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While I do appreciate that you are correct, the idea of up and moving to a new country is absolutely petrifying to most people. I have the wherewithal and knowledge to move to pretty much anywhere, but I don't because I would be too far away from my family.
Or a new city, or a new job.
For you specifically, family connections are at the top of your mind, but for OP it sounds like surviving is at the top of their mind right now.
Most people have a comfort zone, but if the alternative to trying something new is throwing everything away, dip a toe outside of your comfort zone.
Enough people have asked for help and taken me up on it that I don't stop trying to help people when they ask for it.
Humans are conservative, but enough of them have the wherewithal or are forced into circumstances where they have to take the first step into the unknown.
Living abroad specifically is so much more comfortable than living(struggling) in the US, and there are so many ways to do it easily.
Fuck that rat race shit.
That's quite valid. I hope that our disparate views gives the OP some thought.
Did you send op a suggestion also?
No. I suspect you represented our differences well enough.
My suggestion of
versus you saying
I'd rather you not equivocate those positions.
OP can benefit from concrete options and support, not detractions.
Sorry. I do not want to fight with you.
I appreciate it.
Please try to focus on relevant suggestions that can help someone in need.
They can determine which suggestions work for them, no need for you to poke holes or stoke fear.