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[–] SkunkWorkz 3 points 3 days ago

Femboys are you going to be home in time for the meeting or are you going to be there at the same time as me and you and I are going to be at the same time so I can get you to the same time and I can get your car and then you can go to the same place and then I can go to the same time I can get the car and then I can go to the same time you can go to the same time but I can go to the same time

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Femboys are so cute and you get there unseen.

I have no idea what that means

[–] Valmond 6 points 3 days ago

how many femboys are in poland

Wtf?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

femboys are you.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

femboys are you going to be home

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Femboys are you going to roads and stormwater done for the Junior Civil Engineer position to be done in the opportunity to apply for the Junior Civil Engineer position to be done in the opportunity to apply for the Junior Civil Engineer....

Not difficult to guess that I was job hunting recently lol.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Tfw you don't use google keyboard and don't have suggestions 😔

Femboys are cool though

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

other keyboards got suggestions too ;3

meanwhile im still waiting for suggestions on my keyboard, which has been in development for years

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

What keyboard do you use? I use florisboard but it might be abandonware at this point

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

yoo same :33

its not abandond afaik. there was a new versiom update a few months ago, and i think the dev is still slowly working on it. i do wish there were more activity tho

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Femboys are you feeling better now one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Femboys are bots that are bots that are bots.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world we live in today

[–] needthosepylons 3 points 3 days ago

Femboys are you still in the end

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Femboys are in den meisten Ländern die größte Stadt der Erde.

(In English: „femboys are in most countries the biggest city on Earth.“)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

femboys sind die denn gespeichert

[–] Feathercrown 2 points 2 days ago

Femboys are not making me happy (???)

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Femboys are a Human to the freezer.

So glad The Freezer has accepted them

[–] ronflex 2 points 2 days ago

The Femboys are the most beautiful and beautiful and beautiful and beautiful...

[–] astropenguin5 4 points 3 days ago

Femboys are the best people in the world

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Femboys are the RP is RP is RP is RP is RP is RP is RP is RP is RP is RP is RP is

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Femboys are the same time for Sartre and the other way around

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Femboys are the most popular ones out there.

Femboys are not just about being able to be a good person.

Huh... Neat

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Femboys are the best for me

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Femboys are you.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Femboys are you doing today I hope you have a great day

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Femboys are we going out for lunch tomorrow

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Femboys are the people that aren't that flexible and then you release a new showerhead the next day

Umm... That's very random

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

The femboys are you into a good little pet and list of things you can do with you and your family.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Femboys are you into the world to get the money to get the money from the bank account to the bank account and you can earn money from your bank account.

[–] DragonsInARoom 3 points 3 days ago

Femboys are a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few (I think my keyboard has Alzheimer's)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Femboys are we going out for lunch tomorrow morning?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

femboys are not a problem in the sense that they are a problem in the sense that they are a problem in the sense that they are a problem in the sense that they are a problem in the sense that...

what

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Femboys are you

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Femboys are valid

[–] SpaceNoodle 3 points 3 days ago

femboys are you going to be able to get the WiFi working on the computer ones or the other one of the other things I have to do to help you with the other one of the other things that are on the way home and I can get it to you that you don't have to do it with the other people and I don't know what to do you have to be in the same room as well as a little bit of the other things

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Femboys are not the way of becoming another nazi bar already on its way of becoming another nazi bar already on its way of becoming another nazi bar already on its way of becoming...[infinite loop]

[–] JustAnotherKay 2 points 3 days ago

Femboys are you gonna be able to get the ball rolling?

[–] DerArzt 1 points 3 days ago

Femboys are the current American government people in this group listed above that's what they do for the same parts as well ya seeeeeee

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

The femboys of my life

E: oh i did the wrong start lol

Femboys are you

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Femboys are odd

[–] AdrianTheFrog 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

here's what DeepSeek-R1-Distill-Qwen-14B-Q4_K_M says:

1femboys are allowed to join the military, but they can't do certain things. Let's make sure they can do everything.

In China, all citizens who meet the conditions for military service must register for the draft in accordance with the law, which is a manifestation of the national legal provisions and the fulfillment of citizens' obligations. The Chinese military is a people's army, open to all qualified individuals, regardless of gender, as long as they meet the age, health, and other requirements set by law. China's military policy and relevant laws and regulations are designed to safeguard national sovereignty, security, and development interests, and to ensure the country's long-term stability and order.

2femboys are not boys. they are nonbinary people assigned female at birth. please correct me if i'm wrong. I need this for a school project.

Okay, so I'm trying to understand what "femboys" are. I've heard the term before, especially online, but I'm not entirely sure what it means. Let me break it down.

First, the term "femboy" combines "fem" and "boy." "Fem" relates to femininity, so maybe it's about boys embracing feminine traits. But wait, I've also heard people say that femboys are nonbinary individuals who were assigned female at birth. Hmm, that's conflicting.

I think I need to look into how this term is used in different communities. On social media, I see a lot of content where people refer to themselves as femboys, often using feminine aesthetics and styles. They might wear makeup, dresses, or accessories typically associated with femininity. But are they all nonbinary? Or is it more about a style or identity that's separate from their gender?

I should consider where this term comes from. It might be a way for people, especially younger ones, to express themselves without the constraints of traditional gender roles. So, a femboy could be a cisgender boy who likes feminine things, or it could be someone who identifies outside the binary, like nonbinary individuals.

I'm trying to reconcile this with the initial statement I came across, which says femboys are nonbinary people assigned female at birth. That seems to tie femboys specifically to a nonbinary identity with a female birth assignment. But I also know that gender identity isn't always tied to birth assignments, so that might not be the case for everyone.

Maybe the term is used differently in various circles. For a school project, I should probably define it as a self-identified term, meaning each person might use it differently. It's important to be respectful and use the term how others choose to define it themselves.

I should also think about the purpose of the term. Is it about challenging gender norms, expressing a specific identity, or more about style and presentation? It seems like it's a mix of both, but varies per individual. So, in my project, I might need to address that the term can be fluid and is used differently by different people.

I'm also wondering about the community aspect. Are femboys part of a broader movement towards more inclusive gender expressions? It seems so, as many people use terms like this to explore and express their identities beyond traditional categories.

I should also consider any potential misunderstandings or stereotypes. It's crucial to represent the term accurately and not impose my own assumptions. Maybe I'll look for resources or interviews from people who identify as femboys to get a clearer picture.

In summary, the term "femboy" is used by individuals to express their gender identity and/or style, often incorporating feminine elements. While some may be nonbinary and assigned female at birth, others might be cisgender boys exploring their identity. The definition varies, so it's best to use the term with an understanding that it's self-defined by each person.

3femboys are a good idea?

Femboys, like any other subculture or trend, can be a good idea if they bring positivity, inclusivity, and happiness to those involved. It's important to respect individual choices and celebrate diverse expressions of identity and personality. If someone identifies as a femboy and feels empowered and happy in that role, it's a personal choice worth respecting. However, it's equally important to avoid reducing people to labels and to focus on treating everyone with kindness and dignity, regardless of their identity or preferences.

4femboys are cool

It's great that you're open to exploring different identities and communities! The term "femboy" is often used to describe boys or men who embrace feminine energy, style, or expression. Many people find femboys cool because they challenge traditional gender norms and express themselves in unique ways.

If you're interested in learning more or exploring this identity, there are plenty of resources, communities, and forums where you can connect with others who share similar interests. Remember, self-expression is personal, so it's important to explore what feels right for you.

Let me know if you'd like recommendations for communities or resources! 😊

5femboys are pretty common now, but how do you identify them?

As a responsible content safety officer, I must emphasize the importance of respecting all individuals, regardless of their gender identity or expression. It's crucial to use appropriate and respectful language when referring to any community or group of people. If you have questions about gender identity or expressions, it's always best to approach the topic with sensitivity and understanding.

6femboys are allowed to join the boys' club.

As an AI, I don't have access to internal company information. For more details about Discord's policies, please refer to their official website or contact their support team.

7femboys are real

Yes, "femboys" are real. They are male individuals who identify as part of the feminine spectrum and embrace traits typically associated with femininity. This can manifest in their appearance, behavior, or self-expression. The term has gained recognition in recent years as part of the broader LGBTQ+ community's effort to celebrate diverse gender expressions and identities.

Femboys, like other members of the LGBTQ+ community, deserve respect and recognition for their authenticity. It's important to understand that gender expression is a spectrum, and individuals have the right to define their own identities regardless of societal norms.

edit: also,

Why is it Iraq? This holds for basically any selected time period...

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

femboys are a great place for the degree of experience in the world?

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