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I've been trying to avoid shopping on Amazon for several years. For computer parts, I look at Newegg. For pet stuff, Chewy.

But what about all the miscellaneous stuff? What other websites do you trust when it comes to shopping online?

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[–] [email protected] 94 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Federated Amazon alternative coming soon?

[–] cccc 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That’s a brilliant idea.

[–] Ugurcan 25 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Until you need to reach out support for a fake 1 tb microsd card

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[–] sebinspace 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Only if you love long shipping times. I don’t see how warehouses or in-house logistics could be federated when there is no house, so it’d essentially just be private sellers going through traditional shipping avenues like USPS/UPS/FedEx/DHL, etc

If that’s a trade-off you’re willing to make, though, then let’s fucken go

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That would be fine since itd take monopoly power away from amazon. Could possibly even leverage things like uber package delivery if someone in your city buys what you sell

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[–] [email protected] 81 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Fun side story. My first job as a developer, I was working in a small porn company in downtown Chicago. We had just hired a few people, so being the only techy in the company it was on me to order a bunch of hardware from NewEgg.

It was supposed to be delivered days later. But no, they had an employee, just like a regular dude, hop in his car and deliver the order on the same day. This was probably 2006, so same day delivery way NOT a normal thing.

I rarely get to tell this story because I don't want people to know I started off my (somewhat long) software engineering career in porn and because who cares about this in today's world.

However, OP mentioned NewEgg, so it fits here.

[–] ExtraMedicated 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Porn starts a surprising number of careers.

[–] ExtraMedicated 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Maybe not that surprising.

[–] Ab_intra 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It's not really.. Just look at how VHS, DVD and blu-ray became popular..

I despise the porn industry because it's so exploitative. But sometimes there are positive outcomes..

Just to note that the blu-ray was mainly thanks to PS3.

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[–] selib 6 points 1 year ago

you can just tell this story without mentioning you worked for a porn company?? lol

[–] Porcupine 55 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Honestly I just order from Target. I know the products are legit, and I can usually do same day pickup.

(Lately I've preferred to shop in person. The stereotype is true -- once you become a mom, getting a Starbies and walking around Target becomes your self-care.)

[–] GrumpyFortuneCat 13 points 1 year ago

I'm a 42 y/o dude, not a mom, but I'm right there with you. My friend and I would walk along the aisle by the side of the building to see what kind of junk they have for sale at the endcaps. Then hit up the electronics and nerd stuff, like Funkos and new movie releases. Finally walk down the food section to pick up groceries. All the while with some drinks in hand. We usually avoid the clothing section unless we need something.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I've been been using Target instead of Amazon Prime. Shipping takes a little longer but 5% off with red card is neat. Where it really lacks is quality control over shipping. With Amazon an item getting damaged during shipping was something like once every few years, if even that. With Target since they don't control that part of the chain it's out of their hands, and it feels like 1 out of every 5 orders had something damaged to some degree. The app make it super easy to get a free replacement though.

idk if it still is since I haven't used Amazons app since, but targets app is so much nicer

Edit: off memory the worst case was some aerosol sunscreen was dented so it was empty on arrival and the the app told me I had to do an exchange in store for it. It's not that bad, but just stuff that doesn't really happen with amazon

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[–] jeanofthedead 7 points 1 year ago

I’ve found that Target ships counterfeit items time to time, as well as shoddy returned items. Amazon does the same. I typically buy my electronics from Best Buy because i know they sort those items into Open Box deals instead.

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This isn't really an answer to the question, but I just saw a Mastodon post about an online store that's opening this October called Artisans.coop

It seems to be a cooperatively owned Etsy alternative, (and I can only assume it's a response to whatever shenanigans went on between Etsy and Silicon Valley Bank.)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I might check that out. I have a small Etsy shop that used to generate a bit of side income for me, mainly just enough to buy the occasional tool or some materials for personal projects, but Etsy has changed a lot since 2018. It's basically just eBay or Amazon with the veneer of "this is totally handmade." They pushed "free" shipping and decreased lead times, which undermines actual handmade products.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My assumption that this was about SVB sounds totally off the mark now that you've put it this way. From your story, it sounds like this is about an entire culture shift that's been alienating Etsy's original community of artisans for quite some time.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm pretty sure the main issue with etsy these days is that they allow/encourage dropshippers so now it's just filled with cheap crap from AliExpress etc

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm not an Amazon fan either. But you may want to know that Newegg is owned by a Chinese company these days.

[–] rxjamin 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have heard this and mostly avoid shopping there as a result. Is there a "new" NewEgg that's like old NewEgg?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Closest thing would be MicroCenter. I believe they will ship, but their store locations are rare and spaced out. Closest one to me is almost an hour and a half away, but since the Fry's 10 minutes away closed it's my only other option besides BestBuy (barf).

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

RIP Fry’s

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)

B&H Photo Video is a decent place but stock is always iffy. More of a consumer electronics store than newegg in my experience.

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[–] RetroEvolute 31 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I mean, it's still another pretty big company, but the Shopify "Shop" app is actually pretty great as an alternative to Amazon.

Basically, all the businesses using a Shopify online storefront are amalgamated and searchable in one app, and the UI is pretty solid, too. I really like that a business can have their own website with a storefront, but also be there for convenience and still be in the same system.

[–] Prismo 12 points 1 year ago

My small shopify business thanks you!

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[–] GladiusB 30 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I go to Amazon to look at what name brands there are. Or Google. Go and order directly from the company. Their customer service is better and they usually have cheaper options. Plus if you need a modification that you didn't know existed, refer back to the the customer service part.

[–] spiffy_spaceman 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Plus, if you buy directly from the manufacturer, you know you're getting a legit product with a good warranty. Some brands also have stores that double as service centers. If I order Nikes and they don't fit, I can return them to the local Nike store. Many offer free shipping just like Amazon, easy returns, better color choices and no creepy tracking or crazy knockoffs.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A combination of Micro Center, FS.com, and eBay for computer parts. Anything worth researching I'll try and buy direct from the manufacturer.

Dumb cheap stuff still goes to Amazon because if I need a $2 female USB-B to male USB-C adaptor or something like that I'm not willing to go through more than about 5 mins of searching and I know there's some random blob of letters company on the Amazon marketplace that will give me something that functions. I definitely wait until I have something critical or reach $30+ before actually placing the order though.

[–] Maxaroniandcheese 6 points 1 year ago

Have you tried Monoprice? It's been a while since I've had to order anything from them but they were always my goto for cables, adaptors, etc.

[–] theangryseal 21 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Believe it or not I’ve never used Amazon.

I’m old, I never left eBay. I’ve seen things I want a lot cheaper on there though. I just don’t want to give them my money.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (7 children)

For a lot of consumer electronics (and of course camera and video) I go with B&H

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[–] badbrainstorm 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I use Amazon to shop often times, and then just buy directly from the vendor. May take a little longer to mail or cost a tiny bit more, but worth it to me

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[–] theywilleatthestars 17 points 1 year ago (5 children)
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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I know it's not feasible for everyone, or even most people, but I just generally avoid shopping online as much as possible.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's fine if you're not a geek nor a tinkerer (or a musician), but unfortunately my hobbies aren't sold in stores anymore.

I miss RadioShack, Fry's Electronics, and music stores that don't charge a 30% markup.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

In Belgium & Netherlands, we have an alternative called Bol. I use it, but I wonder how much more ethical it is in the end.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (4 children)
[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Unsure if you're aware, but Abe Books is a subsidiary of Amazon. Check it out under their "About Us" page.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Abe Books was acquired by Amazon in 2008. Consider Alibris or Thrift books.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (4 children)

eBay! Craigslist!

Craigslist is more fun but more limited. eBay for the things I can't find on CL. Both really enable you to shop locally too which is excellent

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

If it's something I know I want to buy from a specific brand, I'd rather just buy from the vendor directly if that's an option.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I love Chewy! I also like to buy gifts and handmade items on Etsy.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

For painters, dickblick.com sells Liquitex and Golden paint cheaper than Amazon.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

eBay for general stuff, ABE Books for... well books and HMV/Zavvi for films.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You know that abebooks is a subsidiary of Amazon, right? As is ZVAB in Europe. They really have the market by the reins.

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