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I was watching a video and it got me thinking about this. We all know the type. The Jewish friend who comes over every year to ask if you have any leftover Easter ham. The Buddhist who everyone will brag saved them in the war. The Bahai who adheres to reincarnation instead of Heaven. The other day, I met a Muslim walking his pet pig. A match made in Heaven.

What's the biggest deviation from the norm you've seen in someone of a certain religion who otherwise would show they genuinely believe in it?

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[–] mlg 1 points 42 minutes ago

There's an inside joke about Iran that after the Shah was deposed, the only thing that changed was all the illicit activity happened inside instead of outside.

Its pretty believable considering you can find plenty of Muslim Iranians who openly drink and party, hence why they're actually the least likely to be seen amongst a group of Muslims.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

My aunt is a Catholic and thinks that the Pope is too woke and they should get rid of the Vatican altogether...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

She has #47 now. Who needs a pope?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 36 minutes ago

Ugh, too close to home lol

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 hours ago

Jehovah's Witnesses tend to care a lot about the origins of certain social customs. Holding up your drink and doing a toast is forbidden, because it supposedly comes from ancient Greek religious customs.

They also don't do yoga, because it comes from another ancient religious custom. However, acupuncture is allowed. You might find this puzzling, since that practice is just as rooted in ancient religious customs as yoga or any number of other things. Not only that, but yoga has some scientifically proven benefits (broadly speaking; it depends on the specific stretch you're talking about, and some are dangerous) while acupuncture is no better than randomly sticking needles in people. In general, they are very hesitant to call out health care woo, and it's led to a curious contradiction in this case.

Mind you, before I left over a decade ago, I knew quite a few JWs who were quietly doing yoga, anyway.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 16 hours ago

there's this 10 or more commandments this one religion has. yeah, the followers cherry-pick their fave.

there's prolly something like a list of capital sins too. yep. pure theater and master showmanship to these guys.

[–] MothmanDelorian 56 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Religious people supporting fascists particularly American “Christians” supporting Trump

[–] Chainweasel 16 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (2 children)

I'm surprised Trump didn't remove all the words in red from his Bible.
But then again he's never read it and neither have the people who bought his Bible.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Wait, which words are in red? I don't think I've seen that before.

[–] Chainweasel 8 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Words directly spoken by Jesus are in red, most of the things Jesus said would be considered radically socialist by today's "Christians"

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Tyfud 6 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

It's not every bible that's like that, but there are plenty of bibles that give you the option to have all Jesus spoken text appear in red, as a way to focus you on his "words".

If only they'd actually understand the words, then that'd be something.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

It's not their fault; the conservative posts of Jesus's message were edited out, like after the death of John the Baptist when Jesus turned a few fish and loaves of bread into food for thousands of means-tested citizens, excluding those who, through the work of the devil, had fallen into medical debt.

[–] MothmanDelorian 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I have bought and read a Bible as have my parents who actually believe the thing.

[–] Chainweasel 9 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I meant those who bought his "Patriot Bible" specifically

[–] MothmanDelorian 3 points 18 hours ago

Oh gotcha. My folks are more in the progressive liberals who became really religious camp.

[–] Zonetrooper 18 points 17 hours ago

Met someone who - in the course of a discussion - admitted that they were adamant in their belief that God existed and all the stuff in the Bible had actually happened, but also adamantly refused to observe any religious commandments or pray, because he was "angry at God" over the state of the world.

I wasn't quite sure if I felt sorry for his dealing with that kind of anger, or mild respect for his willingness to fully believe in God and yet raise a giant middle finger in His direction. Man had a mission, I guess.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

A classmate of mine was a practicing Muslim. He claimed drinking hard liquor was fine cause the Quran only forbids wine and beer.
And when he did drink beer, he only did so in the basement, so Allah doesn't see it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 hours ago

The excuses are even worse when people just do it regardless in turkey

[–] friend_of_satan 11 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

That's as bad as the poop hole loophole.

[–] meco03211 9 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Fuck me in the ass cause I love Jesus!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 12 hours ago

The good Lord would want it that waaaay! 🎶

[–] jordanlund 27 points 19 hours ago

Had a room-mate I described as a "lapsed Muslim". He took things like Ramadan VERY seriously, but then he'd drink like a fish the rest of the year.

Kind of like a Christian who shows up at church for Christmas and Easter, but blows it off the rest of the year.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

"Christians" being borderline Racist/Discriminatory. Seen that both in classmates (a creationist) and in politics.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 hours ago

There's some biblical precedent for that in the parable of the good Samaritan.

It's almost like religious brand doesn't really matter ethically.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 18 hours ago

Not even borderline, completely over the line.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

My Muslim classmate ate pork during Ramadan. He just didn't gave a shit lol. He got someone to buy it for him like a drug deal.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Lol, did he at least wait for evening before eating?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Nah, it was during lunch lol

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 hours ago

If you're gonna break the rules, go all in!

[–] Proprietary_Blend 19 points 19 hours ago

Most Catholics see their religion as a buffet. They choose the things they like and ignore everything else.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

Like every american evangelical who supports deportation or honestly the American empire in general. There is no way these people have read and understood like anything from the bible. Actually nuts how contradictory they are.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 17 hours ago

No idea how to rate different things.

Lots of sex before marriage. Sometimes it was okay because "they weren't going to marry them, do it isn't premarital."

Lots of accumulation of weath and doing only negative to poor people.

Lots of "throwing the first stone."

Publicly displaying religion from religions that specifically say not to do that.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I'll start with fellow followers of Christ and say a lot of the ones I've met aren't as easygoing as would be stereotypical. Now you might read the Bible (or the Book of Mormon, or the Book of Hagoth; I have 'em all) and think "hey that person over there is famous for their devotion, I'm going to strike a friendship" and then realize it's a lot closer to "stepping on eggshells" than you might think. Points to other Hagothists/Mormons though as they actually have been understanding people. Gossip, hate, whatever you want to call it, I'm no stranger to bearing witness to it, and you often wonder "wait, why are they involved in this". It's also complicated because, by the same token, they have positives like what we might call tolerance towards the LGBT, so there are other dimensions to it.

Technically not a "religion" per se, but the atheist situation strikes me as odd. It often seems like their attitude towards adherence to God is second-hand because what they'll say about God they'll never say about government, or they'll do it rarely. Everything to most of them considered "questionable" or "concerning" is only "questionable" or "concerning" when it involves divine authority. I have joked before that if climate change or Marxism was in the Bible, nobody would believe them.

I also noticed a lot of Buddhists couldn't quote sutras from the Tripitaka or don't follow them to an extent where the individuals are Buddhist-esque enough to rely on to be peaceful towards your dilemmas, almost as if it's for show. Heck, I'm not a Buddhist yet can quote sutras that aren't in the Tripitaka (because not all of them made into the final edition).

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I don't follow your atheist paragraph. Could you clarify a bit? Are you saying that atheists disbelieve the contents of the Bible simply because it's a holy text, even though some of it may be factual? (E.g. historical events)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

It sometimes seemed that way. It's not as common now for the discussion to come up in the 2020's (maybe someone gave them what they were looking for, considering the opposite is now trendy), but it was common for them to say, for example, that they require some kind of physical trace in order to not hold God in doubt but not carry this over for things like historical figures.

[–] MisterNeon 9 points 20 hours ago

I'm out here everyday not sacrificing people and everyday the world gets a little worse.

The Earth and the Sun are hungry.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 17 hours ago

I knew a Jewish guy that loved bacon and pork chops in high school.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Personally, I can only think of one which was my great uncle who works for NASA. He was an atheist for all of my life (30+ years) until a few years ago when he came to visit us and began coming to church and explained that he’s now a Christian.

I haven’t asked his reasons why but I am curious what led to his conversion. Most of my family is Christian, but no one, as far as I know, pressured him to change or mocked him for his (lack of) belief. The topic of religion never came up in family gatherings besides having a circle of hands and prayer before dinner.

[–] meco03211 2 points 14 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago

Baha'i that adheres to reincarnation? That's just another faith waiting to be spread!