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[–] [email protected] 68 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I'd like to just get to the threesome part first

[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 week ago

I would be happy just for being involved

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

i'm generally happy when i have time to arrange a onesome

[–] eronth 8 points 1 week ago

Settle for a hand and you can be handsome.

[–] Thteven 42 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've had one. It was a lesson in how to disappoint two women at once.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Two women? That was the mistake

[–] Thteven 31 points 1 week ago

Mistake? I was just happy to be there.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Same advice applies for that as for all other things related to relationships and/or sex:

  1. Put yourself into situations where things can happen. (Can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket.)

  2. Don't expect anything to actually happen at any given moment. (If you are only there for one thing other people will notice it and that is not attractive at all.)

  3. Be patient and enjoy whatever else is going on meanwhile.

[–] Shameless 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

So you can disappoint two people at once?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Only one way to find out

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

Bold of you to assume I'll only disappoint two people.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago

I think it's overrated tbh. A good session with one person you really click with is a lot better, imo