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[–] [email protected] 66 points 10 months ago (5 children)

Why have you chosen to attack me so personally on this fine day? Give me some warning before you completely demolish me like that. Even just a countdown from 3 or something.

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[–] [email protected] 47 points 10 months ago (1 children)

this is how I became a software developer

[–] [email protected] 36 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Add in a dash of autistic hyperfocus and you can in fact teach yourself enough to get the project done.

Doesn't mean you WILL get it done of course.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 10 months ago (5 children)

Once I learn enough to feel like whatever it is is achievable I lose all interest in actually doing it.. I have the same problem with finishing video games once I get to the point that Im skilled enough or have enough shit built or whatever that beating the game is inevitable I just move on to the next one.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

narrative driven games work a LOT better for me for that reason. I've played through the entire halo master chief collection and titanfall 2 campaign without much issue. Never got very far in factorio on the other hand.

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[–] LazaroFilm 30 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

That’s how I learned JavaScrpt Python and C++. Now I’m programming my own embedded project on a RP2040 with touchscreen, IMU and addressable LEDs. On top of that I learned thanks to my drone hobby how to solder and assemble circuits and with my 3D printing hobby I can print custom parts to hold the electronics I assembled and programmed. Now I’m reading component data sheet before bed and playing puzzles with i2c communication tables. Fun!

My background is filmmaking, I’m a camera operator. I don’t work in IT or engineering. I started these hobbies for fun and they have started to blend into something a loser to a job (that I really enjoy)

[–] [email protected] 12 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (3 children)

This is the sort of person I want to be until mid way through, my crisis begins, as I understand that there are people way better than me at insert current task because I must completely be good at it or it isn't worth it, I just lose my will power at that point and get depressed, give up and repeat the cycle with something new.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 10 months ago (2 children)

You just described the entire cycle of discovering Linux... Starting with something simple like Mint or Ubuntu, hearing whispers from individuals with large gray beards that Gentoo and Arch are better, and then all of a sudden you're learning about lithography processing and kernel development all because a fucking peripheral didn't load properly.

"I'll just figure it out", he delusionally murmured as he typed out the 132nd acronym for the day... One day I won't be stupid!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

One day I won’t be stupid!

Yeah, about that... (Edit: This response may have came out as offensive, I meant to say that ADHD doesn't really get better with age but quite the opposite.)

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[–] big_onion 26 points 9 months ago (1 children)

If you have ADHD then hyper focus kicks in and you bet your ass you will be the best person for the job in no time. Add on that imposter syndrome that makes you work double hard and however many decades of self loathing and self hate you have to make you want to over achieve. I somehow went from music degrees to managing a $40 million budget, but it makes sense, sorta.

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[–] bradons 24 points 10 months ago (1 children)

That's why I keep doing that?!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago

It's also a symptom of autism and mania.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Unfortunately, I think this is because pretty much every endeavour in life, if you have (severe) ADHD, feels like that. At that point it doesn't really make a difference.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I have severe ADHD and exsisting is a pain. (I'm not suicidal, it's just painful to do/achieve anything at all)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)

It's hard to be constantly in improvise-mode. Really, that's how it feels to me at least. As if everything consists of just trying to hold it together somehow.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

That's how a lot of ADHD folks experience it. And it's really not that surprising when you learn what the ADHD does to your brain.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 10 months ago

Listen buddy, I know how to do a fuck load of things... A little bit.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 9 months ago

The amount of posts I relate with here are making me wonder again if I have ADHD to some degree lol

[–] [email protected] 15 points 10 months ago (1 children)

wow, this one is relatable. So far I keep succeeding so I haven't been demotivated yet...

[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Meanwhile I failed all the times I tried.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (2 children)

well, I think some failures are successes too. If you learn from it in big ways that's a win

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[–] tacosplease 15 points 9 months ago

It's worked out for me more than once. I have a lot of abandoned projects too though.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Me taking the hardest math class at community college when I suck at math.. Yeah that wasn't great

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

Same. Was funny though, because now I know how be an even more pedantic prick using propositional calculus

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[–] AFaithfulNihilist 12 points 10 months ago

Next thing you're going to tell me that I shouldn't have bought a tractor if I didn't understand the first thing about hydraulics. I'm getting there, 20 YouTube videos at a time... It's just on pause while I learn carpentry to build a structure to put the solar panels on. Obviously before I can even properly design that I need to learn how to wire the solar panels properly, but those are just winter projects. For now, I need to focus on maintaining the grape vines on the land I already cleared.

No, I'm not a farmer, why do you ask? I work in IT... No I don't own a home...

[–] [email protected] 12 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (6 children)

Fuck.

ETA: Feeling this hard right now. Protip: Always buy important gifts that have to be complete with a deadline. Always. I know you might be thinking "but something that I make for my spouse's birthday will be much more meaningful." Stop. Buy a gift. It will save a lot of strife.

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[–] xpinchx 12 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Lol this is me at my job. I got hired to do something I've never done before and I've built on it so much I got promoted and now I'm doing more things I never knew how to do. Sometimes it does work out ¯_(ツ)_/¯

[–] Guy_Fieris_Hair 19 points 10 months ago

The ADHD part is when you lose all interest and can't bring yourself to even think about it anymore. So watch out.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 10 months ago

The fun part is accomplishing that but somehow forgetting all the stuff you learned down the line.

[–] Stoney_Logica1 11 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Jack of all trades, and master of none.

It may not be pretty, but I'll get the job done.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago

If they don't find you handsome, at least they'll find you handy.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago

WHY DO YOU ATTACK ME LIKE THIS!?!?!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

it is called consulting and it eats up your life…

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

And i would have gotten away with it, too, if it weren't for my damned ADHD interfering!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago

Me too thanks.

I've tried to combat it as I get older by circling around. I'll focus on something for weeks or months or years, then put it down for a year or more as I cycle through four other things.

I should be ready to try blacksmithing again in about 5 years.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago

me right now trying to create a regression to fit tire compound, size, pressure, and rim diameter to predict slip angles, temps, angular forces, and loads in Matlab. (I have no experience with multivariate regressions, Matlab, or physics)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago

But that is how I got started on project that people think will never be successful

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago (6 children)

This is me right now.

My brother purchased a 3D printer and honestly, it's pretty neat. The problem is, I have never done any serious 3D design work (I barely did any 2D stuff in auto CAD when I was in school)...

So I'm limited to pre-made STL prints and honestly, most of what's out there, I'm not keen on. Not saying any of the available 3D printable files are bad by any stretch, they're just.... not exactly what I want. You know? I'd like to tweak or touch up some aspects of the model before I print it... not because I'm vain or I want to have my stuff be unique, but usually because there's a good reason why I want it that way.

There's also stuff I'd like to have that is a bit niche, and nobody has made it, but it should be relatively trivial for someone with 3D design experience to make, like covers for things that are not a typical geometry.... an example I have is that I have a battery pack for a handheld radio. It isn't dissimilar to the kind of battery packs that early cellphones used (think Nokia 5100 series of phones). All I want is a hard cover for the business side of the battery pack, so if my spare battery is tossed in with metal things, nothing bad happens. Sure, I could solve this with a bag of sorts, but I'd still have to get one that's just the right size for the pack, and that's not a trivial task. I also plan on having (or already have) several of these batteries, and they have a belt clip attached to the battery, so it would be nice to be able to clip them on my belt without worrying that a light rainfall might short out the exposed contacts on them. But the radio is kind of niche (happens to be a alinco DJ-MD5 variant), and #1 not many people have this radio, and B: those that do, aren't really the 3D printing crowd.

So now I'm on a quest to figure out 3D design so I can make a model of the battery connector on the radio, so I can make effectively a "dummy" radio side interface and keep it secure whether I put it in my bag or on my belt. Both for safety and convenience.

We have a 3D printer, filament, all the necessary stuff to do it, and as soon as I have the STL file, I can make as many as I want/need. If one breaks, no problem, a few dollars of filament and a few hours later, I have a fresh one.

I'm a complete noob with 3D printing and 3D design. So I have the ambitious and lofty goal of learning to do it, so I can make this part. I'm not sure it will work, or that I'll get it done, but it's something that I want and I don't think anyone else is going to do the design for me..... so I have to figure it out, as if 3D design is some trivial weekend task, and not a highly specialized industry of professional engineers....

I'm sure it will be fine. (Insert "this is fine" meme here)

[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I started reading your comment and gave up reading halfway though because of the lenght lol. But yeah, I relate.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I'll second getting digital calipers to make things easy. I should really just buy a pair myself already, I've just been making do with a ruler.

FreeCad is another free option I don't see mentioend yet. It works but is frustrating to use because it's buggy and fights with you.

Generally, I think of 3D design like legos or scultping. You need to build pieces and "glue" them together. It's okay to have 2 objects taking up the same space too. If you can imagine 3D objects and how they fit together you'll find it a bit easier.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (2 children)

A genius isn't born a genius.

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[–] BilboBargains 5 points 10 months ago

Learning something new is a source of happiness, and there's no better way than hurling yourself into the deep end.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

For me, it depends on how much time I have before starting. If the start is immediate, "I'll figure this out on the fly" then ride that "oh, shit I don't know what I'm doing" adrenaline fueled dopamine wave all the way to borderline success. If I have lots of time before starting I'll over analyze then try and fail to become an expert and give up before starting.

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