IonAddis

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[–] IonAddis 5 points 4 hours ago

Everyone else thinks I was cute. Which I take to mean everyone is being polite

I don't know if this helps, but someone who loves the adult-you will absolutely look at your baby photos through the same filter as they look at you now. They'll see those photos as a little peek into the past of someone they already like. So you could genuinely be ugly as hell as a kid--but if they like you now, that's not gonna matter to them, you'll be cute.

This doesn't have such a large age-gap, but someone I knew had a crush on me looked at my employee photo (that I fucking HATED) and decided they liked my "little smirk". Why did they love the photo I hated? Because they had an emotional connection to me (on their side at least) anyhow.

[–] IonAddis 7 points 2 days ago

About three days. I get headaches, and shakey, and at some point in the first twenty four hours the hunger pangs vanish. So if I focused through something without eatung I might only realize due to headache and the empty vibrating feel.

It happens less as I get older as I understand body signals better and eat before the point when the hunger pangs fade.

[–] IonAddis 31 points 2 days ago

I'm having a bad day, but kitty cats make me smile, so give him a pat for me. And a hug.

[–] IonAddis 30 points 3 days ago (3 children)

As a writer, this is why I'll never condemn cozy books with happy endings. This type of media, whether it's games or books or music, helps real people get through crappy times intact, even if elitists sneer that overly happy stuff isn't this or that. Usually people who are going through the worst times irl are the ones who need avenues of escape most. If you're already living through crap, you don't need media to remind you of the crap, you already know good and well that crappy things exist.

[–] IonAddis 4 points 5 days ago

Learn why the Japanese like squid.

Even if you didn't mean to coin an euphemism, I love this new euphemism.

[–] IonAddis 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

If you have your back to them, they don't emit light either!

Edit: Well, reflections, for you with the FANCY GPUs...

[–] IonAddis 3 points 2 weeks ago

Yep. I eventually realized the car headlights don't actually have a blue LED dot included in them...my glasses and/or crappy eyes are doing something funny that splits out a blue dot.

[–] IonAddis 10 points 2 weeks ago

I grew up reading paper books and I don't like how narrow my phone is, or how reading for 8+ hours at a time drains the battery so much so quickly unless I attach a tether to it to charge while I read (I don't like the sensory feeling of that phone charger dragging over my body as I shift in bed). Phones also provide too many "quick gratification" distractions like apps and social media. Also, as I get older, I have to increase text size because my eyes already sucked before aging got to them, then they got worse, and large text on a tiny phone screen is ridiculous.

eReaders have better battery life and a bigger screen and are easier to read in full sun without glare washing it out.

[–] IonAddis 6 points 2 weeks ago

This is when you use the kiteh as your pillow. (It's a massage pillow; it vibrates and kneads.)

[–] IonAddis 2 points 3 weeks ago

Someone said the turtle was alive, and for some reason I immediately thought of Discworld. I think it's totally plausible Discworld could exist in this universe. Probably in some place that was never conquered, like Allison's Earth. I could totally see characters like Granny Weatherwax and Captain Carrot as effortlessly being Royalty. (And double the pun with Carrot, there...)

Anyway--I did a second-take at the liberators after I read somewhere that the turtle is not a dead god but is alive, and I realized the turtle might actually be alive because Jadis is actually in there, in the glass pyramid atop the turtle.

[–] IonAddis 13 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

or nail Polish

I didn't read that as you intended initially.

[–] IonAddis 17 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

So, caveat: I think the guys in thi sthread trying to put ideals of a no-car society over the reality of what it's like to be poor and commuting every day on bike are full of shit. That said, I have spent most of 20 years biking to work in the vicinity of a big city.

In winter, you have to dress like you're prepared to be lost outside overnight with no shelter. Like, you have to learn to ACTUALLY dress for the cold, for extended periods of time. (And you have to pay attention to the weather report--if it's going to be wet, you need something that can handle being wet.) Most kids who try to bike to school try to do it in the clothing that they'd wear to drive to school. They either do not physically own the winter layers they need to stay warm, or they were never taught to properly layer.

But basically, you need probably 3 layers minimum in Chicago-type weather. Probably more if you're further north. I would regularly wear jeans with two layers of some type of pants underneath, like fleece and some other base layer, and on top I'd have long-sleeve shirt, t-shirt, another long-sleeve shirt or sweatshirt or sweater, and over all of that a heavy duty winter jacket. For my head I'd have a full-face mask with a thick warm hat on top. Sometimes a scarf too. For my hands, I'd have multiple layers, and I'd usually wear mittens rather than gloves because mittens are warmer, and I'd have more than one pair of mittens. When biking, at least one layer of mittens needs to be wind-breakery because that wind is COLD. For shoes, I'd have wool socks, sometimes two pairs, and real heavy-duty winter boots on (not sneakers or whatever).

The thing is, a lot of people who never have had to actually spend significant time out doors won't even OWN sufficient layers to stay truly warm in the cold. Either due to poverty (it costs money to buy really, truly warm clothes of the right material), or lack of knowledge of how to dress for the cold. (I lacked both when I was young!) Or they'll have thin cotton fast fashion when they actually need wool or synthetic warm-weather gear. Or they'll be concerned about looking stupid (because if you dress properly, you look dumpy and not cool.)

 

I realized today that Allison has seven friends. Also, there are seven demiurges.

I think, given White Chain got Solomon David's key, it's entirely possible that the seven demiurges are replaced by Allison's allies.

I've been wondering why Nukoku is Incubus-colored of late. Usually, given that Nukoku once had Mammon's key in a previous "life", and Maya had Incubus', you'd think that Nukoku would get Mammon's key again, and then Maya Incubus', if the series was trying to traditionally tie up loose ends.

But...something's caught my attention with White Chain's colors.

With Solomon David's key, her purple flame has hints of blue. But blue is Jadis' color, and Jadis represented sloth.

White Chain's arc was waking up and opening her eyes. Her angelic brothers slumber in the void after being slain, but her strength is that she keeps reincarnating, she keeps waking up, she opens her eyes. Still, it did take her a while to do it--her angelic nature makes her prone to sloth, which is thus her vice. So if she had Jadis' key, she would be a demiurge. But she got a different key, and Solomon David's key is aligned with her virtues.

(But, for HIM, it was aligned with his vices...maybe each person has two ways they can go, towards virtue or vice, and something that is a virtue in one person is not in another?)

What if you become a demiurge when the aspect of YISUN you embrace is the one that represents your flaws--rather than your virtues?

So, that would also suggest that Yabalchoath had the "wrong" key. Mammon's key represented her worst vice.

But what if Incubus' key turns into love and blossoming growth instead if she has it? What if that's the key aligned with her virtue?

Ok, I think I have a decent theory here.

So what of the others? What keys would they have if aligned with their virtues rather than vices?

Maya seems at her best when she's nurturing and motherly. She had a scene where children called her auntie, she likes to cook, young people gravitate to her (like the student following her in some of her earlier scenes.)

What if she gets Jagganoth's key? Not to destroy the world, but to protect her "rats"? Although that key might also be too close to her flaw of following the sword. Maybe there's a better key for her...but for now, let's say she uses the sword for protection rather than war.

Allison's other allies are Nyave, Princess, Vigilant Gaze, and Zaid.

Nyave might get Mottom's key, and become a world-builder rather than a world-devourer. It would fit, too, with her originally being a tribute to Mottom, if she has the same key as Mottom, but it's aligned with her virtues rather than her flaws.

The others are murkier...we have Jadis' key, Mammon's key, and Gog-Agog to distribute among them.

Vigilant Gaze might align his virtues with Jadis' key. He's slow, he's a thinker--BUT he gets to the right place, a place of wisdom, instead of freezing.

So we'd have Mammon's key and Gog-Agog's for Princess and Zaid.

OH. Zaid Nazari. Nazari. Jesus of Nazareth. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nazari

Yeah, he totally gets Mammon's key, and spawns the myths of Jesus (lol). Maybe 001 adopts him or something...she's clearly a mix of Sophia (mother of the demiurge in gnostic lore) and Mary, mother of Jesus. Maybe she's already mentoring him, and we don't know it yet.

So that means Princess would get Gog-Agog's key. Ok, yeah, that would fit with her chaotic, demonic nature...but where Gog-Agog uses the multitude inside of her one way, Princess uses it in another, I think.

...of course, I could be totally wrong here.

Any thoughts on what key fits which of Allison's allies?

 

I got a little single-serving crock pot on Black Friday, so I'm curious what your favorite things to make in one are.

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So, I ABSOLUTELY know there's massive variation in this. Just want to get ahead of that.

What I'm looking for is...what do finances look like, casually, when you have a 100% paid off small (SMALL!) home. When a mortgage is out of the way, what's left to eat up your paycheck?

I suppose I'm looking for the sort of casual knowledge of expenses for this sort of life that your kids might pick up if they lived in your area with you in your home. En mass, pulled from multiple lemmy folks, so I can get an idea of general trends. I'm partial for info from the USA, but others reading this might appreciate statistics from other areas. :)

(People mistake how valuable this sort of "general idea" info is, I always see people going into the weeds on how every situation is different without bothering even giving a crappy signpost so I can see if I'm looking at a $5 expense or $500 or $5000. Knowing if something is going to be $5 or $5000 is very valuable, even if it's not some exact precise number. But I don't need to know if it's going to be exactly $392.29 if I wiggle my ears and tug my nose to get the right loophole, I just need to know that closer to $500 is correct, or whatever.)

I don't have family, so I missed out on "casual learning" opportunities, and don't have anyone to talk to IRL to get this info, so it's really hard to apply my city-living experience to try to extrapolate what life might be like if I make a goal to buy a small home in Nowheretown, USA to retire in 20 years down the line.

Anyway. So what do expenses look like if you have a small paid off house? What range do utilities run in for you (in your particular climate), what's home insurance like, what sort of unexpected expenses pop up when you own instead of rent?

What's utilities like for sewer and trash, especially? Those have always been rolled into my rent. Is rural internet still limited to DSL or satellite (or Starlink I guess these days), or has better infrastructure been rolled out in places over the past 20 years since I last looked for this info?

Edit: Also...talk to me about well water and well expenses, and septic tanks instead of sewer lines, and oil heating. I promise I'll listen!

Edit 2: Also talk to me about how propane works.

Thanks everyone. :)

 

Mine--don't laugh--is random fruit from fruit trees hanging over walls and over the sidewalk.

Although, I once tried to take a plum from a wasp who was sitting on the fruit, and she turned and looked at me, and I quickly let go and let her have it.

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