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For the record I was posting in support of inclusive language, but pointing out that context and convention matter.

They seem to have even scrubbed my comment from their instance, lol.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (4 children)

Wow, somebody that day was salty, and pretty much just looking for a comment to get mad about.

There's another FOSS project idea: a bot that detects Lemmy bans and sends you a notification about it.

[–] Buddahriffic 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Another idea, take the mod log and allow voting on mod actions in a way that makes unpopular ones more visible. Give the users tools to evaluate moderators and admins to speed up the process of removing bad mods or users discovering they shouldn't bother with an instance with bad admins. Or, with a different sorting method, it could highlight mods that aren't power tripping losers.

Maybe a similar system for reporting, since it wouldn't surprise me if some mods feel like they need to act because of pressure from losers who power trip with the report button. You know, the kind that feels the need to inform people they've been reported.

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[–] Duamerthrax 16 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

I got banned from lemmy.world/c/linuxsucks, which is one person's mental illness, so who cares? Doesn't stop me from calling them an idiot when they show up elsewhere.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Never heard linuxsucks be described more accurately.

[–] Duamerthrax 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

That user showed up in the thread warning about someone spreading fud about Wikipedia to attack OP. Safe to say, whoever they are, they have multiple accounts for their obsessions.

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[–] hightrix 49 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Wow. That is about the tamest comment that’s ever gotten someone banned.

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 4 days ago

They could not in fact get over it, dude.

They must feel very strongly about the word dude. I'm in your camp on it. It's an exclamation, nothing more 🤷

[–] gmtom 68 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Wouldn't be a leftist platform if they didn't spend the majority of their time and effort self policing based on their purity tests instead of doing something actually productive

[–] LovableSidekick 31 points 4 days ago

The People's Front of Judea vs the Judean People's Front!

[–] ikidd 15 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I still remember watching that socialist convention that spent an hour doing nothing but teaching people to wave their hands in the air to signal applause and running someone down that dared to use the word "guys". Point of Personal Privilege, my ass.

[–] [email protected] 101 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Blahaj mods (especially the one modding ghazi, transgender and 196) are the worst kind of mods. They promote blatant misinformation, remove posts calling said misinformation out, and they ban people and label them transphobes despite there being no transphobic words or implications whatsoever in your comments.

Just block the entire instance and move on. There are better instances that better represent the lgbt community.

Source: my ban message is the same as yours, and I have never said or implied anything remotely transphobic.

[–] [email protected] 56 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

What I hate about blocking instances is that I no longer seem to get inbox notifications when a member of the instance comments on something in response to me, outside of that instance.

Like, my beef isn't with blahaj users, and I don't want to unintentionally ignore them because their admin/s are nutballs.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 4 days ago

Unless it’s hexbear in which case the users are also nuts

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[–] [email protected] 81 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Imagine going out of your way to mod based on shit posted else where.

I have been saying this... We have too much modding for no fucking reason.

We literally got 50k AMU, and half the modding is based on vibes, I don't like the tone or content of the comments

As if there is not enough real modding to go around lol

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

I get what you're saying about the overabundance of modding sometimes, but it's also important to remember that different types of modding can serve different needs within the community. Sure, some mods might feel unnecessary, but others provide a fresh experience and keep things interesting. In fact, if you're into mods that actually enhance gameplay and add value, check out this website(https://thespykegame.com/) for some solid content. There are mods out there that can truly elevate the experience, so it's not all just based on vibes!

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[–] dukeofdummies 45 points 4 days ago (10 children)

I'm just glad I'm not the only one who views dude as androgynous.

I thought I was one of the few.

[–] finitebanjo 15 points 4 days ago
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[–] [email protected] 36 points 4 days ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 69 points 5 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

From the Book of the Dude, the holy book of the Dudeism religion:

Incidentally, the term “dude” is commonly agreed to refer to all genders. Most linguists contend that the diminutive “dudette” is not in keeping with the parlance of our times.

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[–] LovableSidekick 36 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

The key is that you said "but..." which in some communities fails the test of absolute 100% agreement and makes you The Enemy. I had a very similar experience there, in my case it was saying someone who is "uncomfortable" with gender issues might not actually "hate" anybody, they could just be having trouble overcoming how they were raised. But in the end it's like if a TV channel stops but you get thousands of other channels, so oh well .

[–] yokonzo 56 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (26 children)
[–] SmilingSolaris 29 points 4 days ago

Not to everyone, and that's cool, until someone tells you not to call them dude anymore. Then your an asshole if you try to argue the gender neutrality of the term dude. Such as telling someone to get over it.

[–] Frozengyro 30 points 4 days ago (4 children)

I'm a dude, he's a dude, she's a dude, we're all dudes, yea!

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[–] Blaster_M 42 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (15 children)

I was once told my choice of defaulting to referring to people as they/them is offensive to nonbinary people. I don't necessarily know your pronouns at that particular instance of time when speaking, and being offensive is not my intention, but it seems to happen anyway.

Which is why I call they/them the equal oppurtunity offender. It doesn't discriminate in its neutralness.

Wait until they hear what non-binary sounds like in Spanish, a language that genders every noun as either male or female.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 4 days ago

Consider the source of the action(a person pursuing a position of authority on a relatively miniscule network) and keep on keeping on. Decades of forums moderated by basement dwellers with a Napoleon complex have made it hard for me to take things like this seriously.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SmAOBbUiZcY

[–] Itdidnttrickledown 11 points 3 days ago (6 children)

I'm gen x dude also has no gender.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

who cares. some of these communities are trash who don't allow you to participate if you don't align with their views. no different than reddit.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (2 children)

OP's complaint is that he was not aware of the ban so he was commenting into nothing.

This is really software issue, they can ban him, and he can block them back. No problem at all.

The issue is that these servers are blocking new people and they might get pissed about not knowing it. This is UX issue for fediverse.

On top of it, these bans are arbitrary and capricious for the most part, so again, this will piss anyone who does know how fediverse works.

We got 50k AMU, with too many mods with nothing to do, so they find busy work.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Joke’s on them, I’ve shadow banned them.

[–] pjwestin 18 points 4 days ago (10 children)

I was banned from a community called, "Pleasant Politics," that I had never heard of or interacted with, but honestly, as a preemptive move, fair enough.

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