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[–] Sterile_Technique 220 points 11 months ago (77 children)

Would fucking love it if we just got rid of tipping all together. Employers -not customers- should be responsible for providing employees good pay.

Factor the difference into up front price of the food/service and be done with it.

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[–] mechoman444 151 points 11 months ago (12 children)

Please! For the love of God! Get rid of tipping!

I hate tipping! As the consumer I should not be responsible for proving a living wage for someone else's employees!

[–] kameecoding 79 points 11 months ago (9 children)

as a European I have to say both the Tipping culture and the not showing the full price in stores with VAT included is just mindblowing.

It's literally a culture of hiding true costs, weird af.

[–] Raiderkev 24 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Hotels too. The advertised price is never accurate because their stupid resort fees.

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[–] CosmicCleric 21 points 11 months ago

It’s literally a culture of hiding true costs, weird af.

Makes me happy though in this day and age that people are waking up to this fact, and are starting to push back on it.

In the past corporations/governments thought people were a lot more unaware, than they are today.

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[–] [email protected] 109 points 11 months ago (4 children)

As a german the whole tip system in the US is both redicilous and hilarious to me.
We have tipping here, too (we literally call it "drinking money"). With the difference, that it's pretty much voluntary and if you don't have much money (e.g. as a student) noone will expect you to tip.
Having tips be part of the actual wage totally defeats the point of them...

[–] [email protected] 34 points 11 months ago (14 children)

Are you a true American if you don't shaft your employees for every penny that you can though?

[–] AA5B 16 points 11 months ago (4 children)

This is actually a great reason for ending tipping. I used to feel like I was on the server’s side, slipping them cash the business couldn’t steal, but I never use cash anymore so have no idea who it’s going to. Also, businesses are getting more sleazy with required “tips” and fees, and it’s all one giant tax fraud no matter which way you put it.

Actual prices on the menu are better for the customer, actual pay is better for the server, accounting for everything is better for the business and accurate reporting is better for all of us who depend on services paid for by taxes

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[–] Buffaloaf 14 points 11 months ago (1 children)

That's how it started here too.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 11 months ago

https://time.com/5404475/history-tipping-american-restaurants-civil-war/

After the Constitution was amended in the wake of the Civil War, slavery was ended as an institution but those who were freed from bondage were still limited in their choices. Many who did not end up sharecropping worked in menial positions, such as servants, waiters, barbers and railroad porters. These were pretty much the only occupations available to them. For restaurant workers and railroad porters, there was a catch: many employers would not actually pay these workers, under the condition that guests would offer a small tip instead.

“These industries demanded the right to basically continue slavery with a $0 wage and tip,” Jayaraman says.

[–] DBT 13 points 11 months ago

I was so confused the first time I went to Germany. I asked someone there about tipping and they said, “you can, but you don’t have to.”

That didn’t really clarify it enough for me so I just tipped like I do in the US. Didn’t want anyone thinking I was a jerk.

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[–] solrize 77 points 11 months ago (1 children)

"Ballot measures pending in Michigan, Arizona, Ohio and Massachusetts, and a bill being reintroduced in Connecticut". There.

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[–] pete_the_cat 61 points 11 months ago

So that should cover everyone in this day and age since everyone asks for a tip now /s

[–] [email protected] 56 points 11 months ago (13 children)

Great. I'm never tipping again.

Paying your employee's is not my responsibility.

[–] phoneymouse 32 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

I live in a state that pays minimum wage to tipped workers. The annoying thing is they still expect you to tip. They’ll even add 5% for worker healthcare and an 18% gratuity then give you a receipt with a tip line.

We need to do away with the whole concept of tipping. The employer should pay their workers end of story. The problem with tipping is it is never enough. If employees complain about low wages, the employer will just go to the customer for more. It used to be that a 10% tip was enough, then 15, then 18, then 20, now I see 25 and 30.

[–] nomous 18 points 11 months ago

100% agree, pay your employees a decent wage, if you need to raise prices to do that then do that. If I can't afford it then I'll make different plans. Don't charge me menu price and then expect me to subsidize your payroll off-the-books. If you can't pay employees maybe your business plan is shit and shouldn't exist.

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 11 months ago

IT’S ABOUT TIME.

[–] alienanimals 37 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Greedy employers leverage tipping to pay their employees the least amount possible. It's fucking disgusting.

And too many people who receive tips don't realize that it's their employer fucking them over rather.

[–] Bytemeister 9 points 11 months ago (5 children)

It's worse than that, most of the time, employers are skimming from the tips. Don't tip for things that were previously non-tipped and give the person cash if you can.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 11 months ago (1 children)

That's great, but minimum wage needs a huge overhaul.

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[–] ozmot 27 points 11 months ago (1 children)

How is it a minimum wage if you dont have to pay it in full?

[–] CosmicTurtle 13 points 11 months ago

There's a loop hole where companies don't have to pay minimum wage if tips amount to the minimum wage that would have been earned by the employee.

It's a shitty way for companies to not pay their employees and expect customers to pay them.

[–] fat_stig 24 points 11 months ago (3 children)

While I abhor the whole concept of tipping, the thing that really grinds my gears is that we are expected to pay a percentage of the bill for service. If I order a basic cheese pizza or a 16 ounce tomahawk steak with a big chunk of foie gras and all the trimmings the server does not have to do much extra work for the latter. But if I have to tip $5 on a $20 pizza, why the fuck do I have to tip $100 for almost the same amount of service for the steak? Sure it weighs more and you might need to make an extra trip to serve the trimmings, but WTF, the server is not providing any more value by serving an expensive dish.

If I order an expensive bottle of wine it takes no extra effort to serve, why should I pay a shit ton more service charge?

USA, get your shit together, this is so not right. Land of the free? My arse.

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[–] BigTrout75 14 points 11 months ago (10 children)

While I do tip. It does suck that eating out pretty much requires a donation because we all agree that food workers don't make enough to live on. And I live in a State where they get full minimum. Just give the workers food and boarding and we can call it a deal, oh wait..... Let's not.

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[–] Roccobot 10 points 11 months ago (10 children)

Since Lemmy is trying to be better than Reddit, can we agree that titles should be like '5 US states...'? Not every person that reads news here lives in the United States 🕊️

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 11 months ago (7 children)

Reminder that a "living wage", and what most servers make, is at least 3x minimum wage, so tipping is still going to be required.

[–] AA5B 31 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (3 children)

Why? I hope this is just the first step toward the end of tipping culture. Why should servers be held out as a special category deserving higher pay? They deserve a decent wage at least minimum, just like everyone else. If businesses need to pay them more to attract employees, then that’s the free market at work. That’s more predictable, transparent, honest toward all of the business, the employee, and the customer

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago (13 children)

Tipping is, by definition, not required.

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