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It is perfectly fine for women to microblog about sex and desires.
You're missing at least one asterisk: There should be some consideration for her partner's privacy.
I don't think I'm the only man that has observed more than one partner behaving as if she'd rather have bad sex then gossip about it than tell me what she likes and then have good sex. Just...not react at all to questions like "what do you like? Does that feel good? What do you want to do tonight?" She'll address the United Nations with an ordered list of her recent sexual disappointments, but she won't say "do me like this" to her partner's face.
Communicating desires is a turn off!
Mind reading ONLY or it’s the Sahara 😾
It is better to just tell your partner what you like, so you don't have to bitch later
for some the bitching is the point.
Probably a good idea to float the idea of hitting someone on the vagina before busting out that particular move. It's quite plausible that they aren't going to like it.
You don't go into it doing a slap challenge. You get her going, then you give her box a couple little soft swats and you watch her reaction
sometimes people talk with people about sex without ever intending to have sex with each other. like we do rn. open discussion culture.
I agree, talking desires/needs directly, but as with every activity, humans have the capability to reflect on said activities and talking about that with your partner can improve the sex you share