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[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Yeah... I often received messages of men who wanted to rape me or who harassed me on public Discord servers & (mostly) DMs (Discord Townhall, etc, ). This is why I don't use the shorten version of my pseudonym anymore anywhere in public (Lluwu) and deleted my Discord account.

::: Discord screenshot :::

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I can't see the screenshot, both from Voyager and the web UI

[–] [email protected] 55 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I can’t even imagine. I see so much misogyny on some lemmy comms.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Honestly, you sadly get used to it - along with, uh, degeneracy directed at you.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yep I get u. As a disabled person I eventually got used to the inevitable ableism on social media, lemmy is “better” than reddit or X, but it’s still shit.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

I'm certain you didn't mean that they are, but the meme format kinda implies it, so I just thought I'd point out from here on that intersection that the two groups aren't mutually exclusive😊

(also shout out to fellow enby and or agender afabs lol)

Otherwise both this and op are sadly spot on.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Wait, there's women on the internet?!

[–] [email protected] 42 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)
[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I opened this post knowing 100% that I'd find this comment.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 weeks ago

The internet

Where men are men

Where women are men

Where kids are FBI

—1990s USEnet era adage

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Yes, but weirdly, none of us play MMOs.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago

You're not missing much

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I know a few who play as male characters to avoid attention.

[–] atomicorange 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I would play as male characters and then dye their armor pink and flirt relentlessly with the boys. It was fun, especially when you’d get on teamspeak with them after playing together for weeks and they’d be like “wait you’re a girl?”

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

Oh, I know. I've met a lot of women who do, it was more tongue-in-cheek at the old "Many Men Online Roleplaying Girls".

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I know at least two who are in my coven / crew who play MMOs.

I don't like MMOs myself, but I'm way neurodivergent and do a lot of single-player and small-group co-op.

I think I steered away from pub games around the rise of gamergate and the alt-right. Folks got scary.

[–] aeronmelon 24 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Annie get your Powered Work Loader.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Can confirm. Went as Final Girl on Among Us and wow. Dudes got ~~viscous~~ vicious inside minutes.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Yes, and corrected.

Though viscous seems applicable as well.

[–] MataVatnik 1 points 2 weeks ago

Had a boy fall in love with me 💁‍♀️

[–] jaggedrobotpubes 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

If an actual asshole manages to type anything at all on a keyboard, it should get to post whatever it typed.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago
  1. Get that shit rock hard, dehydrate, eat lots of meat
  2. Get in position above the key you want to press
  3. Let the turd slip out, just enough to press the key
  4. Slurp that shit back up
  5. Repeat.until.done.
[–] weeeeum 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

What if we all pretended to be women because such harassment to a sufficiently wide audience would be extremely isolating

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

I believe you read this incorrectly.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

i read this as saying that asholes with keyboards go explore the internet as women and that just sounds like the beginning of a trans comic/webtoon