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As a European city dweller the concept of leaving 1h outside town is impossible to wrap my head around ๐
But okay fair enough in the absence of a routine no much of a choice:).
We're city transplants and honestly, I can't see us ever moving back to the city unless we are forced to. I'm so glad to be away from the noise, the traffic, the crime, and the filth. I wake up in the morning, open my bedroom window, and look out at a beautiful forest. I walk outside to have my morning coffee and listen to the birds chirping, watch the rabbits and the deer, and completely love every minute of it.
We're also very glad to have some space to spread out on, an abundance of gardening options, and we like being mostly off the grid. Our only external connections are electricity and Internet, and we're talking about getting solar, or a residential wind turbine. We have a backup generator for when power goes down, but that definitely can't meet our needs long-term.
We thought the long drive to the city and reduced access to easy amenities might be a major concern, but it ended up being totally okay for us. The drive is pretty, and relaxing, unlike my commute in the city was, so I don't even really mind it. There is a small 20,000 person city about 25 minutes away, and that has most of the stuff we need. We do still have to go to the big city if we want high culture experiences, or want to shop at fancy places, or even just Costco, but it has just become part of our lifestyle and we don't mind at all. This would have never worked for me as a young man, but as a middle aged couple it's just our speed.