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For me, it was that the Internet never forgets and that you should never enter your real name. In my opinion, both of these rules are now completely ignored.

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[–] Sanctus 136 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Dont believe anyone on the internet.

[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 129 points 1 month ago (12 children)

Don’t pick up the phone if someone is online… I’m old

[–] [email protected] 64 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I’m a millennial, I learned this, and now I just don’t pick up the phone.

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[–] Stern 115 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Don't feed the trolls.

Of course nowadays its nearly impossible to tell whos spouting racial slurs to get folks mad and whos doing it because they're just an asshole.

[–] [email protected] 49 points 1 month ago

Don't feed the AI

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[–] Jordan117 104 points 1 month ago (1 children)

When you share something cool, link back to the original creator or where you found it from.

[–] hightrix 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I’d argue this is the opposite of what was asked.

In the early days, no one would post sources or attribute β€œstuff” to anyone. We’d all just share what we thought were cool pictures.

Now, everyone gets mad when you dont post the name of the artist and their socials.

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[–] [email protected] 87 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Social media killed online aliases and I have a hard time deciding if we're all worse for it.

Instinctively I still stick by that, though, as you can tell by my anonymous profile with no bio, but when I volunteer any amount of personal info these days people are often confused that I'm not sharing openly who I am or where I'm from. Every time someone does that it weirds me out because in the 90s telling (and asking) people those things would have been such a suspicious, sketchy move.

[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 month ago (2 children)

in the 90s telling (and asking) people those things would have been such a suspicious, sketchy move.

a/s/l?

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Aight, I put on my robe and wizard's hat.

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[–] Sequentialsilence 22 points 1 month ago (1 children)

We were all 18/f/cal come on man…

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[–] WhatAmLemmy 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Shit, I provide every single service with randomly generated data, unless legally required. Just doing my part to pollute the training data.

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[–] [email protected] 79 points 1 month ago

When reading a long text, disconnect from the internet as soon as it has loaded so you don't pay for the time you spend reading.

[–] [email protected] 64 points 1 month ago

Don't share your personal information online.

Yeah that's definitely not being followed anymore.

[–] [email protected] 63 points 1 month ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 61 points 1 month ago (1 children)

"Don't believe everything you read on the internet." -Abraham Lincoln

Social media, a gorilla getting shot, two US elections, and GenAI later, we have completely fallen off this one simple rule.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago (2 children)

The amount of boomer bait on Facebook is staggering. The amount of Boomers falling for obviously AI-generated shite even moreso.

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[–] [email protected] 60 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Don't give your credit card details over the internet.

Nowadays people have them saved in their damn browser for convenience.

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[–] [email protected] 55 points 1 month ago

I remember being taught in school to apply source criticism, and that seems to have largely died as a concept.

This was back in the early 2000s...

[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You should use the Internet to get info out of it, not put your info there. If you do want to put info, it should never be traceable to you.

I just don’t get why people want so much of their life online…

[–] RaoulDook 22 points 1 month ago (2 children)

It went from "don't post pictures of yourself or your real name online because you might get strangers' attention" to everyone trying to be their own version of a Max Headroom talking head to try to get the attention of all the strangers. Selfies, video selfies, talking head videos, reaction videos... all garbage.

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[–] [email protected] 49 points 1 month ago (10 children)
[–] thedirtyknapkin 21 points 1 month ago (2 children)

twitter built itself on doing this the most nonsensical and annoying way possible.

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Basic forum etiquette. It's horrifying at work seeing teams "teams" (forums) used like chats, all the cross-posting and thread necromancy, people completely unable to keep topics confined to the appropriate sub-forum, etc

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago (12 children)

thread necromancy

AKA "discussing something with new information more than 31 seconds after people got bored of it"

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 month ago

On the Internet I grew up on, pretty much anything was ok except to discuss (or even speculate about) the real-world identities of users who didn't very openly disclose them.

Now many people think the latter is ok.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Don't talk to strangers.

Searching things is easy so don't post something without checking it. People now don't make the slightest effort to verify a rumor or conspiracy crap.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The same people who warned us about the dangers of the internet and not to believe everything, are now the ones readily falling for and spreading conspiracies and lies from social media.

It's tragic.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Internet is a proper noun and should always be capitalized.

[–] Lennnny 30 points 1 month ago

Don't meet people from online.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Don't get into stranger's cars, and don't give out your real name or number or address on the internet.

Now you do most of these things when you call an uber. πŸ˜…

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[–] 58008 28 points 1 month ago (2 children)

As in real life, it's pretty sound advice to ignore, block or otherwise disengage from trolls and other forms of belligerents. Even in the '90s when I first started using the internet, the phrase of the day was "don't feed the trolls". But people just can't help themselves. They will even reply saying "I know you're a troll, but...".

The Steam forums are a great example, where every other thread is a fake "is this game woke??" screed. The fact that you can be rewarded for being a cunt there with jesters (which translate into points that can be spent to buy profile items) just makes it a thousand times worse. You get 'paid' to be a troll on Steam. It's insanity.

The only anti-troll weapon that works or is needed is oblivion. Let their steaming turd of a post curdle in solitude. Don't even downvote it. Being downvoted is a victory for them, an acknowledgement that they exist and that they've gotten your attention and that they've annoyed you. Shadowban them from your mind. Block them so that no future posts of theirs will infect your screen. Report them so mods can remove/ban them. Just don't engage directly with the post or the user. Don't say "blocked and reported" in the troll's thread/post. Just do it silently.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 month ago

Don't Feed the trolls

[–] a_baby_duck 20 points 1 month ago

Read -> Comprehend -> Post

[–] HurlingDurling 19 points 1 month ago (4 children)

A/S/L should be replied when you join a chat room

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago

69/yes/flavourtown

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago

Stay anonymous

[–] random_character_a 18 points 1 month ago

Play Team Fortress on weekends. It's cheaper.

[–] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In 18 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Make sure you use the right type of search engine for the type of information you want.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago

Don't be a dick.

[–] Etterra 18 points 1 month ago

Don't believe everything you see. Actually I was taught that about TV, but for some reason the old folks forgot about it being applicable everywhere in life, not just on TV. They also forget about it on TV too.

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