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[–] nadram 224 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Here is Google showing blatant malicious compliance to their own standards. "You want security notifications for payments made through your account? Have a side of ads with that". They've fallen real low since the days of "do no harm" 😞

[–] [email protected] 30 points 6 months ago (2 children)

"Do no harm", that's the Hippocratic Oath.

[–] whaleross 10 points 6 months ago

"Do no harm to the stockholders" would be the contemporary take.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

More like the Hippocratic Option amirite? πŸ€œπŸ€›

[–] DaddleDew 145 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

There should be a legal requirement to call a targeted advertisement a targeted advertisement. Being allowed to call them "recommendations" only makes these assholes feel emboldened to push ads where people wouldn't normally accept them. Microsoft is pulling that dirty trick as well.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 6 months ago

Yeah in Europe I'd send this to my local data authorities and the ombudsman

[–] [email protected] 68 points 6 months ago

asshole design

[–] Bosht 66 points 6 months ago (1 children)

They know exactly what they're doing. They're never ignorant of this shit, it's 100 percent intentional. So much for not being evil.

[–] kcop 36 points 6 months ago (5 children)

Yeah Starbucks does the same thing with "Promotions and Order Status". :/

[–] [email protected] 25 points 6 months ago

Wow this is unethical. They should all be separate toggles.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (2 children)

As does SkipTheDishes. Want to be notified that your food is almost here? Fuck you, be bombarded with promotions and deals you didn't ask for.

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[–] random8847 6 points 6 months ago

The management executive who took this decision deserves a punch in the face.

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 6 months ago (2 children)

There's an app, and I'm sure others like it, called Tidy Panel that lets you block notifications based on the content they have. The free version let's you block a handful, but you need premium for unlimited. For you, the free might be enough.

[–] littlewonder 17 points 6 months ago

Also, the BuzzKill app does this and it's beautiful with Material design.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

Tasker also have the autonotification plugin which let you set any rules and actions you want on notifications

[–] Wild_Mastic 32 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I completely disabled all notifications from Google play. There isn't a single one worth of it.

That said, when I open it (like once every 2 months) I have a permanent dot on the notification area, with a notification that goes about 'plz enable notifications so we can spam you'

[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

Just like dating apps, if you want notification of a message or match, you have to get ad notifications daily

[–] Cosmos7349 39 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Joke’s on you. I get daily ads WITHOUT getting message or match notifications. I have successfully decoupled.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

decoupled

Assuming it's a pun

[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Yeah that’s horrible. I have a strict policy of turning off any notification that is not a direct message from a person to me or a reminder I set myself. If crap gets bundled like this, I turn it off altogether.

When I used Tinder, I just checked the app every now and then and I remember people unmatching me again because I didn’t reply quickly enough. Online dating is so fucking toxic.

[–] pivot_root 15 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I put "Messages will arrive in three to five business days" in my bio, and that solved the problem nicely. Now, I simply don't get matches at all 😎

[–] Emerald 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

If you aren't joking… that's awesome

[–] pivot_root 2 points 6 months ago

Yeah... I think you might be an optimist. It was not the positive outcome you appeared to have taken away from it.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago (3 children)

This should be better with /e/OS or lineageOS, but you have to jump through several hoops (and often lose your warranty) when you install them instead of your default Android OS.

Unfortunately most devices block them completely, but the Pixel phones are supported (as far as I know).

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

How would an AOSP fork help with an app not using the notifications API correctly? Just magically rewrite the app?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago (2 children)

My gripe with non android os is that they usually don't have access to bank apps, and those are a must

[–] misterwu 2 points 6 months ago

i run rooted LinageOS 21 with the Zygisk Assistant and Play Integrity Fix modules. No app can detect i use a custom rooted rom. Google wallet and my banking apps work just fine. And i can do whatever the fuck I want with my phone since it's rooted. For example with AdAway all ads are gone. I love it.

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[–] Emerald 3 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Custom ROMs on Google Pixel don't void your warranty and its super easy to revert back to stock ROM

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

you can unsubscribe from "recommendations" separately tbf (or decline subscription in the firsr place)

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

I had to specifically mute all of my notifications because I couldn't find out what app was causing them and it was driving me nuts. Steps below for a Pixel phone if anyone is interested in how to mute notifications without having to go into vibrate mode.

For a Pixel 7 phone:

Settings -> Sound & Vibration -> Default notification sound -> My Sounds -> None

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

I had to specifically mute all of my notifications because I couldn't find out what app was causing them and it was driving me nuts.

I've been doing that for years. I only have a handful of apps with audio notifications, basically the most important ones that need my attention right away. Everything else gets vibrate.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

You can also just look at your "recent apps" under settings, if a notification popped off in the last 30s and you didn't see a window then it'll almost certainly be the top app in "most recent"

It's a glitch / purposeful design in some apps where the actual popup window isn't set to actually stick around so it just makes a ghost noise. For me it was some random app I installed for one niche purpose and forgot about

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I think you can click it and choose from within it. Normally on android, when there is a switch with a line next to it, that means it's clickable and has more options.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Unfortunately, this is as granular as you're able to get with the notification controls for the Play Store app.

[–] ogeist 7 points 6 months ago (5 children)

From the application itself, you can disable the Deals and Promotions.

I was wondering why I have not seen any ads even though I have this active for the app. So there you go.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

Good find, I just disabled that in my Play Store settings now. Thanks for that!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

I have this same option and it's disabled, too. Not sure what kind of play store op has

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

I just checked my options on my Samsung and there is no individual option to fine tune that

[–] Etterra 3 points 6 months ago

It's designed that way on purpose.

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