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Last job killed my love of IT, management beat it out of me. Wonderful company, demotivated by my manager from the first week. Couldn't be a nicer guy, smartest tech I've ever met, Peter Principled his was into management.

Never been paid that much, took about every Friday off on PTO, total WFH, can't say what my benefits cost but it wasn't $100/mo. in total. My last job was half the pay and benefits, was so much happier. I think of that every time I read a comment about why companies need to pay more to satisfy us. Everyone should have a look at this. Had ALL that at my penultimate job, NONE at the most recent.

I feel so weird, especially at this time of life with a solid resume, interviewing for PT work at Lowe's. Thinking I'll be happier than a pig in shit spending 4 hours a day, just walking around helping people, doing what ever bullshit I'm asked to do. Looking to see how it goes, see if there are ways to work myself up to FT, better schedule, supervisor, whatever.

Thought about "retiring" to work in a hardware store to keep busy and fit, but not for a decade+. Excepting my credit card bills, and what my wife sends home to the Philippines, she makes enough to cover everything. Won't take much to take the edge off.

I love hardware and tools and plants, about everything they sell. Hoping to learn a lot as well. Helping people is really satisfying to me, and I'm excellent at handling customers. LOL, I'm best with the angry ones, sometimes get them apologizing. :)

Need a sanity check, am I losing it!? Been through the worst depression of my life the past few years, hoping this will break me back into a normal state of mind.

EDIT: Got the job! Holy shit, the assistant manager is just like me! Dropped out of tech to take a minimum wage job at Lowe's 8 years ago, now he's at $90K. We've even done much of the same work in the IT space. "I did DSL for Bellsouth when it was new!" "Yep, did my time as a cable internet guy."

Seems to be a lot of space and opportunity to move up. I'm going to knock this out the fucking park!

BONUS: Clerk at the shady gas station overhead me telling my neighbor about quitting IT and getting hired today. Guy ask me what I did in IT, gave him a run down. "Yeah. I was a web dev for 20-years, couldn't take staring at a screen any more."

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[–] [email protected] 68 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Word of caution.

I've gone down this route and discovered the phrase "you're overqualified", which is bandied around when you describe your previous experience.

Don't let this dissuade you, just keep it in mind.

Good luck with the job interview!

[–] shalafi 16 points 2 days ago (4 children)

That's my only worry. Not sure how to downplay that or express that this really sounds like what I want (I think), even at the massive pay cut.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"Overqualified" just means they're afraid you know your rights and can't be exploited like someone fresh out of school.

But if they're already entertaining the idea of hiring someone in their 50's I doubt you'll hear it very often if at all.

[–] shalafi 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

No, it means you might run off at any moment when a higher paying job presents itself.

I got the job! Going to hang in there, see where it leads. I was astounded at the mobility, up and lateral, that I can probably score.

[–] IMALlama 3 points 23 hours ago

I did retail a while ago. It wasn't hard to climb if you're moderately competent and not a d-bag. There is a somewhat low ceiling from what I recall. At my store at least, most of the people that reached upper level store managerial roles tended to do so by opening a new location.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

gratz.

god damn I keep typing out advice ... Enjoy yourself. \o/

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

as an ex-IT currently working at Lowes, they don't really give a shit about your qualifications, and probably won't even ask. passing the drug test and background check is about the only qualifications that matter to them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

But Dunkin, man. Dunkin always finds out.

[–] jpreston2005 1 points 1 day ago

just lie to them?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Quality of Life, Life Balance, something like that?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Quality of Life working from retail?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Some people actually enjoy that kind of work. I did it for a few years and I loved every minute of it. I enjoyed helping people and talking and organizing shelves/racks whatnot. If it paid better I'd probably still be doing it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Where'd you work though? This guy is going to work for Walmart equivalent of home improvement stores. After working at Walmart myself as a first job, I quickly grew to detest the place and quit twice before actually leaving (they talked me into staying the first time with a transfer and raise). It's a soul sucking environment without the high pay and benefits that OP is walking away from. I hope it works out but the phrase "the grass is greener on the other side" exists for a reason.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

A place called Tuesday Morning. Kind of a old lady type place. They sold a bit of everything from clothes to knick knacks and home deco, but for like old people lol. Def no Lowe's but I enjoyed it. Maybe OP should look for somewhere like Ace hardware instead?

[–] CMLVI 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ace would be recommended. They hire people who want to help, Lowes hires people who have to pretend to want to help.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Kind of what I thought. I only go to ace when I need shit unless I can't avoid it. They're always so helpful and nice.