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[–] GraniteM 52 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

As a member of the Oregon Trail generation, I can report that a couple of years ago I made a list of all the things that I was expected to not do when I was a cishet little boy and was afraid of being labeled "queer." The list of forbidden activities included, but was not limited to...

  • Singing
  • Dancing
  • Reading
  • Wearing bright colors
  • Taking too much care of my appearance
  • Hanging out with girls
  • Expressing emotions other than anger
  • Being in plays
  • Avoiding violence

As an adult I'd describe myself as... like a one or two on the Kinsey scale, but honestly much happier now that I've recognized that heteronormativity is a horrible fucking prison. Wearing bright colors is fun, I love who and what I love, David Bowie is attractive, and I'm no longer pretending otherwise.

[–] redisdead 3 points 2 weeks ago

I briefly got into crocheting and a friend made fun of it calling it gay.

Motherfucker I'm wielding a long ass standby thing and am stabbing the sheared fur of an animal to forge it into a scarf. Do you really want to get into an argument with me now?

[–] nifty 33 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Why are there so many gay people all of a sudden!?! Mfer, this is literally the only point in time that the internet and some socially progressive societies have existed together in time.

[–] Skepticpunk 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

As opposed to all those other times in history that the Internet existed.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

You mean 30 years ago?

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Wouldn't an 11 year old be Gen Alpha?

[–] [email protected] 28 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

depends on how long this has been going through the jepegging process

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago

I love me some long pegging processes

[–] moshtradamus666 16 points 2 weeks ago

Sure, but they can still talk about Gen z and millenials

[–] Opisek 6 points 2 weeks ago

Congratulations, you made me feel old.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Hey buddy, I'm sorry that I come to you with such sad news, but this is fake. It never happened.

[–] TotallynotJessica 21 points 2 weeks ago

Queer time isn't a new phenomenon unfortunately 😔

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 weeks ago

Kids these days don't know how new acceptance of LGBTQ individuals is. It's really shocking how quickly a majority of cishet folks shifted to supporting the LGBTQ community. In the 2000s cartoons would still go 'Omg I might catch the gay!" And yet now kids encourage eachother to experiment and explore and find out who they really are. Heck now I have my own questions about myself given my awareness of the options that are available

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Me_irl ;~;

Gen Z/alpha pls take over so we can just collapse and cry for the childhood we didn't get to have.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

gen z is just as fucked up as the rest of the population (mostly)

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Gen Z boys are screwed in the head.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago

I fear that is just men in general. I'm a man and emotionally stunted for sure.