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It is better to just tell your partner what you like, so you don't have to bitch later
for some the bitching is the point.
Probably a good idea to float the idea of hitting someone on the vagina before busting out that particular move. It's quite plausible that they aren't going to like it.
You don't go into it doing a slap challenge. You get her going, then you give her box a couple little soft swats and you watch her reaction
sometimes people talk with people about sex without ever intending to have sex with each other. like we do rn. open discussion culture.
I agree, talking desires/needs directly, but as with every activity, humans have the capability to reflect on said activities and talking about that with your partner can improve the sex you share