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Global fertility rates to plunge in decades ahead, new report says (www.cnn.com)

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[–] [email protected] 99 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Why would I want to bring another human being into this world? The planet is melting, greed is at insane levels, the future looks bleak. I don't want my children to suffer and get thrown through the machine.

[+] [email protected] -47 points 9 months ago (4 children)

I'm glad my parents didn't think like that. I vastly prefer non-optimal life to not existing at all.

I'm also not going to have kids but I do it because of me, not because of them. I don't understand people who think they are so wise that they can make this judgement for others.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I vastly prefer non-optimal life to not existing at all.

How could you possibly know that? Do you remember not existing?

[+] [email protected] -31 points 9 months ago (1 children)

If I didn't want to exists I would commit a suicide. The fact that I don't want to do that indicates to me that it's better for me to exist than not.

[–] force 32 points 9 months ago (1 children)

There is a massive difference between never existing and taking existence away from someone that already has it

[–] [email protected] 26 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

I'm glad my parents didn't think like that. I vastly prefer non-optimal life to not existing at all.

Glad you were fortunate enough for this to be the case. It's not the case for everyone.

I don't understand people who think they are so wise that they can make this judgement for others.

Funny you'd say that, since you're the only one here judging others for their personal choices.

My partner and I are content with our choice. We would not be able to give a child the life they deserve, nor will the world give that to them. Sure, maybe in another world we'd be willing. But now? Not for us.

Like it or not, by making that choice for yourself you are deciding to not bring them into the world, same as us. The outcome is the same.

[+] [email protected] -22 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Intentionally driving over someone and accidently doing so both have the same result but I don't think you would claim that there is no difference. Intentions matter even if the outcome is the same. I'm not judging your choices but your reasoning.

In my opinion this applies to having children aswell. No one is under any obligation to have kids and there are plenty of valid reasons not to do so and this can be anything from financial, time saving or just personal preference. However, to me it's hypocritical to justify not having children by essentially claiming that their life wouldn't be worth living but at the same time you yourself continue your existence here. You basically set standards and then don't apply them to yourself.

Infant mortality used to be insanely high before modern healthcare and medicine. There was no social safety nets expect for the community around you. There was no gurantees about access to food and clean water not to even mention education. Looking at virtually any metric life has never been better and yet people say "it's not worth bringing children into this world". I'm sorry but to me that kind of thinking is just insanely cynical and misjudged.

[–] pycorax 19 points 9 months ago (1 children)

However, to me it's hypocritical to justify not having children by essentially claiming that their life wouldn't be worth living but at the same time you yourself continue your existence here.

I don't think it's hypocritical. To create new life and to sustain life are two different things. While there's a certain relevance, the act of creating life has more to it than simply sustaining life. Sustaining maintains the status quo which while not ideal, the opposite also means ending a life which has far greater implications that are closer to ending life.

It's not hypocritical to think that bringing someone to life might be a net negative and also agree that to stop continue living would result I'm a net negative because of reasons like how there's people who are reliant on them.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Just to add to your point: the only reason I'm sustaining my life is because other people depend on me, not because my current life is really worth living for its own sake.

[–] I_Has_A_Hat 8 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Oh please, you were fine with not existing for 13.8 billion years. Existence is just a phase you'll soon grow out of.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago

13.8 billion years of nothing untill a bundle of stardust on a random planet called earth combined in such a way that it suddenly became aware of its own existance. To our current knowledge that is about the most complex thing that has ever happened in the universe.

Yeah, I wont be there to experience my non-existence after I'm gone, but I'm more than happy to be here now.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

I sure don't. If I had a time machine I'd go back in time to when my mom was pregnant with me and push that stupid bitch down a flight of stairs.

[+] iopq -48 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Came to find this comment. Always gets upvoted, never relevant to the actual issue

[–] ABCDE 29 points 9 months ago

Came to find this comment, always irrelevant, offers nothing.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 9 months ago (1 children)

How is it not relevant?

[–] [email protected] -3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It doesn't add anything meaningful to the discussion. Basically everyone is aware of those arguments. The top level comment states some facts (e.g. climate change), but does not offer deeper insight or start a discussion. Nothing was gained from reading that comment, so it may as well not have been written in the first place.

In order to turn it into a meaningful contribution the author of said comment should have added something more.
For example by going into how they feel those facts are insurmountable and therefore how they see the demographic changes as inevitable and what sort of effects this will have on their personal life/on their community/on their country. This can then lead to a discussion about the severity of the effects and people can contribute what they think possible solutions are.
Or for another example, one could use these effects on demographic change as a basis to start a discussion about one of the contributing factors. i.e. take the difficulties that arise from lower birthrates as an argument for better family oriented policies/for more climate action/against bodily autonomy (that one would certainly start a fierce discussion, lol)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

Who would pre-check commentaries for uniqueness? And on what basis?

A thought might be banal for one and new for another.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 9 months ago

ok 👍🏻 still not having kids

[–] [email protected] 73 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (3 children)

My wife and I work a total of 4 main jobs. I think we had 10+ total forms of income for 2023.I try to get money on the side too. I can't afford a kid. Even if I could, what time would I have to be a parent?

My in laws want us to pop out kids. We live in a 1br place. And we are just barely keeping our heads above water. They will say stuff like "well if you wait for a perfect time there will never be one," or saying it's our duty to let them have grandkids.

Linux is great.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Linux is great .... get your in-laws a puppy whether they want one or not.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

Especially if they don't want one

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

We have a very very sweet cat that my mother-in-law loves. It's not the same. Although that cat is ridiculously friendly.

[–] mlg 17 points 9 months ago (1 children)

My FOSS ass immediately skipped the first two paragraphs to read the last line like a monkey neuron activation meme

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

Got 'em.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I'm very curious what sorts of jobs?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

We both are medical caregivers for the same disabled couple. Our main full time jobs are a data center analyst and college cafeteria work. We also both collected from unemployment. I have some stocks and CDs that have helped a bunch to keep afloat. I do some work on the side here as well.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Not to invalidate the hard work, but aren't data center analysts pretty well compensated? I would think that would cover a 1b place pretty effectively and then the other sources of income would be gravy. Maybe I'm over-estimating the salary for the field. I am ignorant, I must admit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Our HR has absolutely no clue what we do and for years thought we were a branch of their help desk. So, currently management is trying to fix that. I started at this place a year ago. Great people, just underpaid. We hopefully should get that worked out here in the next few weeks.

[–] HarriPotero 26 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It think they drew the wrong conclusions.

It's not the high income-countries that are spearheading this decrease. It's the high cost of living-countries.

[–] ampersandrew 3 points 9 months ago

It's been observed for something like 70 years, across all sorts of other economic trends. I've heard before that the peak human population is expected to be about 11 billion and change, in a century or so, and then it will likely just hang there.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 9 months ago

Apparently all the shit big corps are putting in the food it's working..

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

Anyone else got some handmaid's tale cold sweat vibes reading the headline?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

I don't think this is good or bad. If it's voluntary, fine. We're not in some Children of Men style crisis just because people are having fewer kids, the human race will survive for a long time at 1.7 kids per woman or whatever, and rates will not be the same in 500 years for all sorts of reasons.

The concern is that it's something like microplastics or birth control washing into waterways causing lesser fertility, but if it's something like that we can focus on fixing that specifically and rates will go back up.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod 5 points 9 months ago

One of the things that drives economic growth - which is required under capitalism - is the growth of families. Lots of things anticipate having more people alive in the future to drive demand and provide labor. If that's not going to be the case, what will happen to companies that demand constant growth?

Even if it's just infant and child care that level off, that's a huge part of our economy not growing. And our economy requires growth.

[–] buzz86us 4 points 9 months ago

Well keep on squeezing people on rent and real estate, this is what happens.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Damn I guess treating people like dogshit all the time doesn't pay off after all

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Such a great movie, the long shot at the end was just incredible when they stopped fighting for a moment and then went right back at it.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod 1 points 9 months ago

My favorite part was Strawberry Cough

[+] saaquin -15 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I personally love my kid. I was so excited to be a parent. I am so surprised everyone is kind of stuck in that 18-29 mindset of "I am just not ready to be a parent"

Birth rates in the future won't be too much of a worry mind you. Robots and humans that don't age will make up the bulk of the workforce. The economy will just tank because there wont be a trillion people buying things.

[–] curiousPJ 14 points 9 months ago

I am so surprised everyone is kind of stuck in that 18-29 mindset of “I am just not ready to be a parent”

Is u blind?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 9 months ago

Current metrics of the economy will show that it tanks. But we have known for ages that these metrics are at best wrong and at worst devastating to the planet and people on it - since leaders and policy-makers use them to allocate resources in ways that show up-and-to-the-right graphs.

It first occurred to me when hearing about Japan's "lost decade". Japan is by no means perfect, but when you visit you find a place where people have their material and social needs taken care of. If you read economists though you would think that the country was doomed.

Similarly after the housing bubble burst we had job losses and other problems in Holland the same as in other places. But looking at the metrics of wealth per capita, we basically were back in the same place as less than a decade before. Was life so horrible in 2004 that this was a huge tragedy? If you are insisting on constant improvement by some arbitrary measurement, then yes.

For me the biggest example was COVID-19. We showed that if it was important that we could have a way of life with drastically less environmental impact to the planet. We surely don't want to live exactly like that, but we could make radical changes to have a better world for ourselves and our children (yes, even with drastically lower birthrates there will still be people on the future earth).

Luckily there are rebels in economics fighting against the orthodoxy. If you want to feel a bit of hope (mixed with a large dose of pragmatism) you can check out the Economics for Rebels podcast.