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Cats, dogs, bears, owls, weasels. Most of them could seriously injure/kill an average human with minor difficulty and yet we find them adorable?

Does not compute.

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[–] JubilantJaguar 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Excellent question! I was pondering exactly this conundrum just the other day while watching a snow leopard on BBC Earth. That thing would rip your face off but wow, what a gorgeous beast! I almost ache to pet it.

Actually my pondering went even further. Not only are cats and owls and bears cute, they are much cuter than than our cousins the primates. And it get worse! I for one find that monkeys are cuter than apes, and that our closest cousins the chimpanzees are really pretty fugly indeed. Even the babies. Maybe especially the babies.

What a weird world.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

It’s a bit like how people closely related to you are not attractive.

Except in Alabama

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think it's more like an uncanny valley phenomenon. Or it could be that humans are largely neotenous and other primates haven't developed that trait, so they remind us of old, or diseased members of our own species at a unconscious level.

Or it could be both. Strange hairy men that live in the woods? Avoidance response activated.

[–] JubilantJaguar 5 points 2 days ago

Yep, that's the self-domestication thesis. Humans have selected themselves to look young and inoffensive, a bit like how they transformed wild ox into cows and wolves into, uh, poodles.

It definitely explains the ape paradox.

[–] JubilantJaguar 7 points 2 days ago

Ha. Except, jokes aside, I'm not sure it's true. Obviously this is getting into dangerous territory but, as I understand it, people do tend to go for their own ethnic group disproportionately.

Then again, sexual attraction does seem to be qualitatively different. After all, that snow leopard would go straight to the friend zone if you know what I mean.