literally just works in her sports bra on hot days at her warehouse job and nobody cares. Odds are they will also pay much better than retail too. Of course depending on the environment there may be special considerations like steel toe shoes or such. But steel toes are alt fashion anyways.

[–] Cock_Inspecting_Asexual 5 points 5 days ago (3 children)

gonna need the deets of that job/warehouse rn. a nice, robust sorta jobat a warehouse sounds really nice tbh. I WANNA GET FORKLIFT CERTIFIED TOO. Its a good fitness.

[–] CarbonatedPastaSauce 10 points 5 days ago (2 children)

If you get forklift certified the dress code won’t matter because the ladies will be ripping your clothes off.

[–] Fosheze 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Now I want booty shorts that just say "forklift certified".

Edit: Well... I guess these are kinda close.

[–] njordomir 5 points 5 days ago

Shiiiiit, those managers should be bowing at your feet every day for you allowing them to be in your forklift certified presence.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

I work from home and I think it would be cool AF to be forklift certified. Or be one of those excavator prodigies...

[–] Fosheze 2 points 5 days ago

Well I'm not in Kentucky but the company was Fastenal and they definitely have warehouses there. They're a big international industrial supplier. I was only warehouse adjacent when I worked for them but I know the warehouse benefits and pay were pretty middle of the road in my location. They've got a whole internal education program which is actually surprisingly good. All in all it wasn't a bad place to work.

If you want fitness then pick to light in one of their warehouses will definitely get you that. And they definitely do forklift training. Idk if I can link here but if you just google fastenal then they will pop up.

[–] MrJameGumb 17 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I do call center work from home and can wear whatever I want

[–] Cock_Inspecting_Asexual 6 points 6 days ago (3 children)

awee- But I wanna work at a job that isnt just me in my house all day. I already bed rot enough as is 😭

[–] MrJameGumb 12 points 6 days ago

Well... good luck with that 👍

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I worked in an actual call center in my 20s and, aside from the interview where it's advisable to dress somewhat nicely, we were mostly free to wear whatever we wanted as long as it kept all the appropriate bits covered enough.

[–] Cock_Inspecting_Asexual 3 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Is it stressful working in a Call center? Are callers nice at all?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

Generally yes and generally no, in that order. At least in the call centers I worked where one could wear about anything. At my shirt-and-tie job, generally yes and yes.

I should note that I haven't lived in the US in years, so I don't know what things look like today.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I made money in a call center when I was 19. It sucked because we found out we were lied to and we were ripping people off thinking we were offering the great prices on long distance service. But maybe tech support wouldn’t suck.

[–] Cock_Inspecting_Asexual 2 points 6 days ago

Aw shit- They lie to their own employees too?? Thats awful :(

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

This might just be because California made it law, but Walmart's only dress code was that you had to wear jeans and their supplied vest. They couldn't tell you how to have your hair, that you couldn't have visible tats or piercings, etc.

Head shops probably don't care much, too. Just make sure you're actually on drugs if they drug test you.

[–] mojofrododojo 11 points 6 days ago

Just make sure you’re actually on drugs if they drug test you.

haha nice...

[–] Cock_Inspecting_Asexual 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

OH YEAAA- 100% I could kick it at a smoke shop. Sounds fun as shit

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

I'm sorry to be the one to break it to you but every job becomes a job, if you know what I mean. I'm my own boss, work from home, doing programming which is my passion. I still love programming, but work is work. Not saying you shouldn't try to find enjoyment in it, just don't want you to expect it to be fun as shit no matter what the job description says. Just try to find one that doesn't make you miserable and focus on that work life balance.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Not necessarily whatever you want because you have to follow DOT standards, but utility locating is a good one. The standard is steel toe, reflective vest, and in some cases, a hard hat. Other than that, you're good unless the company mandates something different. You can also get good money, experience, and networking in that field. Since you're such a young person, and if you have a good personal drive, you'd greatly excel at it because it is a relatively physical job

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

There are lot of federal jobs that are very lenient on dress. Not public facing? Sometimes lot of options! Public facing? Might have to wear a uniform but the ability to have visible tattoos and piercings is pretty high. Also options for getting into the public sector without a college degree.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

i work custodial in a public school district, and basically the dress code is "no sweats, no holes in jeans, no spaghetti straps." i dye my super gay hair, have visible tattoos, and a facial piercing. i have had 0 comments on any of it except compliments.

also the pay and benefits are pretty great for entry level jobs

[–] JeeBaiChow -3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Unless you're working for yourself and not customer facing, good luck with that. Brands care about image, and bosses care about discipline and morale. 'whatever you want' may or may not reflect those values, may cause distress or even be a danger to others.

[–] Mojave 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I fit in with my satanic shit as a software engineer. Computer people don't care, they seem smart enough to know it doesn't affect the job.

[–] JeeBaiChow 1 points 5 days ago

That fits in very will with the established norms. Stick with that and op will be fine. Go outside of that, and find out.