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[–] [email protected] 81 points 8 months ago (1 children)

"Don't come to work tomorrow."

[–] Yamainwitch 28 points 8 months ago

"thanks for the Snickers."

[–] FlyingSquid 71 points 8 months ago (1 children)

For everyone who doesn't believe this sort of thing ever happens, there's a reason why this former security guard is now sitting offstage to the left of Jimmy Kimmel every night.

Kimmel started talking to him, befriended him, and eventually gave him a job.

Some people are nice. Some successful people are nice and are friends with other people who are not as successful as them. Sometimes they even help them out if they can.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 8 months ago (1 children)

As much as I've drifted away from Kimmel (and most talk show hosts for that matter) he does give the impression that he's a sincerely nice guy when the cameras stop rolling.

[–] FlyingSquid 18 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Everything I have heard about him is good. He's just supposed to be a super nice guy.

Although not the most polite driver according to an unreasonably angry Tom Hanks. https://torontosun.com/2013/12/11/tom-hanks-calls-jimmy-kimmel-a-d---wad

I also don't believe Sarah Silverman would have dated an asshole.

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[–] metostopholes 59 points 8 months ago (4 children)

Traveled down the road and back again...

[–] EdibleFriend 18 points 8 months ago

Getting from there to here.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Your heart is true, you're a pal and a confidant!

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[–] [email protected] 53 points 8 months ago (9 children)

I have no problem believing that someone was kind to a janitor. What's weird is the "look at me!" points they were subconsciously (or consciously?) aiming to receive from posting this. Like, truly kind behavior doesn't look for validation.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 8 months ago

Yes it also creates a baseline that the janitor actually is inferior by showing themselves as a good Samaritan just by having coffee with them.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 8 months ago (5 children)

This is such an uncharitable interpretation of OP's intentions. Perhaps he felt happy that the janitor had such an honest reaction and wanted to share it. Not everyone is an absolute narcissist who only ever looks for internet points.

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[–] Hagdos 6 points 8 months ago

I read it as OP being a high school teacher (because I associate janitors with schools). Signaling this behaviour to the school kids would be a good thing.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 8 months ago (4 children)

The janitor my elementary got in trouble for being observed roller skating on the the roof of our gymnasium. Rumor started that they'll fire him and every student promised violence if they did. Like, sure, maybe he should that but also otherwise he's beloved so feel free to test your assumptions on the student response.

[–] Alpha71 9 points 8 months ago

when I was in grade school who had a very nice Japanese janitor. one day a girl said he touched her and he killed himself. Afterwards the girl later said she lied about it.

[–] dfc09 4 points 8 months ago

Thinking back to my middle school days, it's entirely possible there janitor never rollerskated on the roof, the administration had no plans to fire him, but the students were still prowling around threatening violence over it 🤣

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[–] _number8_ 30 points 8 months ago (3 children)

is this really that unbelievable

people have been known to drink coffee, sometimes in the presence of others, even

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

No, unbelievability isn’t the problem, but I remember reading this long before Twitter was renamed X.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (8 children)

is there a lemmy version of r/thathappened yet?

[–] fishos 104 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (26 children)

As a custodian who is often treated like I might as well be invisible, this can absolutely happen. Those who show even the tiniest bit of respect to us are often the only ones and it is greatly appreciated.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 8 months ago (2 children)

I’m sorry if you’re not appreciated enough where you work and I just want to say a deep thank you for what you do - you keep the wheels turning. I used to be friends and neighbours with our custodian (before they moved to a warmer country and we lost touch) and having seen the state of the office in just one day without my buddy when he was off sick (people are such animals), it’s people like you that make a place nice and uplifting to be in. Thank you, fishos.

[–] KnightontheSun 12 points 8 months ago

Well said, fartsparkles. Well said.

[–] fishos 10 points 8 months ago

Thank you (:

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

Well, on behalf of everyone who should say so but doesn’t, thanks for making our workplaces, schools, etc. less terrible. Y’all are underrated.

[–] FlyingSquid 5 points 8 months ago

You are not invisible. I see you. You are an essential worker. Imagine what malls, offices and especially schools would be like without custodians. So thank you for the hard work you do.

[–] mojofrododojo 5 points 8 months ago

I appreciate the people who keep our society from imploding and tell 'em. Thank you for your labors dude/ladydude!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

Worked part time as custodian after getting out of the military. Definitely felt invisible and unappreciated, but always had someone breathing down my neck if something wasn't cleaned to their standard. But never a thank you or good job.

Now Im a supervisor, (different company) and I always make it a point to talk with cleaning staff when I see them. They work too hard to be taken for granted, and Im always pushing up on my managers that our cleaning staff are underpaid. I've figured out what drinks and snacks they enjoy so made it a point to leave them in my office with a note for them to enjoy, and a couple of times managed to convince their team lead to let me buy them all dinner after they cleaned up some real messes my team left. Do my best to keep my team tidy and not leaving the place a disaster but our custodians are humble people who like to remind me they get paid to show up and clean up what my team can't. If I could get a keg into my office without getting myself or them fired I probably would.

[–] MossBear 4 points 8 months ago

Much respect. What you do should be valued much more highly.

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[–] NightAuthor 18 points 8 months ago

Is there a lemmy version of r/nothingeverhappens

[–] Marleyinoc 4 points 8 months ago

This guy's (image not op) whole thing on Twitter seemed to be post something like that and then 5 donation posts. I couldn't determine if legit but seemed sketchy so I blocked.

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[–] JeeBaiChow 19 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Good man. The cleaners at my dorm in college were the same. Seemed genuinely grateful to pause and chat when I'd ask about their day. After that I'd chat when I met them in the hall.

[–] JustZ 7 points 8 months ago (2 children)

That's what it's all about right there. You could lean into your lizard brain and learn to see every other being as something that will either eat you or not eat you, reacting accordingly with emotion, or you could lean into your rational brain and learn to connect with anyone, to be involved in mankind.

[–] JeeBaiChow 6 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Well said! Now about some forum commenters...

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Honestly I believe this because people are cunts.

He's a video of a janitor getting an assembly for him

https://youtu.be/C_jbFvBCGd4

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

Here is an alternative Piped link(s):

https://piped.video/C_jbFvBCGd4

Piped is a privacy-respecting open-source alternative frontend to YouTube.

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[–] Huschke 6 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

"And then everyone clapped and I got a raise"

[–] yokonzo 6 points 8 months ago

Bit cynical

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