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[–] Dagnet 86 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Man I hate when people are like that, gay flatmate I had would say "You guys are so clean for straight men" and Im just like, wth man, thats prejudice. Imagine if I went around saying "You are so clean for gay men!"

[–] Anticorp 64 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Bigotry swings both ways. Pun intended.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Except only one way it "swings" has any power behind it and actually causes real life oppression, so no, it doesn't swing both ways, and being the butt of a generalisation doesn't make you equal or even comparable to people who are actually marginalised.
So sick of this "reverse bigotry" bullshit, it's nothing but privileged people desperately craving some victimhood. It's gross.

[–] confusedbytheBasics 83 points 10 months ago (2 children)

In the past I agreed with you. Now that I've worked with professional diversity and inclusion experts I can't anymore.

It is true that the larger group has more power so their stereotypes will cause more harm.

At the same time it's true that the act itself is wrong.

We all need to be the change we want to see in the world. Everyone needs to let go of harmful stereotypes for society to move past them.

[–] Retrograde 12 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I don't often call things based, but this comment is truly based

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago
[–] herbertdeborba 2 points 10 months ago

You don't need to read nothing more: just mix up the two comments above and that's it.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 10 months ago

You have just as much right to generalize as anyone else. But that doesnt mean youre not an asshole for doing it. Gay or not.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You just don't know what it's like to be a straight white cis male in this world.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Still a better lovestory than twilight.

[–] NielsBohron 2 points 10 months ago

It's an older meme, sir, but it checks out.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Things that didn't happen rule

[–] [email protected] 24 points 10 months ago

Nothing ever happens rule

[–] gndagreborn 11 points 10 months ago

The hate sex is going to be great. Starts off making out in the janitor closet with the pitter-patter of minimum wage employees in tow.

Imagine how raunchy it will be when the employee says "Wanna try my king-sized whopper? I guarantee it looks just as large as it does in the pictures and IS NOT 35% enlarged~"

To which the customer will say "y-yes daddy"