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There’s an old borscht belt joke about insurance - “What if something terrible happens, and you don’t die?”
My wife likes to joke when I'm in an anxiety spiral by saying "okay well on the off chance that society doesn't crumble maybe you should plan for the future". For some reason that always makes me laugh. If it does it does, but it's probably best to have a plan still.
And reasonable budgeting can let you enjoy the now while also planning for the future
I'm 40.
In my late 20s where YOLO got popular, I knew people who followed that lifestyle.
Many of them are still in a hole, still working min wage jobs and chasing after whatever fad.
It's very sad.
The whole YOLO thing never made any sense to me. If you believe in reincarnation or an afterlife, then you have every excuse to risk your life doing whatever you want. There’s usually some kinds of moralistic restrictions, but except in the most extreme religious fundamentalist societies, I suspect wingsuiting on weekends is fair game. If you’re going to live forever no matter what you do, why not?
On the other hand, if you only live once - if you’re one and done - that seems like a demotivation to risk your life before you’re actually done with it.
You only live once, so be safe.
impulse bought a 3D printer over the weekend then returned it today unopened
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Why? 3d printing is so fulfilling.
fulfilling
Also infilling.
Oh no! Please get one soon. Making stuff is important.
I can respect that. But also- set aside money on a regular basis (cash in an envelope for the physical reality or in a budgeting app) until you have enough to get one. And then splurge on that or something else you want more by then!
Both alternating
When you are low on funds versus when you just get paid.
A tab of LSD is just about 5 bucks and one of my best experiences and fondest memories.
That's more like a try once or twice with people you trust than let's do that shit every weekend sort of drug. Or am I wrong?
It depends on you. Some people get therapeutic benefit from regular psychedelic experiences, and never stop. Other people gain life-changing insights from one or several trips. Still others use/abuse it purely for fun, with a range of consequences resulting. A minority of people have adverse reactions where latent mental illnesses like schizophrenia can be triggered.
I'm in the second camp. A couple quotes that I relate to: "Once you get the message, hang up the phone" -- Alan Watts. "Never point [psychedelics] at anything you don't want perforated with new light"-- Terence McKenna.
I'm in the fourth camp 😭
latent mental illnesses like schizophrenia can be triggered.
I'm sorry that happened to you, and I hope you are doing well.
Thank you, the good news is I've never touched drugs at all, because I already know that it would send me into psychosis because I have predisposition to such problems, family history and delicate psychological condition.
So everything I do is intentionally extremely healthy and my life is very boring and I can't do anything fun but that's my life.
You're wrong
Meh, LSD is for kids.
Try 3-HO-PCP & 5-MEO-DMT
I've been interested in psychedelics, but I'm scared I'll open a Pandora's box and then it'll be everyone's problem. What's it like?
My general approach to this tends to be to identify what makes me happy in life, splurge on those, save on everything else. For example, I love computers, so I'd splurge on parts, but religiously meal prep to save on food.
They should hold hands and talk about it.
lmao
My life writ large.
Here's my problem. The boat is an "only live once" purchase though.
Save 15-25% of your income for retirement and future expenses, then spend the rest on whatever you want.
Spend 60% of your income on rent, then spend the rest on various other necessities and have nothing left over to save.
Welcome to modern Western society.
Excuse me sir, where is the crippling debt from not being able to afford any slight inconvenience?
Unfortunately. I can't hit it either, trying my best.
pay people enough to be able to first
Yes.