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Young adults in the U.S. are experiencing a very different trajectory than their parents, with more of them hitting key milestones later in life and also taking on more debt, according to a new report from the Pew Research Center.

A majority of young adults say they remain financially dependent on their parents to some extent, such as receiving help paying for everything from rent to their mobile phone bills. Only about 45% of 18- to 34-year-olds described themselves as completely financially independent from their parents, the study found.

Not surprisingly, the younger members of the group, those 18 to 24, are the most likely to rely on their folks for financial support, with more than half relying on their parents to help take care of basic household expenses. But a significant share of 30- to 34-year-olds also need assistance, with almost 1 in 5 saying their parents provide aid for their household bills.

More broadly, the survey offers a portrait of a generation that's struggling with debt in a way that their parents did not, with more of them shouldering student loans and, for those who own a home, larger mortgages than their parents had at their age. But the analysis also showed that young adults expressed optimism about their futures, with 3 in 4 who are currently financially dependent on their parents saying they believe they'll eventually reach independence.

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[–] Dran_Arcana 9 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (5 children)

As a guy who almost exclusively "eats" Soylent, I feel targeted lol. I know your post is supposed to be dystopian satire, but... Unironically though, I'm the healthiest I've ever been (375lbs -> 225lbs), and my monthly food expenses are less than a quarter of what it used to be. Been doing this almost 8 years now and while I recognize it's not for everyone, some people could use a little gruel.

[–] Cosmonauticus 18 points 9 months ago (2 children)

The problem is it should be optional. A family of 4, a single parent, or a college grad working 60hrs a week shouldn't only be able to afford gruel.

[–] FlyingSquid 19 points 9 months ago (2 children)

If you watch old educational and industrial movies from the 1950s (yes, some of us here on Lemmy are, amazingly, weird), you find out that people living on a single income of a father working at a service station could afford a house and a decent dinner for their family.

That may not be 100% accurate, but the fact that they even show it as plausible would be seen as utter nonsense today.

Even going back to the 1980s- Both Roseanne and Dan in Roseanne have trouble holding down a job, but they can still afford a house for their large family and they don't go hungry. Even on Married With Children, they are poor, but they have a house for their four-person family and don't go hungry on a single shoe salesman's salary and no one thought, "how ridiculous! A shoe salesman? With a house?" at the time.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago (3 children)

You do have to factor in race, that a lot of what you see on tv was idealised even at the time, and that we now also have unimaginable luxuries that we take for granted. Proper insulation, phones, computers, unlimited music, etc.

In 1950 you could buy a median US house for $20k. A fridge/freezer cost $400, a tv cost $300 and a washer and dryer would cost $500.

Now a median house costs $400k. If the cost of household appliances and electronics had risen as much as houses had, a freezer would cost $8000, a tv would cost $6000 and a washer + dryer would set you back $10000.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I dont know a single person who wouldn't be happy to buy a 8k freezer, a 6k tv and a 10k washer+dryer if it meant they could buy a 20k house.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

The appliances were adjusted for inflation, but not the house. $20k in 1950 is $250k today. Median home price in the US is $450k today. So your point still stands, I think.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Average wage in 1950 was something like 5k. So that 20k house is four years wage.

Average wage now is over 50k. Would you be happy to buy a house for four years wage at 200k? Of course you would.

But would you be happy to buy a typical 1950s house with lead pipes, lead paint, asbestos insulation, no central heating and perhaps not even warm water? Questionable. It's the same thing as with cars. 1950s cars were far more affordable. They were also death traps and a recent diesel VW golf can easily outperform many an 80s ferrari.

Of course, it's not 1950. The world is far richer and more technologically advanced. Anyone should be able to afford a small home and the basics on a minimum wage job. If that's not possible anymore, then society (and the government) is failing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Youre aware a living fuck ton of houses are the same 1950s ones that they bought back then, right? Likely with a few decades of miscellaneous updates, but surely not enough to make a 200k house worth the 400-450k they go for on average now.

Basically, a house now costs 8yrs wage, not 4. Many of those houses are the same ones that used to go for 4yrs wage.

You think because someone paid 10k to update the electrical and tossed in 20k for hvac over the decades its just a wash though, eh?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I used to work in the building industry. Removing asbestos, lead pipes, lead paint, replacing the electrics, replacing windows and insulation, etc. isn't going to cost you 10k. It's obviously also not going to cost you half a million. Just saying that the past wasn't all peaches and cream. You're comparing apples with oranges.

But as I said, it's not 1950. We're richer and more technologically advanced. (Safe) housing should be relatively affordable, and it's a choice that it isn't. Example off the top of my head: Vienna, Austria. Beautiful city in a rich country. Government owns over half the housing stock, so rental prices stay relatively affordable. AFAIK it doesn't cost them much, if anything it makes them money. Not that it matters. Like public transport or roads, they don't need to be profitable.

e: also, it's a huge waste that so much capital is stuck in housing for decades, rather than being used to fund other stuff.

[–] PopOfAfrica 7 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It's also worth noting the quality of the items you were receiving. Those washers and dryers never broke, and if they did, they were easily repairable.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

You can still buy commercial grade fridges and washing machines for half the price.

[–] FlyingSquid 4 points 9 months ago

Obviously it was idealized, but no one looked at it and thought "this is absolutely ridiculous and unachievable." And definitely race is a factor, since all the families I mentioned were white, and in the 1950s also benefited from the whites only G.I. Bill, but the idea that it was achievable for anyone on a low income as plausible rather than so idealized as to be impossible shows that it wasn't as ridiculous as it is today.

I mean you also had poor families, both white and black, on TV- The Honeymooners and Good Times both come to mind. But even there, they did mostly okay. And Good Times took place in the projects.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Don't forget the Simpsons. Dad, 3 kids, a homemaker spouse, and two pets in a 2 story home with 4 bedrooms, 2 1/2 bathrooms, a garage, basement, and a huge yard in a safe neighborhood. All that on a blue collar salary.

Used to seem totally normal but now that I type that all out it sounds insane

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Wow what a plot, I've been watching the Simpsons recently so now I'm excited to get to season 8, what a great show

[–] taanegl 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Like I'm not against living with just ~the bare necessities~ regarding sustenance, but my god have you seen some of these these poor people cans? That ain't meat, bro. Soylent Green are a step up, in that it actually has nutritional value.

[–] Dran_Arcana 3 points 9 months ago

The only cheap food I buy is soylent. I buy so little other food comparatively that it's not difficult to afford some nice ingredients to cook a weekend dinner with, or to go out for a treat. I would not wish a life of mcdoubles and canned meat on anyone.

[–] afraid_of_zombies 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Very similar. I am on two bottles of Soylent a day to lose weight. It is working but I can't wait until I get to normal weight and not have to drink soy juice anymore.

There is something so wrong with everything when I am working at my desk, my 12:00 alarms beeps, I spend two minutes drinking my lunch, and now I can just go back to work. Like what the fuck. My ancestors toiled for a 100,000 years for this?

[–] Dran_Arcana 3 points 9 months ago

Do you have a plan for not rebounding? The thing about weight is it's simple, not easy. Simple as in calories in <= calories out. Not easy as in willpower to maintain the net equation. If you get down to a weight and immediately go back to what you were doing, you'll just gain the weight right back. Your lifestyle shift doesn't need to be bottles of goup for 2 meals a day but you do need to find a sustainable way to have <= 400kcal breakfasts and lunches forever.

My solution was to just keep drinking the goup lol

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Do you use the powder? How do you typically mix things up?

[–] Dran_Arcana 4 points 9 months ago

I did the powder for the first ~3 years when I was starting out. I lost almost all the weight in 1.5 years, and since then have just lowered bodyfat percentage and increased muscle mass, while maintaining weight. These days I'm in a better position financially and can afford the premium of the ready-to-drink bottles so I mostly do that. Unironically I found that "mixing things up" with flavors and additives triggers that hunger within me to consume. I don't mean hunger like caloric, stomach grumble hunger, I mean hunger like an addiction hunger. Keeping it to a single flavor, and a strict schedule helps me turn that part of my brain off and I can now make the mental distinction between "fuel" and "pleasure". When I am out for date night with the wife or have people over for football it's "pleasure". When I'm getting up in the morning for work or eating lunch in-between tickets or sitting down for dinner between work and evening leisure it's "fuel". I consume accordingly, and single-flavor soylent is my "fuel".

[–] afraid_of_zombies 1 points 9 months ago

Not them. I use the bottles. I did the powder for a while but kinda fell off of it. Thinking of going back, my coworker wants to introduce me to the world of flavor additives to Soylent so that should be fun I guess. Peanut butter and banana Soylent doesn't sound so bad.

[–] FlyingSquid -3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

You honestly piss me off because I have a mystery disease and have not eaten solid food for five months. I live on Ensure and Gatorade. The fact that you can choose to eat want you wanted but don't?

And sure, I've lost weight too. And I was overweight. I'm now within 10 pounds of my ideal weight according to my BMI. I don't get to go to the Mayo Clinic until the end of March. I will be underweight by then. Possibly significantly- my weight loss amount tends to fluctuate, but it can be over a pound a day sometimes. Hoo-fucking-ray. Oh yeah, also I'm not spending much on food BECAUSE I CAN'T FUCKING EAT IT.

(Please no medical advice. If I'm going to the Mayo Clinic, you don't have the answer.)

I'm far from alone even with people who don't have mystery diseases. There are plenty of people on severe dietary restrictions because of their health who would love to do nothing more than eat a large pizza or a burger, something they will never be able do to again for the rest of their lives.

Go eat some real food. Because you can.

I haven't been so annoyed in a while.

[–] Dran_Arcana 7 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I upset you because... I found a sustainable way to eat better without breaking the bank, and I'm now healthy for it? I'm sorry that you have to deal with whatever you're dealing with; nobody deserves to live in a universe where their body rejects common foods. I'm not a doctor don't worry; I have no medical advice for you. I do have some philosophical advice though. You should look within to figure out why you're mad at me; I'm not your enemy.