this post was submitted on 06 Feb 2025
826 points (96.8% liked)

Reddit

18201 readers
72 users here now

News and Discussions about Reddit

Welcome to !reddit. This is a community for all news and discussions about Reddit.

The rules for posting and commenting, besides the rules defined here for lemmy.world, are as follows:

Rules


Rule 1- No brigading.

**You may not encourage brigading any communities or subreddits in any way. **

YSKs are about self-improvement on how to do things.



Rule 2- No illegal or NSFW or gore content.

**No illegal or NSFW or gore content. **



Rule 3- Do not seek mental, medical and professional help here.

Do not seek mental, medical and professional help here. Breaking this rule will not get you or your post removed, but it will put you at risk, and possibly in danger.



Rule 4- No self promotion or upvote-farming of any kind.

That's it.



Rule 5- No baiting or sealioning or promoting an agenda.

Posts and comments which, instead of being of an innocuous nature, are specifically intended (based on reports and in the opinion of our crack moderation team) to bait users into ideological wars on charged political topics will be removed and the authors warned - or banned - depending on severity.



Rule 6- Regarding META posts.

Provided it is about the community itself, you may post non-Reddit posts using the [META] tag on your post title.



Rule 7- You can't harass or disturb other members.

If you vocally harass or discriminate against any individual member, you will be removed.

Likewise, if you are a member, sympathiser or a resemblant of a movement that is known to largely hate, mock, discriminate against, and/or want to take lives of a group of people, and you were provably vocal about your hate, then you will be banned on sight.



Rule 8- All comments should try to stay relevant to their parent content.



Rule 9- Reposts from other platforms are not allowed.

Let everyone have their own content.



:::spoiler Rule 10- Majority of bots aren't allowed to participate here.

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
826
submitted 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) by [email protected] to c/reddit
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] [email protected] 209 points 5 days ago (11 children)

Having them pointed towards lemmy.ml is a little concerning.

[–] [email protected] 84 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I made an alternative linking to lemm.ee

because in general this is a good flyer

[–] cm0002 51 points 5 days ago (1 children)

We should do a bunch of them with varying non-Tankie instances

Like programming.dev or lemmy.blahaj.zone

Or maybe even better, have a small table at the bottom with their focuses

[–] [email protected] 41 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (5 children)

Yeah. join-lemmy.org unfortunately isn’t great because it often points to random semi dead instances.

Something like,

The instance you join doesn’t matter much — because you can access all content no matter what instance you are on — but it can be nice to be on an instance that shares you interests and values, because you will have to conform to the rules of that instance. Think of it like your clan — it’s like your email being yourname@yourworkplace — you can still email everyone else and see their emails, but it signals something about you, and it has different rules.

Here are a couple options:

General Purpose:

  • discuss.online (hosted US)
  • lemm.ee
  • lemmy.cafe
  • sh.itjust.works (hosted Canada)

Interests:

  • mander.xyz (Science)
  • programming.dev (Programming)
  • infosec.pub (Cybersecurity)
  • lemmynsfw.com (Porn)

Diversity:

  • lemmy.blahaj.zone (LGBTQ+)

Regions/Langauges:

  • jlai.lu (French)
  • feddit.org (German)
  • lemmy.ca (Canada)
  • aussie.zone (Australia)

Ideology:

  • lemmy.dbzer0.com (Anarchism and Piracy)
  • slrpnk.net (Environmentalist Leftists)
  • lemmy.ml (Authoritarian Leftists)

Please copypaste my comment and add instances / improve it

[–] [email protected] 29 points 5 days ago (3 children)

I like the idea, but people have said several times that choosing an instance is a barrier for them.

I usually go with

"Lemmy has 42k monthly active users

Feel free if you have any questions"

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Yeah I think I elaborated too much. Let’s just keep recommending small instances — because the current centralisation on world sucks.

[–] jaybone 8 points 5 days ago (6 children)

I’ve been thinking of switching instances.

But I think part of the problem is the domain names on so many instances are so odd. Lemmy.world is very clean and easy to tell someone verbally, as opposed to say sopudi.xvz or dbzer0 or blahaj.zone.

I suppose “discuss.online” isn’t such a bad name. And “midwest.social” but people who are not in the Midwest might not feel like they identify with that geographically.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago
[–] Serinus 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Lemmy.world is also the most reliable and the smoothest experience.

I strongly have the opposite opinion. Let people start on Lemmy.World and once they have experience (like you), they can move to where they want.

They're an actual non-profit org out of the Netherlands with professional hosting.

Federation is a feature like divorce is a feature. It's extremely important that it exists and is accessible. Not everybody needs to do it. Other servers are a fine option if you know what you're doing and are willing to deal with more issues OR if there's a compelling reason (such as the various regional servers).

When federation between lemm.ee and lemmy.world is behind by an hour or two, where do you think users will have a better experience? When 90% of their content is now a couple hours older, that's a worse experience.

And spreading people out doesn't really fix anything. It just puts more stress on federation technology. If you spread out all the users, Federation becomes a much harder to manage many to many relationship between all the servers, instead of primarily being a one to many relationship.

In short, if you spread out the users equally, suddenly every instance begins to have federation issues with each other, and everyone has a worse experience. With a bigger "main" instance, the majority of users are less affected by federation issues, and the issues are less common.

The regional servers have more of a balance here. 90% of their content may be old, but the 10% they are up to date with are the things closest to them, most important to them, and maybe in their language.

I do appreciate having several general use instances. I just don't want to send newbies there who will generalize their experience to all of Lemmy and the Fediverse.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

Lemmy.world is also the most reliable and the smoothest experience.

Using a Lemmy version so dated they can't remove their uploaded media

And spreading people out doesn’t really fix anything.

Lemm.ee has 3600 monthly active users. SJW 2500. The 17000 users of LW could be spread across other instances without issues.

With a bigger “main” instance, the majority of users are less affected by federation issues, and the issues are less common.

With a bigger main instance, the mods of that instance have a tendency to power trip:

If you want the rest of the platform to trust you, be responsible. This is not Reddit, power trips will be called out.

Edit: LW can be slow for some users: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/36299751

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

lemmy.cafe, lemmy.zip, lemmy.one

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago

Didn't even mention mine. For a brand new user, they don't know what the fuck is going on there.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I mean, why not go totally targeted? If there are people here who still have reddit accounts then tailor the graphic for the sub you post in. If its an lgbtqia+ sub, suggest Blahaj, if its a tech sub suggest programming.dev, if its a piracy or data hoarder sub db0 etc etc.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

Oh indeed, but usually it's on /r/RedditAlternatives so I have no idea what the person I'm talking to is like

Also that way my message can work for lurkers too

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I think I have seen your posts on reddit before haha

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (4 children)
load more comments (4 replies)
load more comments (4 replies)
[–] ChadMcTruth 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

Seriously. People need to understand they can shop around for an instance that fits them better.

[–] grue 44 points 5 days ago (1 children)

To be fair, it was apparently posted in r/anarchocommunism, so I'd just chalk it up to knowing your audience. At least it was just .ml, and not grad or hexbear!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I'd say that's even more tone-deaf then. Anarchists hate tankies.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] cm0002 26 points 5 days ago

More than a little concerning, it's happened plenty of times before. People see that BS on the Tankie Triad and then leave thinking Lemmy is just a bunch of tankies

Sometimes they try another non-Tankie instance and realize that we're not all like that, but I'm sure a majority never return always thinking that all of Lemmy is "that Tankie hangout" or worse, a Voat 2.0

[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago (8 children)

I'm not very into Lemmy, what's so bad about lemmy.ml?

[–] cm0002 58 points 5 days ago

They're part of the Tankie Triad who deny the human rights violations of the CCP and hold them up as the gold standard.

Basically Authoritarian bootlickers pretending to not be authoritarians

[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It's controversial. It was created by the creators of Lemmy and has some techbro feelings about a lot of stuff. I'm not trying to start an .ml fight, I'm against pushing for any particular instance.

I would recommend new users to stay away from the biggest ones and steer towards one level down. You want enough communities and instances to line your front page, but the big ones are big enough. Let's spread the load.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (10 children)

I don't think you need any communities to line your front page until you get subscriptions going. I think going a level down from the biggest ones is still too big and will still lead to giant instances as they inevitably grow over time. Same with putting practically all the communities on lemmy.world or lemmy.ml.

That's concentrating a lot of people and content in a handful of places, and slightly-less-centralized is still effectively centralized. No instance admins should have that much power.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I was referencing to when I signed up for Lemmy. I really missed the front page of r/ and was looking for that. I didn't realize that the default would be so dead and also, I was on a really small instance, so the page was suuuuper dead since nothing was referenced yet. People can switch to smaller, but we don't want to overwhelm them or make it look way worse populated than it is. I get your concern, but that's why I recommend it to be mid level. You may not care if your front page is dead, but the newbies do.

load more comments (2 replies)
load more comments (9 replies)
[–] A_Union_of_Kobolds 17 points 5 days ago (2 children)

It's a tankie instance. "ML" as in Marxism-Leninism.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago (1 children)

and in practice they are more MLM (maoism) or MLS (stalinism).

[–] A_Union_of_Kobolds 4 points 5 days ago

Yeah if they were run of the mill Marxists it'd be one thing, but it's an authoritarian mess

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago (3 children)

And here I was thinking it was just a cheap ccTLD to use.

load more comments (3 replies)
load more comments (4 replies)
[–] Allonzee 16 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

Capitalism destroyed our government, captured our constitution, and is literally ending the world (for humans, don't worry it'll be fine in a few million years and it'll be like we never existed, thank goodness for that).

I find comedy in people likely here due to the greed rot of Spez wanting to go public and now fondling billionaire balls still, here on Lemmy like digital refugees in the wake of capitalism breaking promises to and destroying a community to increase private profit, going "ewww commies and socialists."

Credit where it's due, the capitalist's Orwell game is God tier.

[–] Serinus 15 points 5 days ago

.ml would be worse than Reddit if they had the same number of users.

[–] Sakychu 14 points 5 days ago (1 children)

No, we are going "ewww tankies"

[–] Crankenstein 1 points 3 days ago

Just FYI, you can be anti-capitalist without being a tankie.

Communism doesn't have to be authoritarian.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago

Whatever, infighting gets us nowhere , down with the big bad

load more comments (5 replies)