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How are people dealing with senior pets when they live alone? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 3 months ago by moistclump to c/asklemmy

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I have a wonderful senior dog and he’s my best friend. And I’m so scared of his aging. As he’s slowing down and I keep an eye out for medical issues I just can’t imagine how and when to make a call about his life.

I work all day away from home and live by myself, which was not the situation when I’d adopted him initially. I don’t have a community or friends or family around to help during the day if and when it comes to that. I can’t afford dog sitters especially not ones with training.

What if he could be fine with more support and money, should I give him back to animal rescue?

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[–] Rhynoplaz 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I have a Shih-tzu/Bichon that's about 17 now. She's missing most of her teeth, and has trouble with stairs, but still curious, excitable and ready to cuddle anyone who's willing. People walk past the house and think she's a puppy because they see her running to meet them.

Don't let a number like age worry you too much. Dogs would always prefer more time with their owners, but I don't think having some peace and quiet to lounge around while you're at work is doing any harm. He'd much rather have you for a few hours at night, than be left with strangers.

Best of luck to both of you!

[–] CheeryLBottom 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I have a 15 year old (will turn 16 in November ) Shih Tzu who naps a lot of the day, but speed walks during walks and zips down the hall and performs a donut at the end.