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[–] baronvonj 134 points 1 year ago (2 children)

So .. if he could receive a call ... couldn't he make a call to someone he knows?

[–] [email protected] 202 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I remember reading about this. He was actually lost, in that he strayed from his trail and didn't immediately know how to return.

Rescuers were alerted because a family member had reported him missing after he didn't arrive home on time.

As the story goes, to the best of my recollection, the "lost" individual went for a hike and said they would be back before sundown. When they got lost, they obviously missed that deadline. They were biding their time in the forest until daybreak to try to find the trail to get back because it was too dark to look for it. So while he was "lost" it was mainly because the sun had gone down. He didn't feel like he was in any danger, and wasn't at any risk of immediately being harmed or killed; AFAIK they were reasonably familiar with that forest and they were more than capable of surviving in those conditions; so he had no motivation to seek help.

TL;DR: guy didn't feel like he needed help.

[–] _CottonCandyUnicorn_ 109 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I get that he didn't feel like he needed help. But he told his family he'd be back before sundown so wouldn't the thought to call or even text your family to let them know you're ok cross your mind? That's the part that seems strange to me.

[–] cactusupyourbutt 64 points 1 year ago (1 children)

whats strange to me is that the family didnt try to reach him first

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

Or why didn’t the rescuers text or leave a message?

Sounds like everyone has trouble communicating properly here. It’s like how to write a sitcom plot 101.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Maybe they forgot ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Been there for sure

Just forgetting to tell family I was going to be later than I expected

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Happens on a weekly basis for me

[–] idunnololz 10 points 1 year ago

Yeah that part is a bit inconsiderate.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 year ago (2 children)

He was probably afraid to call for help due to the insane prices the search and rescue folks charge. Might have wanted to wait another day or two to be sure he was really lost before calling for help.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 year ago (4 children)

due to the insane prices the search and rescue folks charge

Is this a joke or is this actually a thing in the US?

[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago

Hahahaha no really the US is just a nightmare in ways you havent even thought of, yet.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It’s a U.S. thing! Yay! You can buy insurance for it if you do a lot of backpacking but that’s rare. I believe it’s in the five figures for a rescue. But apparently occasionally it can be free if you’re lucky enough to get rescued by the one agency whose name I forget.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But apparently occasionally it can be free if you’re lucky enough to get rescued by the one agency whose name I forget.

MIB?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

Unfortunately they only come if you need to be rescued from aliens.

[–] punkwalrus 5 points 1 year ago

A childhood friend of mine had to sign a waiver in New Zealand because her and her team were climbing down some canyon notoriously hard to get to except by rescue helicopter. She got stuck, and the rest of the team went to go get help. She paid $58,000 in 1990s money for the rescue. So it's not just the US.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (3 children)

USA: die or get crippled by debt for getting saved

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[–] [email protected] 85 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If it's important, they'll leave a message. Otherwise it's just another scam anyway

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Hopefully you're not applying for a job haha

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[–] [email protected] 75 points 1 year ago

As someone who does not answer unknown numbers I am laughing and also cringing

[–] [email protected] 75 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If I pick up, then they know its a real number and I get added to a hundred more lists. Its taken me years of diligently ignoring the world to get to the point where i only get a couple of spam calls a day. I might not answer, either.

[–] jackoneill 28 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I have 2 numbers, my direct cell that only family and close friends know, and my business line that I give out like candy. Business line is simply a virtual line that goes to an auto attendant that I this is si and so from whatever company, dial 1 to ring my cell or dial 2 to leave a voicemail. If you don’t hit a number it hangs up after 30 seconds. No more spam. Of course, some REALLY dumb clients think I’m sending them straight to voicemail because they don’t listen, but that’s it’s own kind of filter that I also appreciate

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

What service is that?

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[–] c0mbatbag3l 61 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It has nothing to do with social fear, every fucking call on my personal and work phone is a scam.

Get that shit under control and then maybe I'll answer my cell phone once in awhile lol

Though if I was really lost I think I'd be answering every call tbh.

[–] sheogorath 5 points 1 year ago

If you live in a supported country, (but only US have the automatic screening feature) I suggest getting a Pixel phone and use the call screening features.

https://support.google.com/phoneapp/answer/9118387?hl=en

I'm currently using a Samsung phone and it has a similar feature but the screening can only be done manually and Bixby's voice is miles behind Google Assistant's.

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[–] [email protected] 53 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The telephone network is practically useless because we don't have any authentication to it anymore.

When the phone company had to do something to physically connect a wire to a building, it was sufficient. But that I can download any number of apps that lets me war dial an entire continent pretending to be just anyone? Yeah the phone network isn't secure enough for the average user.

[–] ikidd 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

It never really was secure. You could always set the Caller ID on an outgoing PRI trunk to whatever you wanted with any of the phone systems in the last half century. It isn't validated.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Also phone phreaking existed. Just blow a whistle into the pay phone and get free calls.

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I remember this article... He went for a hike and didn't tell his roommates when he would be back. He didn't answer their calls (I'm assuming he needed some time alone), and was gone for more than 24 hours so they reported him missing. He just wanted some time away from his roommates and they put him the the national news.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Sounds like some people I'd need some time away from too lmao. Good to have people that care tho.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I wish people texted after failing to call me. I don't answer calls from unknown numbers either but if you know me then text me so I know it's not a spam number

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I agree, but I still have this idea that it's rude to text people unless you have gotten permission first. I think it's a relic from the 2000s-2010s when not everyone's phone had texting and if you did text them they could get charged by their phone provider. Obviously nowadays that's much less of a concern, but still feels like a social grey area for some reason

[–] die444die 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It is completely opposite to that in my circles. It would be weird to call people without texting them first. In fact, one of my best friends texted me to ask if he could call me.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

That definitely makes sense too, particularly when making new friends in my age group. I guess it's just when contacting people for business vs social communications? I'm not sure

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For real.

‘Unknown’ or ‘Suspected Spam’ yeah, I guess I’ll just die.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

If you don't, the spammers win.

[–] SpaceNoodle 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Did they not leave a fucking voicemail?

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's even worse than a call

[–] SpaceNoodle 7 points 1 year ago (4 children)

How is it worse? If there's important information, leave it for me.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I just let the mailbox fill up so people would stop leaving those.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

Something similar, if less life threatening, happened to me. My car had been stollen a while back and I avoided the random call from an area code 50+ miles away. Turns out it had been the cops from that area telling my they found my (stripped) vehicle. Impound lot ended up getting the car AND overnight parking fees. Absolute racket.

[–] RightHandOfIkaros 15 points 1 year ago

Why would he answer? They were probably trying to reach him about his car's extended warranty.

[–] duviobaz 11 points 1 year ago

Totally relatable

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This could be me lol

It is funny to be lost where you have cell service though.

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