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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago

I like this, but I don't like calling them affairs when everyone involved knows about it.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (18 children)

I'm totally cool with polyamory and its variants, but this infographic definitely paints monoamory as a lesser choice which is cringe (it also says "idealized monoamory" instead of just monoamory which I don't get).

Don't judge other's choices, doesn't matter if their choice is polyamory or monoamory.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I agree with not judging. I think monoamory is just labeled as "idealized" because it's the current societal standard. Some people who don't mesh with monogamy may not know there's another option, and so it can be helpful to say that monogamy is only just that, idealized, and not actually necessarily better.

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[–] Kushan 18 points 1 year ago

Egalitarian Polyamory working pretty well for me 😊

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago