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I was going through my Wal-Mart+ subscription plan that I got for free and I saw their offers. One of which was EMeals, that was a 60-day trial. I thought that this was like Blue Apron or other meal delivery services so I thought I'd take a crack at it and hope that it would get me on a path to eat better.

Turns out, it's just a meal planner. And it's absurd to me why and how would anyone pay for something when there are countless and countless recipes and meal planners readily available for free. Who'd the fuck would want to pay for a planner? That's like paying for a calendar app.

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[–] [email protected] 103 points 1 month ago (5 children)

My coworkers will walk into work with Dunkin or Starbucks lattes... we have not only free coffee at work, but access to an espresso machine with milk steamer.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 month ago (2 children)

It's not that odd that they have a preference, even if it costs them. My work provides tea bags and milk, but I bring my own because I like them more.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, but Dunkin for coffee??

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[–] [email protected] 89 points 1 month ago (7 children)

I do not get people who still pay for cable tv. My dad pays like 120 dollars a month for it and the programming is horrible, the ads are insane, all the best sports shit is on streaming services now, I do not understand it at all.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Inertia?
Or is there some local channel that they like that doesn't have a youtube presence?

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[–] [email protected] 67 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Bottled water to drink at home.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Not every country has safe tap water

[–] [email protected] 55 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Ok, so: bottled water to drink at home in countries with safe drinking water.

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[–] Suck_on_my_Presence 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This drives me insane. The 5 gal jugs are so cheap to refill and keep using. I used one of those with a hand pump and a thin 1.5 gal jugs for my fridge for constant cold water when I lived where tap water wasn't doable. It was like 10Β’ a gallon to refill the jugs and I always had delicious cold water at the ready. There is absolutely no need to create so much waste

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[–] [email protected] 58 points 1 month ago (8 children)

As an American, Turbo Tax. I've been using FreeTaxUSA for almost 20 years with no problems, without paying for filing software.

But if I weren't American, my answer would probably be: tax software.

[–] skeezix 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

In many other countries (such as mine) you dont use tax software. The government figures out what you owe or overpaid. Because they have all the info they need to know that.

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[–] Zahille7 52 points 1 month ago (8 children)

YouTube premium.

Just get uBlock or revanced.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Okay, to preface I really hate giving Google money, but I hate ads more, and paying for Premium also removes ads on YouTube apps across platforms. It also in some minuscule way rewards the creators I watch, but real support comes from Patreon.

[–] reddig33 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

YouTube charges too much. It costs more than Netflix! They need like a $6/mo plan or something.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Yeah I'm with you. I know there's some way to block ads on any device if you are really dedicated but I don't want to get a PHD in ad blocking just to not have ads on YT on my phone

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (6 children)

I'm at a point in my life where I'll pay for the media I'll watch. If I'm not willing to pay for it, I won't watch it. I also don't want to watch ads.

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[–] brygphilomena 12 points 1 month ago

I have lots of ad blockers. But my father watches YouTube on the LG TV app. I don't live there anymore and hearing the ads from the other room became offensive to the family.

It was easier to just buy a premium family plan and call it a day.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Doesn't work if you're using a smart TV or console to view it.

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[–] [email protected] 51 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Operating systems and porn.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago

Free porn tends to be full of abuse towards its actors. Not that paid porn is automatically ethical but there are definitely indie options where no one is being coerced into performing sexual acts they're not comfortable with. Also if you have a niche fetish sometimes the only options are paywalled.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

How is it surprising people pay for operating systems? The vast majority of computers sold are bundled with an operating system license, and most people just use what came with the computer.

[–] Yawweee877h444 9 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Uhhhh you answered your own question. Why pay for an OS when it should either be included, or free Linux.

Therefore it's surprising when people pay for an OS.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (7 children)

I use windows. I haven't paid for a windows key since windows 7 iirc. Windows has been free for years. (I know you pay with your data etc. Good luck convincing average Joe who uses all social media services that this even matters)

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[–] [email protected] 49 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Microsoft Office and satellite radio.

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 month ago (9 children)
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[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 month ago (3 children)

The meal subscription services strike me as premade salads on steroids. You're paying a premium for all the labor, ingredients, (excessive) packaging, shipping, their profit, etc and you still have to put it together and cook it. It really isn't that hard to look up a couple of recipes, buy the ingredients (you'd probably be going to the store anyway) and prep for 30 or so minutes a night. If you make full recipes you'll probably have leftovers so you won't even have to cook the next day.

[–] hroderic 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I was actually enjoying Blue Apron for a while, mainly because it was stuff that I'd never thought to try making before, but the amount of trash generated from each box delivered was too much for my conscience. I wish they didn't use so many plastic wrappers and had some way of returning the boxes with the insulation.

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[–] Tudsamfa 32 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

Online subscription models, gacha and AAAA price tag games.

Not everyone wants to be a cybercriminal, god knows I'm one of them, but almost every person already has a backlog of games, an old classic that they want to experience again or community favourite that has gotten a lot of mods. Those are all free. And even if you want to spend money on something, why would you spend it on this year's hyped up game when last year's is still just as playable and at a discount?

That being said, I did buy Balatro full price, so I ought to know the answer.

[–] TORFdot0 9 points 1 month ago

My problem is that I wait 20 years to late to play games and they cost more second hand than they originally did. GameCube fan problem

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[–] renzev 32 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Gray market license keys for software. The money you're paying for these will never make it to the developer, so you might as well pirate.

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 month ago (14 children)
[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Small bits of code can be made and maintained as a hobby or a passion project, but larger things begin to require money. Although a lot of FOSS is maintained by volunteers, money still has its role in the equation.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago

Most big FOSS projects are done by developers who get paid for that.
They work at Red Hat, Canonical, SUSE, Google or Microsoft and write FOSS while on the clock.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 month ago (19 children)

Books.

Most librarians are knowledgeable and love helping you find something, or getting it in from another library.

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[–] Anonymouse 25 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I was surprised to hear that a coworker suscribes to one of the streaming services to stream shows from PBS. First of all, it's free OTA. Second, I think they have an app.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Streaming services. I've been balls deep into piracy since I was a kid but I remember once I was house sitting and my friend had netflix and I Was drunk and wanted to watch He-man. I turned on their netflix and it didn't have it. I was like, why even pay for this shit whats it good for? I have been morally opposed to paying for streaming ever since. Ive been taking some classes recently and some of the Gen Z kids are like, baffled I don't have spotify. I am baffled they can't pirate songs. My friends, you dont have to pay for that single. I can download it during the span of this conversation with my phone.

Also on that note, any of WotC's D&D tools. I remember the D&Dinsider debacle. 4e was a cool game but basically unplayable without some automation. They tried downloadable software but found people had way too easy a time hacking it. So they launched a constantly crashing version behind a paywall that ran on silverlight (so it couldn't run on Mac. As a webapp.) And hackers still kept up the downloadable character builder with updates. It was more consistent, didn't crash, and is still functional to this day. I ban D&Dbeyond from my games. I encourage everyone to use 5e.tools (if they must play 5e).

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I default to piracy too, but I'm guessing you don't listen to a lot of new music. The thing a music service offers isn't just access, it's discoverability. It didn't replace my FLAC collection, it expanded it. What it replaced was listening to the radio to find new stuff.

For video I'm more with you. I'm happy to rely on word of mouth. Especially since the streaming services drop movies all the time and discriminate against watching in a browser. Getting a good rip means you can watch it anywhere, anytime, and not have to worry about it disappearing.

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[–] son_named_bort 21 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

WinRAR is legitimately a great program and whomever made it deserves some compensation

[–] patatahooligan 32 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Maybe it was good 10-20 years ago. What's it got to offer today? Why should we use a proprietary format when there are faster and more space-efficient open formats widely available today?

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 month ago (4 children)

7-Zip has long replaced WinRAR, for me.

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[–] andrewta 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

People pay for streaming and then complaining that their shows keep disappearing. Knowing full well that they are only allowed to watch the shows as long as the streaming service allows them to watch.

I truly don’t understand it. If they wanna do it go for it I’m not going to sit here and rip on them. I just don’t understand why. I say go by the disc so that way you own it. Then rip it to make your own digital file. Now with that digital file, you can do anything you want with it.

[–] flubba86 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I get your point of view, and I personally use Jellyfin with my own library. But I have a different perspective about people complaining about shows disappearing from services.

People like complaining about things, it's cathartic, and it doesn't necessarily mean they have to do anything about it.

Imagine you have a favourite restaurant. One day you go in and that thing you really love isn't in the menu anymore. You can grumble about it to the staff, complain to your friends, but you'll just order a different item.

If next week your next favourite thing disappears from the menu, you'll complain some more, or maybe just start going to a different restaurant. Yes, there is always the option to get the ingredients and make it yourself at home, but that's a whole extra level of effort. For most people, the effort to complain a bit and choose a different thing from the menu is far less effort than making it yourself at home.

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[–] Aeao 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Tax return filings in the US. There are free options provided by the paid companies... So that they can prevent real changes.

Kinda like pharmaceutical companies when the public demands cheaper prices. The pharmaceutical companies fight back with "what if instead of that we set up some programs that people can use for cheaper medicine! Win win! Then you don't have to make any real changes that might hurt us?"

Same with taxes. The accounting software companies and advisors companies said "wait hold on, you don't need to make taxes simpler and tank our business. Keep them complicated and well offer free alternatives that are just as easy as our paid services that people can pick if they don't want to pay! Win win!"

Which obviously I think is a crap solution. However if you are paying for someone to do your taxes you should stop. There are a lot of easy free services out there that make it pretty much effortless. They are just as good as the paid services now.

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[–] damnthefilibuster 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Adobe. Someone said they pay $60 a month for it, and are locked in for the year, which they didn’t even know about! All for editing photos. Just editing photos.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Streaming. OS's, disposable shavers/ head, prime. Very few subscriptions are a good deal and if they are a good deal thats just them cornering the market to eventually close in.

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