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I think most people who use it are just scared from the uneducated downvotes/ backlash and I think it just ruins the sarcasm.

I started to avoid using it on other social media as it seems kind of dumb.

My opinion for it on Lemmy is mostly the same but it might work better here if Lemmy had a sarcasm tag instead(the same way NSFW tag work)of /s to signal the sarcasm instead.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago

I've seen at least 4 misunderstandings on lemmy where someone explicitly asked for a /s tag in the end. It's very much needed.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

upvoting because this is definitely unpopular. tone is not conveyed in text and various sarcastic phrases need the intonation to be understood as sarcastic.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 months ago
[–] Cheems 15 points 4 months ago

I agree! There never is any confusion in text, it's so incredibly obvious when people are being sarcastic. Tones are so easy to portray. /s

[–] 13esq 13 points 4 months ago

You can be as bitter about it as you like but it absolutely is required. You could come up the most obvious sarcasm you could ever imagine, and I'll find you people that believe you're being sincere.

We live in the post satire era.

I'm not sure how your idea for a sarcasm tag is any different to /s, it seems to be a roundabout way to achieve the exact same thing.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poe's_law

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago

As someone who has trouble with sarcasm (especially online), a good /s is always helpful.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

This is a good idea, since its so easy to tell tone over text /s

[–] EndOfLine 6 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Are you advocating tags for all inflections of verbal speach or just sarcasm?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (2 children)

The weird thing is, using Emojis is like the perfect way to display subtle and varied verbal inflections in text form.. but people here largely refuse to do it because they see it as cringe

[–] EndOfLine 3 points 4 months ago (5 children)

What is the "I'm being sarcastic" emoji?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

Back in the forum days it was the wink 😉

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

Personally i just go with whatever conveys that i am not being serious, such as any of these 🙄🤧🙃🤔😏.

Though i suppose i should say i am not 12 and have no idea what the cool kids use, probably 💀 or so

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

I personally like using 😤 for "confidentally stupid" sarcasm and 😬 for "yikes" sarcasm.

There's also the classic eyeroll 🙄 but that one's usually a bit too aggressive for me.

Oh and 🫠 and 🙃 can work well too!

[–] JustZ 1 points 3 months ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Emoticons are inherently superior! :{)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

ooh he's got a lil mustache! That's my favorite emotion!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

:{)>

Goatee man!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

Kaomoji is superiorer ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ

[–] JustZ 1 points 3 months ago

Forgot the /s

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

The tag solution in my opinion would be better than the "/s", you could hide sarcasm+ it would be just visually marked.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

yOu DoN't NeEd A sArCaSm TaG!

[–] CarbonatedPastaSauce 4 points 4 months ago

You’ll get over it.

[–] andrewta 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

So instead of a /s showing sarcasm we’d have a tag showing sarcasm. What exactly is the difference?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

Instead of typing /NSFW, Why do we tag NSFW?

[–] andrewta 3 points 4 months ago

Unless you want the ability to utilize the tags. For example : never show sarcasm posts/comments

Or

Only show sarcasm posts/comments

Then there would be a difference

[–] andrewta 2 points 4 months ago

There is no difference. The end result is exactly the same.

[–] DragonsInARoom 1 points 1 month ago

This is such a great idea, this is the greatest idea since the invention of ideas!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

Or maybe gen pop should get better at reading comprehension and learning to ask clarifying question if they are unable to understand content and context for whatever reason.

That's how discussions work.

OR we can just SPAZZZ RHEEEEE, DOWN VOTE BIGOT SOYBOY!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

I agree. It seems fragile to be be so afraid of... Checks nots purposeless down votes from random that are mostly bots.

[–] JustZ 1 points 3 months ago

Text doesn't convey tone and cadence, and people are dumb, so /s is always needed when typing sarcasm. It's not because you are dumb or because the readers are dumb, but because when you've said something sarcastic, it's indistinguishable from stupidity. If you don't use it, a solid percentage of people who read your post are going to think that you are just stupid.