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[–] [email protected] 73 points 1 month ago (3 children)

curious how the sword handles non binary and trans people

[–] [email protected] 85 points 1 month ago (1 children)

does reduced damage against nbs and respects yhe transed gender (its a cursed sword not a bigoted one meow)

[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Should probably cut NBS just as well as men. The curse is to not cut women and they are not women.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 month ago (1 children)

woman and nb isnt mutually exclusive as far as ive seen so is variable amount of damagedependsing on howwoman the prrson thinks they are :3

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Very true, the sword would have to pick a line to cut through the gender triangle.

Was going to suggest the sword might discern sex rather than gender, but we'd have a similar question of how the sword would classify intersex people.

[–] Stovetop 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Or the curse is that it can cut through 1000 men but not anyone else.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

This, we need more samples (but please don't)

[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Imagine it a cursed sword of outing people, or a blessed sword of validation

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

That'd probably change the world forever. Besides, it would likely be hunted by all the people who want to destroy it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

i feel it would make most sense for it to go off of self-identity (that's more magical), and if that doesn't jive with the curse it's just a normal somewhat dull sword or maybe it passes straight through them like a ghost?

[–] [email protected] 53 points 1 month ago (3 children)

CW internalised transphobia

Tap for spoilerMy doubt-filled brain immediately going "See now you can check weather you are really trans or just making it up in your head muahaha"

[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 month ago

What if the sword is transphobic

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Behold, the unmatched power of ~~Storm~~Eggbreaker

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Well I have been on hrt for 4 months so the egg is broken well and good. But still...the doubt persists :/)

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Congratulations! I'm just past a month, and I absolutely get it. It's especially fun on those days when you're feeling extra dysphoric 🥲

Something that's helped me a lot was realizing that it's just a really lazy coping/defense mechanism from the brain. Being trans is kind of (incredibly) scary, and so it's just those echos of fear and doubt saying "Well, maybe if you just weren't trans, things would be way easier!". Then you can calmly tell that to shut the hell up, and continue living your best life :3

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Thank you, I love collecting coping mechanisms.

For me the question: "Am i cis then?" really helps too, cause I can confidently deny that one haha

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

As someone who is close to living half my life post-transition, I wouldn’t say it ever went away completely for me but I would say it doesn’t bother me anymore. Because like, so what if I’m not ‘really’ trans? I’m clearly and obviously happier now. I think that fear, for me, comes from on some level believing that if I find out I’m not trans that means I’ll have to detransition… a totally cis thing to fear 🤣

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Thank you for the comment! Hearing different experiences is very helpful!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You really are exactly what you really are. Whether that's cis, or trans, or NB, or a secret fourth thing, those are all just labels. The label doesn't matter. What does matter is whether you feel that you're doing the right thing for you. Everything, and I mean everything, is all made up in our heads. You are a brain inside a dark jar piloting a meaty skeleton on a spinning rock whipping through space. Even our direct sensory input is all mediated by the brain. Therefore, nothing is true, in a really empirical sense, in a way we're capable of measuring. Everything is all made up by the brain.

And if nothing is true, then everything is permitted. You do you, in the way that feels right to you, and don't you let anyone stop you. This is about your personal truths, which are as true to you as anything can be to anyone. If you think you really are trans then you are. If you think you aren't then you don't have to be. There is no objective measure of truth here.

[–] Pilferjinx 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

We crave labels. We always have a desire to define who we are. The alternative is uncertainty and that feels really uncomfortable. I have been trying to dismantle my definitions in my older age to get closer to the source.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

There need be no uncertainty. You are the absolute center of your self. Whatever you feel is absolute law within the confines of your own consciousness. Sometimes easily applicable labels are nice as a vehicle for relating to others, I grant you that much, but they are by no means required to define a sense of self. I am Me, and the infinite wonder and terror that that defines can't be described by my words. But I know it. I could pick my own soul out of a police lineup, and you could too with yours, even if they don't have name tags on. We are all unique creatures. Labels are useful tools but worrying over them to the point of stress defeats their purpose.

Just be who you are, and adopt labels as you see fit, but don't be worried if you don't find one that fits you just right. And don't be afraid to take one just to discard it later for a better fit. It's a mask, not a face.

[–] Zoomboingding 36 points 1 month ago (1 children)

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] recentSloth43 11 points 1 month ago

Yes, it can't cut women

[–] skygirl 32 points 1 month ago (1 children)

"Hey Witcher, why do you carry two swords?"

[–] FilthyShrooms 13 points 1 month ago

This one is for the ladies

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

"Cursed." Right.