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Outlook got updated on my iPhone last night and now they want me to agree to having my data shared with 807 partners.

Important note: I don’t use outlook as my primary email provider. I use Proton with a custom domain but I keep outlook for some old emails.

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[–] [email protected] 142 points 8 months ago (4 children)

Ridiculous. How can someone write "we value your privacy" and then share data with 807 partners. If I share anything with 8 people I pretty much consider it public information already, unless I have a very good reason to trust them. Sharing something with 807 companies is probably less private than taking all that data, putting it up on a billboard, and placing that billboard next to the busiest place in town.

[–] CeeBee 47 points 8 months ago (9 children)

And what exactly qualifies as "legitimate interest"?

[–] NocturnalEngineer 50 points 8 months ago

I'm legitimately interested in getting the bank account & sort code details of Elon, Bezos, Arnault, Zuckerberg, Gates, Ballmer, Buffet, Ellison, Page, and Brin.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago

That ist something I ask myself, too. It's so irritating, having to decline all these greasy fingered little fuckers one-by-one. That is just a way for me, nowadays, to delete the app completely.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago

807 is too big for a typical auditorium.

Imagine an auditorium filled to capacity with people standing at the back and crouching in the rows. At the front of the auditorium a Microsoft spokesman is saying "Ok partners, here's the confidential data. Make sure nobody shares it beyond this room. Ok, so David wrote a letter to his mother Nancy on March 2nd, which included the keywords 'prostate', 'cancer' and 'diagnosis'. If you'd like to use those words to show David some ads, go right ahead -- but make sure nobody beyond this room knows this confidential information. Next up is Martha..."

[–] skoadphilmore 11 points 8 months ago

There is a monetary value in what you want to keep private, so of course they value your privacy.

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[–] [email protected] 101 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (5 children)

It's not that they now changed something with data collection and sharing within the update. They always did it, all services free of charge do it and most that cost money likely take the extra money as well.

It's now that they tell you in a short and informative way (1st sentence) and ask for your consent.

What's really infuriating, are websites and services that have an "Accept All" button but no "Reject All". Instead you have to manage individually and sometimes I have to flip 30 separate buttons to disable data sharing, where they even call advertisers a 'necessary 3rd party' requiring interaction on top.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 8 months ago (2 children)

That was a loophole to the original GDPR. That's now against the law in the EU, but bringing cases against all these sites is time consuming.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

Now they need to make asking for ID to access or delete data illegal.

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[–] colorsoloud 31 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I always flip the 30 buttons and then accidentally click Accept All because it’s in the place that I would expect the Confirm My Choices button to be and I am tired of looking at all the buttons and don’t read the most important one. I always tell myself I’ll slow down next time, but I’m just trying to get to the stupid website to read whatever stupid link I clicked on so I’m impatient every time.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 8 months ago (2 children)

This is by design. It’s called dark patterns.

[–] colorsoloud 13 points 8 months ago

Yep and I hate it

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[–] BananaTrifleViolin 9 points 8 months ago

There are extensions for that.

In Firefox Consent-o-matic and Ghostry both do a good job in android and Linux/Windows.

I have no idea if they have that on iOS though given Apple forces browser makers to reskin Webkit.

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[–] owenfromcanada 75 points 8 months ago (1 children)

"We value your privacy" in the same way my dog values a steak dipped in peanut butter.

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[–] TheCheddarCheese 46 points 7 months ago (3 children)

I love how they just say "we value your privacy" and then list out half of their means of data collection. Microsoft ain't even trying anymore.

[–] mods_are_assholes 11 points 7 months ago

This kind of doublespeak has become the standard for corporate bullshittery.

At this point, ANY communication from service providers that starts out like this is just another way for them to screw you for profit.

They learned it from politics. Anything 'for the children'...

That's how they sold us the Patriot Act, 'for OUR safety'...

FUUUUCK it makes me so ANGRY I taste blood...

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago

It's a typo. They meant to say "we put value on your privacy." As in dollars and cents.

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 8 months ago (22 children)

chad europe union, to expose that shit

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[–] [email protected] 42 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

By value they mean how much they salivate about selling it for profit.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 7 months ago (1 children)

807 partners sounds like the answer to what's the point of ad blockers

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[–] answersplease77 34 points 7 months ago

Off course they "value" your privacy. They sell and profit so much value out of your privacy

[–] [email protected] 34 points 8 months ago

They want you to think that "to value it" in this context means "to have it in high steem". When it's more like "to put a price tag on it".

[–] AeonFelis 30 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Wait.. is this real or parody? At this point I can no longer tell...

[–] aphonefriend 21 points 7 months ago

Oh it's very real. Microsoft is one of the absolute worst companies for amount of raw data they hoover up.

Don't believe it? Try logging into the Outlook Web client with uBlock or uMatrix turned on and look at the number of requests it stops.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 8 months ago (2 children)

the reject all button should atleast be normalized

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[–] misterwu 25 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 21 points 8 months ago (2 children)

800ish entities is not "partners".

"Partners" are people you could invite to site around a conference table with you. For it to be a partnership, you need to be able to have a meaningful discussion among all the different partners. 800ish is even too big for an auditorium where you're presenting to all your "partners". 800ish is a small arena.

Those aren't partners.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 8 months ago (4 children)

I wonder how many people haven’t realised that the new Mail/Outlook client, the one they’re pushing everyone towards in Windows, actually syncs all your mail to MS servers.

[–] BananaTrifleViolin 19 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

Yeah, Microsoft is trying to normalise the idea that your own personal email client should be open to them to access and steal your data so they can advertise at you.

Fuck windows and fuck outlook.

Thunderbird is free and entirely private on all platforms (And K9 mail on Android is also maintained by the Thunderbird team)

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I have. Happily using Thunderbird now.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 8 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago (2 children)

At least there is one. Many apps don't offer that at all but make us go through hundreds of options and turn them off manually.

Until an update makes you do it again.

And again.

The worst. Usually an uninstall for me.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

Took a screenshot and rejected straight away.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 7 months ago

If you said to someone "can you keep a secret" and they said "I value your privacy, I'll only share your secret with 807 others", I doubt you'd be telling them many secrets.

Might as well just get your secret printed on a billboard and hang it up in town.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 7 months ago (1 children)

At least there's a "reject all" button.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 7 months ago

That's GDPR coming through.

[–] cosmicrookie 17 points 8 months ago

I think that my record is just over 3000 legitimate partners

[–] SoyTDI 16 points 8 months ago (6 children)

At least it doesn't say "Accept all" or "pay (monthly)".

[–] Zoldyck 9 points 8 months ago
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[–] [email protected] 16 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Lmao you're personal info is getting a train ran on it 🤣 😂

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago

They did that before. They just didn't tell you how many partners!

[–] cley_faye 15 points 7 months ago

It's been normalised for years, maybe decade. The only difference is that now they have to bother with telling you and asking for permission (which some still ignore completely).

Also, since we're talking Outlook, some mail client send your credentials to their servers to improve your user experience by fetching mails on their end, meaning that not only data from your device are sent to whoever paid for them, but your actual mails are free for them to access without you ever knowing. The new outlook on desktop does that, but outlook is not the only one to do this.

We live in the greatest of times.

[–] Fake4000 12 points 8 months ago (1 children)

What happens if you reject?

Does outlook stop working?

[–] herescunty 23 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Your ads aren’t creepily specific to you anymore

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