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It's depression, and other stuff.
Personally, I find that when I feel that way, it's because I'm actually just kinda tired of games in general. The huge variety available will often trick me into a headspace of "I'm not bored of games just certain games, I need to find the ones I'm in the mood for" but really what I need is a break. Do some crafts/art, get extra exercise, socialize with people that don't normally game, read a book, visit family. Just shake up the shedule for a bit and do other stuff with your free time, and in my experience, you'll want to play something, instead of just looking for something good enough to fill boredom.
People are always so quick to jump on the "it's depression" train, but it can also be totally normal for one's tastes and interests to change over time.
I used to absolutely love games as a kid and teen. But as an adult, I just have a hard time getting into them anymore. I often seem to have fun watching people play games instead of experiencing them myself, and that's ok too.
It's like...after a day at work, I just want to unwind. Gaming requires a degree of effort and can even be stress inducing. So I'm just not super into it anymore. I try to get into games now and then but usually I can't be bothered.
I mean, you're right that for some people, it can signal depression. For others, it just signals growing older. Such is life.