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[-] [email protected] 97 points 3 weeks ago

And that man will wear that name with pride for the rest of his life.

[-] SirSamuel 49 points 3 weeks ago

Too right.

It's crazy how many people in this thread either didn't understand how endearing these pet names are or think a nickname for a family member = uneducated or some such nonsense.

My nephew called me ពូSam (pou, uncle) and I loved it. My BiL is Cambodian, I'm not. ពូ means nothing to me but when my little buddy said it it meant everything. He got a little older and one day I went to their house and he just called me "Sam" and a little bit of me broke, NGL.

[-] [email protected] 58 points 3 weeks ago

I never understood this, as my grandparents were always grandma/grandpa, or granny (in my paternal granmothers case she preferred it).

Then I moved to the south, and met my husband's family and friends. Every single one of them had weird names for at least one of their grandparents. A lot of them called grandmother "meemaw" and my father in law is papaw to my neices and nephews.

I took it as a cultural thing, but it still feels a bit strange to me.

[-] [email protected] 26 points 3 weeks ago

I fucking hate meemaw/mamaw and papaw with a passion. Partly because me ex's white-trash family uses them, but also they just sound stupid and I hate saying/hearing them

[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

I get that your anger probably comes from the frustration of a bad relationship. I also want to encourage you not to use bigoted terms. Just refering to them as your ex's family, or ex's fucked up family would have gotten a similar message across.

It really undermines your point, draws focus away from what youre trying communicate, & makes you look like a biased and unreliable narrator.

I hope that ex is out of your life & you're in a happier place now.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago

I thought it was dumb the first time I ever heard it.

They are literally the picture perfect stereotype of white trash I call it like I see it.

And no, we have two kids so she will never be out of my life. I am however in a happier place. Well actually the exact same place but now without her narcissistic gaslighting and constant put-downs :)

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[-] jaybone 18 points 3 weeks ago

Do people really not know this term anymore?

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[-] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

Well poor whites, specifically

[-] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

Poor and low impulse control.

People can be poor without being trashy

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago

It's definitely a cultural thing because I had the same experience. Although, It think it's become more common to use different names for grandparents up north in recent years. My mom and dad, who have lived in Wisconsin their entire lives, are "Nana" and "Papa". Growing up I don't remember hearing anyone call their grandparents that.

[-] TexasDrunk 5 points 3 weeks ago

It's wild down here. Thanks to a convoluted family tree due to adoption, divorce, and remarriage I had a total of 11 grandparents. Most of the men were Pawpaw to distinguish them except one who refused to be called anything except Grandfather and another we called pappy. Every one of the women had a different name loosely based on a mispronunciation of Granny.

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[-] cokeslutgarbage 46 points 3 weeks ago

My grandpa's life partner came into his life after my dad was an adult but before I was born, so she's been in the family longer than I have. She never wanted to be called anything other than her first name, but by all measures, she is my grandma, and I love her. So I've had the typical grandma/grandpa names for mine, but I also have an Izzy, and that's really special to me.

[-] [email protected] 42 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks for sharing such a wholesome story, cokeslutgarbage

[-] pubquiz 36 points 3 weeks ago

Bumpa... and damn proud of it.

[-] The_Picard_Maneuver 12 points 3 weeks ago

That's an adorable one

[-] [email protected] 35 points 3 weeks ago
[-] FlyingSquid 33 points 3 weeks ago

Ha! This happened with my mother-in-law! She wanted to be called grandma, but when my daughter was a baby and first learning to talk, she pointed to my wife and said, "Mama!" and then she pointed to my mother-in-law and said, "Momo!" She's been Momo ever since.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Are there three women in this story?

Edit: not counting the girl baby

Edit Edit: don't do drugs, kids

[-] Wilzax 15 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Let's number the characters and let you decide

"Ha! This happened with my(1) mother-in-law(2)! She(2) wanted to be called grandma, but when my(1) daughter(3) was a baby and first learning to talk, she(3) pointed to my wife(4) and said, "Mama!" and then she(3) pointed to my mother-in-law(2) and said, "Momo!" She's(2) been Momo ever since."

I interpret characters 2 and 4 as women, 1 as a man (assuming this because there is no mention of adoption), and 3 as a female child.

So not counting the baby, 2 women, unless (1) is a woman.

[-] FlyingSquid 9 points 3 weeks ago

There are. My mother-in-law, my wife and my daughter.

[-] The_Picard_Maneuver 4 points 3 weeks ago

Absolutely adorable.

[-] Mog_fanatic 24 points 3 weeks ago

"This is my pee pee and my poo poo! The guy's 95 years old, he fought in WWII, stormed the beach at Normandy, now his name is Peepee?? What are you doing to the man?"

[-] [email protected] 18 points 3 weeks ago

My nan was called "smelly nan" until the day she died. I think it was because she wore a gallon of perfume to cover the smell of fags.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 3 weeks ago

In my part of Appalachia, all grandpas in the family are "pap" which was very funny when my grandma married a man from England. He refused to let us call him that. For reasons.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

Sounds like a mass smear campaign to me.

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[-] ReluctantMuskrat 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Or a son-in-law that teaches your grandkids to call you "Pee-paw".

Paybacks gonna be a bitch Rob!

[-] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago

We rescued a kitten about a month ago, immediately named him Pipo (or Peepo, same thing). I have never seen a cat wear his name so well. I heard Pipo is a famous character in italian children's jokes

[-] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago

Not just in Italy. Pipo the clown is a very old Dutch children's TV character.

I'm a bit too young to have watched it, but I still know the first lines of the theme song by heart. It's that pervasive.

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[-] ParabolicMotion 9 points 3 weeks ago

Can confirm. I have met a proud poo-pa in my past.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago

My paternal grandmother was the opposite of this - apparently she really wanted a grandparent nickname and didn't care what it was. So there's, IDK, 2 year old me running around and I saw she was wearing big old sunglasses, and I said, "Cool Dude!" And it stuck.

Miss you, Dude.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

My grandma didn't want us to call her grandma because it made her feel old, so we call her by a shortening of her name instead.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

I literally had a high school orchestra conductor named "Dr. Pipo" and it was pronounced exactly like that.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

Interesing to see this at the top of my feed after watching Redbad last night. Poppo was his son. Similar enough to make me think of it.

[-] Crostro 2 points 3 weeks ago

My great grandfather was bestowed with this. My father, when asked to say papa (this was when he was months old) responded with "Gug" so he started to be called Gug. This gentleman had a habit of calling everybody 'buster'. He did this with my older sister when she was like 4-5. So she called him "Buster Gug" and from that day on, that became his name to the entire family. I actually don't even know what his real name was. He died when I was young but he had a name given to him from 2 different generations.

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