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My life honestly has no meaning

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I would love for a quiet foggy Saturday night all by myself! I suppose the grass is always greener.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You eventually get sick of it, plus it's cold and when you MUST to go outside to do stuff is a pain in the ass

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Have you considered wearing pants?

[–] NoSpotOfGround 4 points 1 month ago

Same! My first emotion upon seeing this was "oh god, I would love that kind of solitude"...

[–] cheese_greater 13 points 1 month ago

Why cant it be just living?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

No one's life has inherent meaning friend. You have to give it meaning, even if it is only meaningful to you.

[–] Jackthelad 10 points 1 month ago

This looks cozy to me.

[–] PineRune 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Are your shoes outside on a balcony? Don't they get wet? If it fogs where you are, I assume condensation would form on the ground outside most nights.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Its what i can't understand about this photo. Surely those shoes would be getting damp.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

mahn fog is the best weather that existsssss. its like a cloud has come down and decided to visit!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

That is a nice photo, without you I would not have seen it, it has meaning.

Keep taking photos, it is nice to have and look back and see either your good memories, or sometimes you need bad memories to see how far you have come.

[–] chonglibloodsport 6 points 1 month ago

I love your photo. You should take more photos, even if you don’t share them with anyone! I hope the comments here help you feel a tiny bit of meaning.

Honestly, we’re surrounded by all this messaging that life should be grand and rich and full of all this important stuff and relationships in order to have meaning. I prefer the approach to life suggested by Kurt Vonnegut:

I tell you, we are here on Earth to fart around, and don't let anybody tell you different.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

There's a whole world out there!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Why isn't it for you?

[–] steel_nomad 5 points 1 month ago

I wish I could see fog almost every day and night. It is just so....can I say it? Cozy!

[–] jaxxed 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

But it has beauty, which might be better.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I've the same philosophy.

What I found helpful is, I can get into a flow of busy work that can last weeks. Schedule stuff, deadlines, etc.

That's a few weeks without disgust.

[–] berryjam 3 points 1 month ago

You should read some Sartre

[–] BilboBargains 3 points 1 month ago

Those lights could be UFO

[–] I_Miss_Daniel 2 points 1 month ago

I don't have much to offer. If it were me I'd find a broken gadget and try to fix it.

That said, looking at your username you might enjoy parsing this video to see if you can find it :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=StcXGhuliRk

[–] Ataraxia 2 points 1 month ago

Oh, that sounds amazing.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Nihilism is a common and valid solution to the four big life crisis points. Enjoy. :)

[–] Potatisen 1 points 1 month ago

Is that a lil' cold plunge I see?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

What do you want of your life?

[–] DrSleepless 1 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] -2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh, you again! Still complaining about your life but not prepared to do anything to make it better?

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I've done enough. Not my fault if the world rejected me.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

So, still not prepared to do anything to make your life better, then. Gotcha.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Someone doesn't understand depression

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Check out Platypus's post history. He/she is just looking to wallow in self-pity.